Good Moms Bad Choices

Happy Hump Day, Tribe. This week, Good Moms talk about what dating actually looks like when you’re a parent (the boundaries, the red flags, the late-night texts). The balance between protecting your peace and still wanting to feel something.

Erica and Milah share five dating tips for single parents, not from a rule book, but from lived experience. If you’re outside, cautiously outside, or just thinking about stepping back in… this one’s for you.

In this episode the ladies talk about:

• Why dating to be “saved” always backfires
• Learning how to be alone (and why it becomes fun when you make it a vibe)
• Being honest from the start and dating from a friendship-first foundation
• How to spot double standards, and red flags before you’re attached
• Why you should never blend families too fast or “play house” too soon

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In this episode, Erica and Milah sit down with Lizzy Jeff. The ladies talk about what it’s like to build something over a long period of time, how priorities change as you get older, and the quiet shifts that happen when you stop forcing yourself into certain timelines.

The conversation moves through aging, work, creativity, femininity, and cannabis culture, with Lizzy sharing stories from her 10 years building Zen & Kush and what she’s noticing now about rest, embodiment, and how her body plays a role in decision-making. They also touch on relationships, partnership, and how being clear about what you want can look different in each phase of life.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• What it actually takes to sustain a creative project over a decade
• Conversations about getting older and rethinking timelines around success and life
• How femininity, leadership, and sensuality can exist at the same time
• Cannabis as part of ritual, culture, and community
• Thoughts on rest, embodiment, and listening to your body
• Reflections on love, dating, and clarity around relationships

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Can a toxic ex leave you physically itchy?

In this episode of Good Moms talk about energy transfer, "spiritually transmitted demons", and what it takes to reinvent yourself when the old version of you no longer fits. From de-centering men (and why that conversation is misunderstood) to centering yourself in a way that finally feels grounding, the girls unpack how survival identities can overstay their welcome.

The girls talk honestly about watching close friends finally leave relationships that no longer serve them, how one big decision can completely change your timeline, and why telling your friends the truth (even when it’s uncomfortable) can be an act of love.Erica shares a vulnerable mushroom realization that made her understand why an old, hyper-guarded version of herself needed to be laid to rest, not erased, not shamed, but honored and released.

Growth is messy, honesty matters, and sometimes the bravest thing you can do is let go of what once kept you safe.

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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (Sold Out)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (4 LEFT- added spots) 

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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This week, Good Moms return from a surprise elopement weekend in Las Vegas that included mob wives fits, drunk zip-lining, stripper heels at the altar, joint bachelor/bachelorette shenanigans, and decisions that absolutely lived up to the podcast name! 

This is your reminder that being authentic does pay off! Cheers to Milah & Orlando! The Tribe loves you both very much! 

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This is your reminder to honor who you are now, not who you think you’re supposed to be. 

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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (Sold Out)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat 

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (4 LEFT- added spots) 

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica 

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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Happy New Year Tribe, 

Erica and Milah are happy to be back but are easing into the new year! The ladies chat about Milah's bachelorette party and how she's "retiring" from lesbianism (for now), insecurity vs. preference, UN-learning saving people, and why sometimes you just want snacks and molly water lol. 

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• Why January doesn’t need to be about grinding, optimizing, or reinventing yourself and how slowing down can actually be the most aligned choice
• Are mirrors, selfies, and self surveillance aging us faster?
• How Milah and Orlando are going to celebrate their Bachelor/ Bachelorette
• What it means to be “too healed to hoe,” and how sexual freedom can evolve without shame
• Letting go of the savior complex and learning that not everyone is yours to rescue
• Why guilt shows up when you rest and how to release it without explaining yourself
• Trusting your body, intuition, and nervous system over social pressure and internet noise

This is your reminder to honor who you are now, not who you think you’re supposed to be. 

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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (Sold Out)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (3 LEFT) 

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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PATREON

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Happy holidays tribe!

In the last episode of the year, Good Moms reflect on what they will and won't carry with them into 2026, how doom-scrolling quietly messes with your mood, and why anxiety can show up even when life is “fine.” They open up about guilt of doing well while the world feels heavy, parenting in a hyper-digital world, and admitting you don’t actually have it all figured out! 

In this episode you can expect to hear: 

• Erica’s pool-side Bali experience with a woman wearing a MAGA hat and how it reminded her to protect your energy
• Taking your children’s phone away, opening an honest conversation about technology, trust, safety, and how childhood conditioning influences parenting decisions.
• Erica and Milah talk about feeling stretched thin while trying to show up for work, kids, partners, family, and friendships and realizing that spreading energy everywhere isn’t sustainable.
• Why you need to go further in your boldness
• How Good Vibes retreat has cultivated real community and lasting friendships
• Intuition, mushrooms, listening to the body, and discerning what information and energy to trust.
• Relying less on the internet and more on inner knowing.
• The episode closes with intentions around release, presence, and entering the next chapter with clearer boundaries, stronger discernment, and a commitment to boldness.

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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (1 more spots left)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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If you’re managing kids, traditions, expectations, and still trying to find a moment for yourself... WELCOME TO THE TRIBE!

This week, Good Moms chat about their Crenshaw mall holiday pictures with Black Santa, mom gift-buying guilt,  their "I still dont like YOU!" list  and some HO-HO-HOLIDAY WHORIES.

You can expect to hear: 

• Family Pictures with Black Santa at the Crenshaw mall 

• The pressure to buy the “right” gifts, the procrastination that always wins, and raising kids who suddenly dress like mini adults

• Why psilocybin, Christmas lights, and budget décor somehow feel like self-care this time of year

• Go-to holiday DRANKS (coquito, eggnog + Henny, whiskey season) for when bedtime can’t come fast enough!

• Their holiday alter-egos, from leather-and-lipstick Santa fantasies to “baking in lingerie” energy

• Holiday party stories that prove moms were out here living long before mom life

• A Tarot pull that brings in balance, patience, and choosing the high road… even when it’s hard

• Check out our merch store!!! Holiday gifts for literally everyone you may know: Good Mom, Dad, Kid, Auntie...etc. Use code CYBERMONDAY for 40% off at checkout. 

If you’ve ever felt torn between loving the season and being overwhelmed by it, this episode will make you feel seen, supported, and part of a community that gets it. Share it with a friend though<3! 

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💰🧢👚 40% OFF GMBC MERCH 🧢👚💰

Use code "CYBERMONDAY" and the discount is applied at checkout! You might as well get your holiday shopping out of the way now and buy a mom, dad, auntie, or kid some cuteeee merch from our fully owned and operated BLACK BUSINESS!!! We have something for everyone.

🛫🏝️ 20% OFF GOOD VIBES RETREAT 🛫🏝️

Use code "CYBERMONDAY" and the discount is applied at checkout! We have 2 upcoming trips and only a few more spots left

🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (2 more spots left)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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PATREON

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Hey Tribe, Good Moms are back from hosting their 19th retreat in Bali! It's crazy the things that can happen when you listen to your intuition! Right now you can get 20% off the upcoming Good Vibes Retreats in Costa Rica and Jamaica , details at the bottom of the description!

This week the ladies recap their Bali retreat, their "chaotic" experience in Bangkok, and the importance of SLOWING DOWN.

You can expect to hear:

• The spiritual softness of Bali and the influence it had on the pace of life
• What it's like raising preteens and the realization that their babies are actually growing up!!
• Bangkok's " red-light district"
• Bangkok Ping-pong shows and the grossness of White Men
• The airport luggage fiasco story

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💰🧢👚 40% OFF GMBC MERCH 🧢👚💰

Use code "CYBERMONDAY" and the discount is applied at checkout! You might as well get your holiday shopping out of the way now and buy a mom, dad, auntie, or kid some cuteeee merch from our fully owned and operated BLACK BUSINESS!!! We have something for everyone.

🛫🏝️ 20% OFF GOOD VIBES RETREAT 🛫🏝️

Use code "CYBERMONDAY" and the discount is applied at checkout! We have 2 upcoming trips and only a few more spots left

🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (2 more spots left)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

------------------------------------------

PATREON

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This week, Good Moms are resurfacing an episode we know you probably need right now.

As the holidays creep in with family drama, emotional burnout, pressure to “be on,” and zero time for yourself, we wanted to bring back a conversation that helps you slow down and remember your power before the season sweeps you up.

We’re revisiting our episode with the magical Lizzy Jeff because it’s grounding, soothing, and low-key a whole self-care ritual in audio form. If you’re already feeling overwhelmed, disconnected from yourself, or like you need a little feminine reset…this is the one.

You’ll hear:

• What “toxic goddess culture” looks like in real life (and why you don’t have to be perfect to be in your goddess bag)
• How to reconnect with your feminine energy on the days you don’t feel divine at all
• Simple rituals, herbs, roses, and sensory practices that help you get back into your body
• How to deal with emotional sensitivity without spiraling
• Why your perception of yourself matters more now than ever
• How to actually use your “goddess toolbox” when life gets chaotic

We brought this episode back because it genuinely brings you back to you, your softness, your intuition, your pleasure, your peace. And with everything this season demands, you deserve a reminder that you’re allowed to slow down and honor yourself too.

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Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat - April 17th- April 22nd

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

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