ShrinkChicks

Introversion, Extroversion, and Your Social Battery


Listen Later

This week on ShrinkChicks, Em and Jen plug into the world of social battery: how much emotional energy we have for connection before we start feeling depleted. They talk through why some people can socialize endlessly while others need significant downtime, and how much factors like temperament, stress load, and basic needs (sleep, food, overstimulation) shape our capacity. Em shares how her battery stays strong when her needs are met, while Jen talks about her natural rhythm of engaging deeply and then requiring real time to recharge.

They explore how to recognize when your social battery is running low and why neither introversion nor extroversion protects you from shame, awkwardness, or the realities of social battery. Listener questions cover topics like explaining low social energy to extroverted family members, navigating the guilt of not matching someone else’s pace, and distinguishing between needing rest versus anxiety pulling you away from connection. They also address how chronic pain can shrink social bandwidth and offer ways to bring joy back into social experiences in a sustainable way.

Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action! PS: Fast forward to around 6:30 to skip the intro and get straight to today’s content.

Get Matched With One of Our Therapists at The Therapy Group!

⁠ShrinkChicks on Instagram⁠

Our ⁠Know Yourself Grow Yourself Journal⁠!!

Check out ShrinkChicks on YouTube by subscribing here! ⁠https://youtube.com/channel/UCrxuhDqoL4ML3UE8b2J2BBg⁠


A special thank you to this week's sponsors for supporting ShrinkChicks! We have these exclusive offers for our listeners:

Quince: Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠quince.com/shrinkchicks⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order

Skims: Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com. After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows

Uncommon Goods: Shop early, have fun, and cross some names off your list at UncommonGoods.com

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

ShrinkChicksBy Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT and Emmalee Bierly, LMFT

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

742 ratings


More shows like ShrinkChicks

View all
Therapy Chat by Laura Reagan, LCSW-C

Therapy Chat

684 Listeners

The Skinny Confidential Him And Her Show by Lauryn Bosstick and Michael Bosstick / Dear Media

The Skinny Confidential Him And Her Show

14,964 Listeners

Almost 30 by Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik

Almost 30

3,910 Listeners

Your Favorite Thing with Wells & Brandi by Podcast Nation

Your Favorite Thing with Wells & Brandi

5,527 Listeners

Girls Gotta Eat by Dear Media

Girls Gotta Eat

29,142 Listeners

The Liz Moody Podcast by Liz Moody

The Liz Moody Podcast

3,173 Listeners

Call Her Daddy by Alex Cooper

Call Her Daddy

165,315 Listeners

Wellness: Fact vs. Fiction by Danielle Belardo

Wellness: Fact vs. Fiction

1,348 Listeners

On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

27,836 Listeners

Naked on Cashmere by Atticus & Podcast Nation

Naked on Cashmere

524 Listeners

The Trip That Changed Me by Full-Time Travel, Podcast Nation

The Trip That Changed Me

145 Listeners

HERself by Abby and Amy

HERself

1,731 Listeners

Seeing Other People by Ilana Dunn

Seeing Other People

587 Listeners

Sorry We're Cyrus by Brandi and Tish Cyrus

Sorry We're Cyrus

1,240 Listeners

The Mom Room by Renee Reina & Podcast Nation

The Mom Room

580 Listeners

FML Talk by Gabrielle Stone

FML Talk

504 Listeners

Giggly Squad by Hannah Berner & Paige DeSorbo

Giggly Squad

15,324 Listeners

Something to Share by Sydney Lotuaco, Podcast Nation

Something to Share

194 Listeners

The Bravo Docket by Cesie and Angela

The Bravo Docket

2,521 Listeners

Welcome to the Collective by Brianne Helfrich

Welcome to the Collective

94 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

We Can Do Hard Things

41,580 Listeners

For You From Eve by For You From Eve

For You From Eve

0 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

21,405 Listeners

Let's Talk About Down There by Jennifer Lincoln

Let's Talk About Down There

79 Listeners

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari by Dear Media

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari

3,450 Listeners

After Bedtime with Big Little Feelings by Dear Media and Big Little Feelings

After Bedtime with Big Little Feelings

5,538 Listeners

CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT by Calling Home

CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT

382 Listeners

Invisible Scars by Jessalynn Biederstadt

Invisible Scars

11 Listeners

Before We Go by Podcast Nation

Before We Go

318 Listeners

The Oprah Podcast by Harpo

The Oprah Podcast

1,755 Listeners

The Telepathy Tapes by Ky Dickens

The Telepathy Tapes

8,807 Listeners

too much. by Emma Paige

too much.

364 Listeners

Between Us with Allison and Weslie by Podcast Nation

Between Us with Allison and Weslie

39 Listeners

How We Got Away with Murder by Podcast Nation

How We Got Away with Murder

27 Listeners