Last First Date Radio

By Sandy WeinerSociety & Culture Relationships

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February 27, 2024EP 598: Live Coaching With Beth - What Type of “Work” Do I Need to Help Me Find Love?
This is a one-time session with Beth, who wrote in to be coached live on the podcast: “I’m fifty-four-years-old and have been divorced for five-and-a-half years. I’ve had two long-term relationships and several others that have fizzled out for one reason or another. This last round of online dating, I thought I was very intentional. I found one man who had all the qualities I’m looking for, and we had lots in common, but the attraction was mediocre and did not grow much in the two months of dating. I just ended things with him.
I want to have chemistry and compatibility. My therapist has helped me see that I need to step away from dating and do more work on myself. I am willing to do the work, I just don’t know what that work is and when I should try dating again? I want to find the right romantic partner. Please help!”
This is a one-time session with Beth, who wrote in to be coached live on the podcast: “I’m fifty-four-years-old and have been divorced for five-and-a-half years. I’ve had two long-term relationships and several others that have fizzled out for one reason or another. This last round of online dating, I thought I was very intentional. I found one man who had all the qualities I’m looking for, and we had lots in common, but the attraction was mediocre and did not grow much in the two months of dating. I just ended things with him.
I want to have chemistry and compatibility. My therapist has helped me see that I need to step away from dating and do more work on myself. I am willing to do the work, I just don’t know what that work is and when I should try dating again? I want to find the right romantic partner. Please help!”
Listen as I coach Beth in this episode of Last First Date Radio and learn:
What it means to do the “work” to find love

How being a people pleaser keeps you from attracting the right partner

Can attraction grow?

What it means to date with intention

How to create your TRUE must-have and deal breaker lists (it’s not what most people think)

The hidden benefits of working on yourself (hint: it’s not just about finding your partner)

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►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9

►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching

►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear

►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/

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52 min
February 25, 2024 #Sundays With Sandy - Do You Need to Heal Before Dating Again?
Do you have to heal completely before dating again after a breakup, divorce, or loss? The short answer is no, because we are never completely healed, and there’s a risk of doing so much healing, you put off dating altogether. But, the longer answer is it’s important to do some healing and self-reflection before jumping into a new relationship, or you will run the risk of repeating unhealthy dating patterns. In this episode of Sundays with Sandy, you’ll learn about the type of healing that’s necessary and how to assess when you’re ready to start dating again.

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►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application

►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate

►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9

►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching

►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear

►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/

►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/

► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/

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7 min
February 20, 2024 EP 597: Topaz Adizes - How to Achieve Greater Intimacy (by asking the right questions)
Topaz Adizes is an Emmy Award-winning writer, director, and experience design architect. He is the founder and executive director of the experience design studio The Skin Deep. He is also the author of 12 Questions for Love: A Guide to Intimate Conversations and Deeper Relationships, where he reveals how every relationship can be deepened through the 12 carefully crafted questions featured in his documentary series {THE AND}.
In this episode of Last First Date Radio:
● Where the initial idea for the book came from
● The power of questions to deepen intimacy
● Powerful dating advice that will help you find your partner
Connect with Topaz
Book https://amzn.to/3OisUdx
Shop https://shop.theskindeep.com/
Website https://www.topazadizes.com/
IG https://www.instagram.com/the_skindeep/
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/TheSkinDeep/
TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theskindeep?lang=en
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/theskindeep/videos

►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio

►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application

►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate

►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9

►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching

►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear

►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/

►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/

► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/

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52 min
February 18, 2024 #Sundays With Sandy - How to Build Trust in Dating
Has your trust ever been betrayed in dating or in a relationship? If so, it can be hard to trust when you date again. You will probably be on high alert for any potential threats to the relationship. When you don’t trust the people you date, you become hyper-vigilant, looking for what that person could do to hurt you, and that could sabotage a potentially healthy relationships. I’m going to share why it’s hard to trust and how to build trust in dating.
►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio

►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application

►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate

►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9

►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching

►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear

►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/

►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/

► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/

►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate
6 min
February 13, 2024EP 596: Kelli Miller - Love Hacks: Simple Solutions to Common Relationship Issues
Kelli Miller is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and radio host. She is the author of the couples relationship book “Love Hacks: Simple Solutions to Your Most Common Relationship Issues” and the award winning best-selling author of “Thriving with ADHD”. She was a relationship host on Balance by Nature TV and is currently a writer and relationship host for wikihow.com. Kelli was a co-host on LA Talk Radio with over 1 million listeners, 250 guest celebrities and authors, and an expert radio personality for SIRIUS/XM Radio. She was the “Women’s Relationship Expert '' on the Examiner.com and was recently quoted in Oprah magazine in three relationship articles.
In this episode of Last First Date Radio:
Why it’s harder now for couples to work together than a decade ago

Why couples stop having sex and the top three tips for dealing with sexual issues

Advice for coping with addiction, anger, and past trauma that enters into relationships

Why time-outs aren't just for children

What is the fast-food communication method?

The number one recommendation to rekindle connection

Website www.kellimillertherapy.com
IG https://www.instagram.com/kellimillertherapy/
Book https://amzn.to/4bu9i0j

►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio

►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application

►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate

►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9

►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching

►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear

►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/

►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/

► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/

►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate
36 min
February 11, 2024 #Sundays With Sandy - Chemistry or Compatibility: How to Choose a Partner
Which is more important – chemistry or compatibility? Are they equally important? One of the biggest challenges in romantic relationships is finding the balance between chemistry and compatibility. In this solo episode, you'll learn how to choose a partner based on both.

►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio

►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application

►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate

►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9

►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching

►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear

►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/

►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/

► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/

►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate
7 min
February 06, 2024EP 595: Michelle Skeen - Stay Away From Toxic Relationships and Trauma Bonds
Dr. Michelle Skeen has a doctorate in clinical psychology, and she is the author of eight books, including her latest book, “Why Can’t I Let You Go”. Her books are designed to enhance relationships by emphasizing the importance of identifying core beliefs that are keeping you stuck in limited thinking and unhelpful behavioral patterns. She also helps people with useful tools, such as a focus on values, mindfulness, self-compassion, effective communication, and conflict resolution skills.
In this episode of Last First Date Radio:
Understanding Your Attachment Style and Temperament

The Core of the Relationship Trauma Bond

Trauma-Bonding Coping Behaviors

Relationship Trauma-Bond Traps

End Toxic Communication

A Map for Navigating Your New Path

Connect with Michelle
Website: https://www.michelleskeen.com/
Why Can’t I Let You Go Book https://amzn.to/3OdDPp5

►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio

►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application

►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate

►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9

►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching

►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear

►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/

►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/

► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/

►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate
1 hr 3 min
February 04, 2024 #Sundays With Sandy - 5 Signs You're Emotionally Unavailable
If you consistently attract emotionally unavailable partners, chances are you’re emotionally unavailable, too. The causes of emotional unavailability could include an insecure attachment style or childhood trauma.
Learning to recognize the signs of emotional unavailability will help you begin to heal and form relationships that are more intimate and longer lasting with partners who are emotionally available as well. In this episode, you’ll learn five signs that you’re emotionally unavailable and what you can do about it.

►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio

►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application

►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate

►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9

►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching

►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear

►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/

►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/

► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/

►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate
6 min
January 30, 2024EP 594: Sade Curry - The How-To Guide on Dating After Divorce
Sade Curry is a Dating Coach for Divorced Women and host of the Dating after Divorce podcast. She is certified in trauma coaching, feminist coaching, and life and relationship coaching and teaches women strategies for going through divorce with emotional balance, healing, rebuilding, and finding love again. Sade is married to her second husband Kent Curry and they live in St. Louis, Missouri.
In this episode of Last First Date Radio:
Why the modern dating scene creates so much anxiety and overwhelm

Some of the unique challenges divorced women face when dating

What it means to Date with your Core Values

Tips for creating a dating profile that attracts a compatible partner

Why it’s important to look for Green Flags instead of Red Flags

Connect with Sade Curry
Website: http://sadecurry.com
Podcast: http://sadecurry.com/podcast
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sadecurry/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sadecurrylifecoach
Free gift: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy Partner

https://pages.datingafterdivorceacademy.com/is-he-the-one

►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio

►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application

►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate

►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9

►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching

►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear

►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/

►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/

► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/

►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate
47 min
January 28, 2024 #Sundays With Sandy - 5 Qualities of a Good Partner
What are the qualities of a good partner? Most of us get this wrong. Why? Because what you think you want and what you actually NEED are often very different. That’s why it’s so important to identify the character traits of a good partner. It will help to ensure a long lasting healthy and satisfying relationship. In this episode, you'll learn what these qualities are.

►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio

►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application

►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate

►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9

►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching

►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear

►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/

►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/

► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/

►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate

4 min

About Last First Date Radio

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Join Sandy Weiner, THE dating and relationship coach for people over 40, for this inspirational show about attracting and sustaining healthy relationships in midlife and beyond. Learn the most effective tools for transforming the way you date, mate, and relate. Listen to interviews with top experts and cutting edge authors, plus LIVE coaching sessions to help you go on your LAST FIRST DATE!