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June 11 Your Marriage Isn't Broken. You're Just Too Close with Dr. Corey Allan
You haven't had a big blowup — you've just quietly become two people sharing a house, and you're not sure when that happened. Dr. Corey Allan explains why the problem isn't that you've grown apart, but that you may have lost yourselves trying to become one — and why you going first is the only move that actually breaks the stalemate. Start the conversation tonight with Dr. Diane's free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist at mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe.
About the Guest:
*Dr. Corey Allan
Expertise: Corey Allan (if you want to be formal it’s Dr. Corey Allan, but he's usually pretty casual) is a husband, father, author, speaker, as well as a Marriage and Family Therapist with a Ph.D. in Family Therapy. He and his wife Pam host a weekly podcast, Sexy Marriage Radio, where they help frame conversations and actions that help couples create a marriage fully alive. ??Corey has a private practice and is the founder of SMR, an online resource aimed at helping marriages not just survive, but thrive. Pam is a CPA at a small firm in Frisco TX as well as a cohost with Corey's work. Marriage is more about developing character and wisdom as a human than it is about the two people being happy.??Love is a process, not just a feeling. It produces action. Added to this, life is choice (so is marriage). Therefore we work to help people: Grow deeper Spiritually, Keep it simple, Be passionate, Live in community with others and Enjoy the ride.
https://smr.fm @sexymarriageradion (on all social platforms)
https://smr.fm/gofirst
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
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💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
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Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction and welcome with Dr. Corey Allan
1:27 Dr. Corey Allan's journey into marriage therapy
2:36 The complexity of couple's therapy
4:12 Common mistakes in marriage therapy
8:24 Handling reactions in relationships
12:02 Dealing with infidelity in relationships
17:28 Addressing the feelings of the betrayed partner
20:02 The impact of shame and guilt in relationships
21:27 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society by Dr. Diane Mueller
23:00 Differentiating between guilt and shame
23:59 Addressing the innate worthiness in people
25:18 Differences between guilt and shame
26:28 Approaching shame and its origins
29:16 Introduction to the book "Go First"
30:37 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's pumps
32:03 Internal vs. external locus of control
34:45 The importance of renegotiating agreements in relationships
39:02 Concept of "Go First" in creating better intimacy
41:33 Common issues causing connection loss in couples
44:16 Information on Dr. Corey Allan's resources and podcast
(0:00) Introduction and welcome with Dr. Corey Allan
(1:27) Dr. Corey Allan's journey into marriage therapy
(2:36) The complexity of couple's therapy
(4:12) Common mistakes in marriage therapy
(8:24) Handling reactions in relationships
(12:02) Dealing with infidelity in relationships
(17:28) Addressing the feelings of the betrayed partner
(20:02) The impact of shame and guilt in relationships
(21:27) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society by Dr. Diane Mueller
(23:00) Differentiating between guilt and shame
(23:59) Addressing the innate worthiness in people
(25:18) Differences between guilt and shame
(26:28) Approaching shame and its origins
(29:16) Introduction to the book "Go First"
(30:37) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's pumps
(32:03) Internal vs. external locus of control
(34:45) The importance of renegotiating agreements in relationships
(39:02) Concept of "Go First" in creating better intimacy
(41:33) Common issues causing connection loss in couples
(44:16) Information on Dr. Corey Allan's resources and podcast
47 min
June 03 Highly Sensitive People: Your Sensitivity Is a Sex Superpower with Rachel Dorneanu
If you've ever pulled away from your partner not because you don't love them, but because the lighting was wrong, the sheets felt scratchy, or the noise in your head wouldn't stop — this episode was made for you. You'll learn why your nervous system has a "window" for feeling safe enough to connect, and what's actually happening when you check out, go cold, or just… can't get there — even when you want to. If you want to go deeper on understanding your own turn-on and turn-off patterns, take Dr. Diane's free Your Sex Code Language quiz at mylibidodoc.com/libido-code.
About the Guest:
*Rachel Dorneanu
Expertise: Rachel Dorneanu (she/her) is a licensed therapist, AASECT- certified sex therapist, and board-certified coach specializing in Anxiety, HSPs, People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Sex Therapy, with a passion for helping people reconnect with their bodies, reduce shame, and find freedom in their wellness journey. She holds a Master's in Counseling and brings over 8 years of experience working with millennial women and moms.?Through her work as a therapist and coach, Rachel integrates evidence-based approaches with compassionate education to normalize topics often left in the dark—like pelvic pain, pleasure, and embodiment. She is known for her relatable, down-to-earth style and her ability to make complex or uncomfortable topics accessible and affirming.??Outside of her professional life, Rachel enjoys practicing yoga, spending time with her husband and 2 children, and traveling.
Learn more at: www.sagecounselingtherapyandwellness.com or www.racheldorneanu.com
https://SageCounselingTherapyAndWellness.com/ www.RachelDorneanu.com https://www.facebook.com/SageCounselingWellness https://www.instagram.com/sage_counseling_wellness/ https://www.tiktok.com/@sagecounselingwellness https://www.pinterest.com/SageCounselingWellness https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-butler-dorneanu/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/sage-counseling-wellness https://youtube.com/@sagecounselingandwellness https://www.amazon.com/shop/rachel_butler_counseling
Intro to Sex Therapy Freebie https://sagecounselingtherapyandwellness.com/shop/
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
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💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
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Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction and overview with Rachel Dorneanu
1:22 Orgasm through music and sexy sensitivity
2:11 Medical insights on highly sensitive brains
2:49 Deconstructing negative connotations of sensitivity
4:07 Impact of sensitivity on sexual experiences
5:45 Practical tips for partners and addressing gaslighting
8:05 Advocating for sensitivity needs and communication strategies
10:29 Sound sensitivity in intimacy and curiosity about partner's needs
13:06 Turn ons and turn offs for highly sensitive people
15:03 Hot Monogamy Society and mindfulness in intimacy
18:29 Sensory sensitivities, intimacy, and handling sound issues
21:00 Training partners and nervous system regulation
21:50 Sponsor: Lioness and Lexus
23:51 The window of tolerance and stress responses
25:50 Calming techniques, body awareness, and communication
27:35 Routine, novelty, and downstream effects of high sensitivity
29:00 Rachel Dorneanu's freebie and contact information
30:06 Product links and part two
(0:00) Introduction and overview with Rachel Dorneanu
(1:22) Orgasm through music and sexy sensitivity
(2:11) Medical insights on highly sensitive brains
(2:49) Deconstructing negative connotations of sensitivity
(4:07) Impact of sensitivity on sexual experiences
(5:45) Practical tips for partners and addressing gaslighting
(8:05) Advocating for sensitivity needs and communication strategies
(10:29) Sound sensitivity in intimacy and curiosity about partner's needs
(13:06) Turn ons and turn offs for highly sensitive people
(15:03) Hot Monogamy Society and mindfulness in intimacy
(18:29) Sensory sensitivities, intimacy, and handling sound issues
(21:00) Training partners and nervous system regulation
(21:50) Sponsor: Lioness and Lexus
(23:51) The window of tolerance and stress responses
(25:50) Calming techniques, body awareness, and communication
(27:35) Routine, novelty, and downstream effects of high sensitivity
(29:00) Rachel Dorneanu's freebie and contact information
(30:06) Product links and part two preview
(30:57) Subscribe, share, and closing remarks
32 min
May 28 Feel Sexy Again In Bed and In Your Own Skin with Rebecca Whitman
If you've tried everything and your bedroom is still quiet, this episode is going to feel like someone finally said the thing out loud. You'll walk away understanding why focusing on your partner's behavior is actually what's keeping you stuck and what you can start doing today that's entirely within your own control. If you're ready to stop waiting and start shifting, grab the free "Yes, No, Maybe Checklist" at mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe, it's a small, low-pressure step you and your partner can do together tonight.
About the Guest:
*Rebecca Whitman
Expertise: Rebecca Whitman, the Abundance Mentor, an international best-selling author, graduated with honors from Princeton University. She received the awards of Mindset Coach of the Decade and Empowered Woman of the Year by International Association of Top Professionals. “USA Today” rated her in the top 5 entrepreneurs to watch in 2024.? ?Host of the top 1% globally ranked “Balanced, Beautiful, and Abundant” podcast that won the Positive Change Award. Her philosophy divides life into 7 Pillars of Abundance which include: spiritual, physical, emotional, romantic, mental, social, and financial. She coaches people to achieve alignment within these seven areas, so they can experience a life of joy and freedom.
Http://pillar.io/rebeccaewhitman
Balanced Beautiful Bundle: https://link.meetyourva.co/widget/form/MlMHCyc0SlifQJIduDPS
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
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Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction and Rebecca Whitman’s romantic challenges
3:00 Rebecca’s journey to finding her soulmate
6:20 What it means to be "romantically challenged"
7:11 The four A's of transformation
10:23 Applying the four A's to performance anxiety
11:49 Acceptance and its role in personal growth
14:18 Effective use of affirmations
16:28 Self-interest and improving relationships
19:09 Affirmations vs. limiting beliefs
22:39 Creating personalized affirmations
24:29 Working on multiple pillars of abundance
27:33 Applying success across life pillars
27:42 Scheduling intimacy and social interactions
28:50 Framework for daily, weekly, and interconnected activities
28:57 Sponsor: Balanced Beautiful Bundle
30:13 Rebecca Whitman’s mentorship programs
31:06 Closing strategies and final encouragement
31:27 Subscribe, share, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online
(0:00) Introduction and Rebecca Whitman’s romantic challenges
(3:00) Rebecca’s journey to finding her soulmate
(6:20) What it means to be "romantically challenged"
(7:11) The four A's of transformation
(10:23) Applying the four A's to performance anxiety
(11:49) Acceptance and its role in personal growth
(14:18) Effective use of affirmations
(16:28) Self-interest and improving relationships
(19:09) Affirmations vs. limiting beliefs
(22:39) Creating personalized affirmations
(24:29) Working on multiple pillars of abundance
(27:33) Applying success across life pillars
(27:42) Scheduling intimacy and social interactions
(28:50) Framework for daily, weekly, and interconnected activities
(28:57) Sponsor: Balanced Beautiful Bundle
(30:13) Rebecca Whitman’s mentorship programs
(31:06) Closing strategies and final encouragement
(31:27) Subscribe, share, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online
33 min
May 21 Why He Can't Stay Hard (And How To Actually Fix This) with Jeff Nuziard
You've been lying there wondering if this is just... what marriage becomes now — and that quiet resignation is the most unfair thing, because this episode makes the case that what's happening in your body has a name, a mechanism, and a 97% fix rate. You'll understand, maybe for the first time, that the slowdown isn't about attraction or effort — it's about collagen, blood flow, and testosterone shifts that started in your 30s without anyone warning you. If you want to understand what's actually going on in your body before your next appointment, take Dr. Diane's free "Why Is My Desire Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/freebies — it covers both the physical and emotional side and points you toward real solutions.
About the Guest:
*Jeff Nuziard
Expertise: Jeff Nuziard is the founder of Sexual Wellness Centers of America and the innovator of REGENmax®, the only patented protocol proven to cure and prevent erectile and vaginal dysfunction. More than 3,000 patients have completed the program, with outcomes that consistently reflect the remarkable 97.2% success rate first demonstrated in his clinical trial.??His work began with personal experience. At 40, Jeff faced erectile dysfunction himself and found that pills eventually stopped working. Instead of accepting decline as inevitable, he approached the problem differently. Free from the confines of traditional medical training, he asked questions others weren’t asking, which led to 15 years of digging into white papers, conducting cadaver studies, and testing ideas with physicians willing to challenge convention. His persistence paid off: Jeff uncovered why dysfunction happens, why standard treatments fail, and how a multi-layered protocol could restore natural function and prevent decline before it begins. In recognition of this work, he was later awarded an honorary PhD.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeff-nuziard-24930920b/
https://www.instagram.com/regenmax_ed/?igsh=MTRhdHZuZThmYzFwbQ%3D%3D
https://www.facebook.com/people/REGENmax/61557429745690/
https://regenmax.com/
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
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Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction and Jeff Nuziard’s background with erectile dysfunction
1:31 Age-related sexual dysfunction and common misconceptions
4:39 The role of testosterone, collagen, and discovering root causes
11:12 Development of new protocols and laser treatments
14:49 Addressing root causes of sexual dysfunction
15:02 Introduction of the LUXIS device for sexual wellness
17:22 Importance of pelvic floor health
21:02 Accessing resources and preview of part two
23:58 Understanding "sexual dysfunction" and its impact on men
24:58 Encouraging men to seek help with age-related changes
25:35 Introduction of the Lioness device for tracking female orgasms
26:16 Further resources, part two, and closing remarks
26:48 Connecting with Dr. Diane Mueller
(0:00) Introduction and Jeff Nuziard’s background with erectile dysfunction
(1:31) Age-related sexual dysfunction and common misconceptions
(4:39) The role of testosterone, collagen, and discovering root causes
(11:12) Development of new protocols and laser treatments
(14:49) Addressing root causes of sexual dysfunction
(15:02) Introduction of the LUXIS device for sexual wellness
(17:22) Importance of pelvic floor health
(21:02) Accessing resources and preview of part two
(23:58) Understanding "sexual dysfunction" and its impact on men
(24:58) Encouraging men to seek help with age-related changes
(25:35) Introduction of the Lioness device for tracking female orgasms
(26:16) Further resources, part two, and closing remarks
(26:48) Connecting with Dr. Diane Mueller
27 min
May 14 He Lost His Drive. Is It His Testosterone? with Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS
You've watched him pull away and wondered if something is actually wrong with his body — and you were right to wonder. Dr. Arthur Burnett, Johns Hopkins urologist, breaks down exactly what testosterone does (and doesn't) do for men's drive, erections, and mood — and why a basic blood test isn't the whole picture. If your husband has quietly gone cold and neither of you knows why, take the free "Why Is My Drive Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/libido-quiz — it takes three minutes and points you toward real answers.
About the Guest:
*Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS
Expertise: Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS is a globally recognized Johns Hopkins urologist, researcher, and educator whose pioneering work in men’s health and erectile function has transformed care worldwide.
Dr. Burnett's website: https://drarthurburnett.com/
For interviews, commentary, speaking engagements, or professional inquiries, listeners are encouraged to visit Manifest Greatness Media at https://manifestgreatnessmedia.com/contact/ to get in touch or contact Dr. Burnett directly through his website at https://drarthurburnett.com
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
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✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction, hormones, and testosterone's link to libido
1:19 Testosterone's effects on libido, cognition, and physical function
3:30 Testosterone replacement therapy: effectiveness and considerations
4:55 When and why to test testosterone levels
5:54 Testosterone and erectile dysfunction
7:16 Lab tests recommended for testosterone evaluation
9:17 Treatment options and delivery methods for testosterone
14:48 Lifestyle factors affecting testosterone therapy
(0:00) Introduction, hormones, and testosterone's link to libido
(1:19) Testosterone's effects on libido, cognition, and physical function
(3:30) Testosterone replacement therapy: effectiveness and considerations
(4:55) When and why to test testosterone levels
(5:54) Testosterone and erectile dysfunction
(7:16) Lab tests recommended for testosterone evaluation
(9:17) Treatment options and delivery methods for testosterone
(14:48) Lifestyle factors affecting testosterone therapy
21 min
May 07 Why She Goes Cold When You Try to Flirt with Maureen Pound
If you've stopped flirting with your partner because it never lands — or you feel like you need a manual just to send a text — you're not broken, and neither is she. In this episode, you'll learn why a non-response to a flirty message isn't rejection, and how to read the real signal so you stop pulling back at exactly the wrong moment. And when things do start moving again, make sure you're set up for success — grab Dr. Diane's free Lube Guide at mylibidodoc.com/lube-guide, because not all lube is created equal and the wrong one can kill the mood before it starts.
About the Guest:
*Maureen Pound
Expertise: Maureen Pound is committed to supporting people with sex, relationships and money. ??From her dating book where she provides practical steps for men to connect with women for fun or relationships to her viral TikTok videos where she shares how she became a millionaire and what women do wrong during sex. ??She is said the things that people are thinking but too afraid to say.
http://howtogetlaidontinder.com/
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
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✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/
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✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction, Maureen Pound’s background, and today’s topic
3:02 Maureen’s research and writing her book
4:01 Key learnings from Maureen’s book
7:07 Compliments and their impact in relationships
9:46 Communicating sexual desires with specificity
10:42 Mistakes men make when initiating sexting
12:20 Tips for sexting in long-term relationships
15:00 How to handle receiving a sext
17:20 Responding to sexts when feeling unsure
19:41 Managing sexting amidst a busy day
21:22 Preview of part two and concluding thoughts
(0:00) Introduction, Maureen Pound’s background, and today’s topic
(3:02) Maureen’s research and writing her book
(4:01) Key learnings from Maureen’s book
(7:07) Compliments and their impact in relationships
(9:46) Communicating sexual desires with specificity
(10:42) Mistakes men make when initiating sexting
(12:20) Tips for sexting in long-term relationships
(15:00) How to handle receiving a sext
(17:20) Responding to sexts when feeling unsure
(19:41) Managing sexting amidst a busy day
(21:22) Preview of part two and concluding thoughts
23 min
April 30 She Never Finishes. He Finishes Too Fast. Here's Why With Dr. Diane Mueller
She's been faking it. He's been finishing too fast. And neither of you has said it out loud yet. After this episode, you'll understand the exact arousal technique that trains your body to build longer, reach deeper, and actually close the gap — for both of you, using the same method. If you want to go further, take Dr. Diane's free Orgasm Perception Quiz at https://mylibidodoc.com/orgasmic-perception-questionnaire/ — many women are already having orgasms and don't know it.
(0:00) Introduction, welcome, and importance of sexual satisfaction
(1:15) Addressing the orgasm gap, desire mismatch, and oxytocin's role
(3:18) Trust adaptation and its impact on relationships
(4:31) Benefits of regular sex for health and relationships
(5:16) Ancient Chinese sexual practices for health
(6:27) Invitation to take the libido quiz
(7:10) The arousal scale for men and women
(8:55) Techniques for men to last longer and women to enhance orgasm
(13:06) Importance of blood flow and genital health
(14:03) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan
(16:34) Holistic approach to improving sexual health
(17:57) Lifelong sexual activity and maintaining genital health
(18:36) Invitation for feedback and guest recommendations
(18:56) Outro and contact information
20 min
April 23 She's Not Broken. He Just Doesn't Know How Yet with Dr. Saida Désilets & Aaron Michael
If sex has started to feel like something that works for him and not really for you or you're the one quietly wondering why she never seems to get there you're not broken, and you're not alone. In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael reveal why the orgasm gap has almost nothing to do with effort and everything to do with a system nobody taught you including why lasting longer actually means feeling more, not less. Take the free Orgasm Perception Quiz at mylibidodoc.com/orgasmic-perception-questionnaire to find out what your body might already be doing that you're missing.
About the Guest:
*Dr. Saida Désilets & Aaron Michael
Expertise: Dr. Saida Désilets wants to live in a world filled with audacious, sexually sovereign people, living life on their own terms. As a Tedx speaker, counter-culture creatrix, and author, her scientifically proven work on sexual sovereignty globally impacts professionals and the public. When not facilitating transformational programs, Dr. Saida enjoys leading Wilderness Safaris in South Africa and swimming in the Aegean Sea.
Aaron Michael is your coach’s coach, helping others discover, explore and integrate their sex life by providing a no BS, pleasure-based sex education. He’s the author of medical & therapeutic protocols, the book Optimal Sex Life, creator of Bedroom Masterclass, and Founder of SuctionSexTM—an Enactive Sexual method that’s changing how the world makes love and how sex therapy and coaching is done.
YeahFap.com
9NaughtyNights.com
AwakenSensualWoman.com
EmbodiedLoveUniversity.com
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Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction, orgasm gap statistics, and guest welcome
1:14 The orgasm gap and intimacy
2:26 Defining and understanding the orgasm gap
3:07 Orgasm rates and relationship status
4:22 Root causes of the orgasm gap
5:34 Pleasure anatomy and mutual pleasure
7:00 Misconceptions about lasting longer
10:33 Overview of the AFAP program
14:23 Motivation, performance anxiety, and breaking the cycle
15:46 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps
17:44 Strategies to address performance anxiety
20:30 Active receivers and adaptive givers
21:38 Mental arousal and psychological triggers
22:10 Phases of engorgement and sexual response
23:48 Clever cock and clever pussy concepts
24:27 Preview of part two and upcoming topics
25:07 Techniques for deeper connection and couple’s toys
26:05 Free resources, Embodied Love University, and foundational videos
26:56 Closing remarks, appreciation, and reminders
(0:00) Introduction, orgasm gap statistics, and guest welcome
(1:14) The orgasm gap and intimacy
(2:26) Defining and understanding the orgasm gap
(3:07) Orgasm rates and relationship status
(4:22) Root causes of the orgasm gap
(5:34) Pleasure anatomy and mutual pleasure
(7:00) Misconceptions about lasting longer
(10:33) Overview of the AFAP program
(14:23) Motivation, performance anxiety, and breaking the cycle
(15:46) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps
(17:44) Strategies to address performance anxiety
(20:30) Active receivers and adaptive givers
(21:38) Mental arousal and psychological triggers
(22:10) Phases of engorgement and sexual response
(23:48) Clever cock and clever pussy concepts
(24:27) Preview of part two and upcoming topics
(25:07) Techniques for deeper connection and couple’s toys
(26:05) Free resources, Embodied Love University, and foundational videos
(26:56) Closing remarks, appreciation, and reminders
28 min
April 16 We Never Said What Cheating Was — And That Was the Problem with Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S
You've been stewing over something your partner did — or maybe you're the one who did something and keeps telling yourself it didn't count — and either way, nobody in this marriage ever actually wrote the rules down. After listening, you'll understand that most betrayals don't start with a choice to cheat; they start with two people who assumed their definitions of "faithful" were the same without ever checking. If this episode made you want to start rebuilding that physical connection, Dr. Diane's free video e-book gives you a step-by-step strategy to get there — grab it at mylibidodoc.com/libido-video-ebook.
About the Guest:
*Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S.
Expertise: Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a therapist-turned-relationship coach, writer, and speaker whose work centers on love, desire, and authenticity. Courtney is the author of Not Tonight Honey and Opened. She has been featured in The New York Post, Cosmopolitan, The Huffington Post, and BBC Radio Live. Drawing on her background in mental health and sex therapy, she brings a unique blend of professional expertise and lived experience to conversations around relationships and identity. When she isn’t writing or coaching, Courtney can be found chasing joy—traveling, reading, or savoring delicious coffee and deep conversation. She is passionate about helping women break free from shame, reclaim their bodies and voices, and create relationships rooted in honesty and autonomy.?Courtney lives in Germany with her husband and three children, where she is still learning, unlearning, and writing the next chapter of her story.
https://linktr.ee/coachcourtneyboyer
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Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
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Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction and overview of infidelity with Courtney Boyer
2:43 Misunderstandings, definitions, and emotional responses to infidelity
5:17 Assessing motivation and investment in repairing relationships
7:14 First steps: Creating emotional safety after infidelity
8:28 The role of initial agreements and assumptions in monogamy
11:29 Navigating conversations about boundaries and agreements
17:35 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps
19:30 Setting up successful conversations and maintaining emotional safety
22:33 Preview of part two and communicating boundaries
23:11 Courtney Boyer's free resources and pleasure practices
24:04 Encouragement to explore Courtney Boyer's work
24:18 Farewell, subscribe reminder, and how to connect with Dr. Diane Mueller
(0:00) Introduction and overview of infidelity with Courtney Boyer
(2:43) Misunderstandings, definitions, and emotional responses to infidelity
(5:17) Assessing motivation and investment in repairing relationships
(7:14) First steps: Creating emotional safety after infidelity
(8:28) The role of initial agreements and assumptions in monogamy
(11:29) Navigating conversations about boundaries and agreements
(17:35) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps
(19:30) Setting up successful conversations and maintaining emotional safety
(22:33) Preview of part two and communicating boundaries
(23:11) Courtney Boyer's free resources and pleasure practices
(24:04) Encouragement to explore Courtney Boyer's work
(24:18) Farewell, subscribe reminder, and how to connect with Dr. Diane Mueller
25 min
April 09 She Used Fantasy to Finish. Here's How She Stopped with Sharon Marie Scott
If you've ever needed your mind to "go somewhere else" to finish or you feel weirdly absent from your own pleasure you are not broken, and you are not alone. Sharon Marie Scott reveals why the brain hijacks arousal and walks through the surprisingly simple technique she used to get back into her body, plus the one Wednesday night rule that saved her marriage's physical connection.
If you want to bridge the gap between you and your partner, start with the free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist at https://mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe/ — it’s a conversation starter that feels more like foreplay than homework.
About the Guest:
*Sharon Marie Scott
Expertise: Sharon Marie Scott is an author, erotic mystic, and respected voice in kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle communities, where she has spent nearly two decades exploring the intersections of desire, consent, psychology, and spiritual growth.?Her forthcoming book, Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo Into Erotic Medicine, traces her journey from early erotic shame to erotic sovereignty — offering a nuanced look at how taboo exploration, somatic awareness, and self-devotion can catalyze profound personal transformation.??Sharon is also the creator of The Pleasure Renaissance, a broader cultural initiative that reframes pleasure as a form of physiological intelligence and emotional wellbeing. Her work helps people cultivate a healthy relationship to pleasure by approaching it with presence, integrity, and self-respect.
Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo Into Erotic Medicine (available anywhere books are sold, but here's the Amazon link): https://www.amazon.com/dp/1966346492
Website: www.sharonmariescott.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/sharonlifeturnedon/
YT: https://www.youtube.com/@lifeturnedon
Substack: https://substack.com/@sharonmariescott
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeturnedon
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
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Timestamps:
0:00 Sharon Marie Scott on taboo, orgasm, and mental barriers
1:26 Introduction to today's topic and guest's journey
3:27 The impact of childhood trauma on adult sexuality
5:19 Techniques for disconnecting fantasy from climax and being present
7:22 The role of breath and body awareness in sexual pleasure
8:18 Understanding and addressing shame in sexuality
9:11 Applying techniques to partner play
13:38 Non-penetrative sex nights and their benefits
15:00 Sponsor: Mystery Vibes
18:27 Sponsor: Mature Allure
19:01 Balancing fantasy, real-life play, and BDSM
21:28 Addressing desire mismatch in long-term relationships
25:00 Overcoming erectile dysfunction in BDSM play
26:07 Rope play and taking responsibility for arousal
28:09 Using dance and kink to connect with your erotic self
29:31 Extending foreplay and non-traditional approaches
29:59 Announcement of part two with Sharon Marie Scott
30:21 Sharon Marie Scott's books and upcoming releases
31:39 Closing remarks and gratitude
(0:00) Sharon Marie Scott on taboo, orgasm, and mental barriers
(1:26) Introduction to today's topic and guest's journey
(3:27) The impact of childhood trauma on adult sexuality
(5:19) Techniques for disconnecting fantasy from climax and being present
(7:22) The role of breath and body awareness in sexual pleasure
(8:18) Understanding and addressing shame in sexuality
(9:11) Applying techniques to partner play
(13:38) Non-penetrative sex nights and their benefits
(15:00) Sponsor: Mystery Vibes
(18:27) Sponsor: Mature Allure
(19:01) Balancing fantasy, real-life play, and BDSM
(21:28) Addressing desire mismatch in long-term relationships
(25:00) Overcoming erectile dysfunction in BDSM play
(26:07) Rope play and taking responsibility for arousal
(28:09) Using dance and kink to connect with your erotic self
(29:31) Extending foreplay and non-traditional approaches
(29:59) Announcement of part two with Sharon Marie Scott
(30:21) Sharon Marie Scott's books and upcoming releases
(31:39) Closing remarks and gratitude
32 min

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