Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Gabriella de Mori. Gabriella is a registered counsellor with a Masters Degree in Counselling who thrives on coaching women from emotional overwhelm to self-confidence so they learn to trust themselves to take care of their inner world with grace. Based in Fremantle, Perth she operates a successful private practice offering a variety of dynamic and holistic services that include individual counselling, couples counselling, group courses and coaching, a meditation library and digital resources she has created.

Key points:

- Gabriella introduces herself

- Social media and not feeling “good enough”

- Meditating and self-esteem

- Mindfulness as foreplay

- Dating, feeling sexy, and anxiety

- Unrealistic expectations

Relevant links:

Gabriella’s Instagram: @gabriella.de.mori

Gabriella’s website: https://www.gabriellademori.com/

From episode #57 with Dexter Kendrick.

More from that episode:

- Dexter introduces himself

- Eastern Medicine vs Western Medicine

- Penis heath

- Fertility and conception

- Changing your diet for sexual health

- Prostate health

- Mediumship and sexuality

- Telling people about their future

- Practicing Chinese Medicine as a Black man

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Sureya Leonara. Sureya is a Holistic Sex & Relationship Coach and Writer. She is on a mission to change the world through healing and liberating sexuality, the seed of our creation, in a way that permeates every area of our lives, not just the bedroom. With eloquence, depth, playfulness, unconventional insight, and penetrating intuition, she catalyses profound shifts in the lives of her clients and audiences.

Key points:

- Sureya introduces herself

- Expanding definitions of pleasure and somatic awareness

- Cultivating curiosity, experimentation, and a no-pressure approach to sex

- Supporting partners through mutual understanding and non-linear intimacy

- Addressing performance anxiety and the mind-body connection

Relevant links:

Sureya’s website: www.sureyaleonara.com

Sureya’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sureya_leonara

Sureya’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sureyaleonara

Sureya's free practice: https://blue-block-67264.myflodesk.com/nxsyaw1wyh

From episode #56 with Lauren White.

More from that episode:

Lauren shares the evolution of her message

What does it mean to be sexually confident?

The way we talk about masturbation and sex

The problem with being “good in bed”

Embodying your pleasure

Learning to communicate

Comfortability and sexual confidence

Your body is a playground

Advice for women

Advice for men

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I discuss and debunk some of the major claims made by semen retention practitioners. I also share some opinions about semen retention as well as my own personal experiences and the approach I take with clients.

Key Points:

- Testosterone

- Depression

- Zinc

- Nutrition

- The body

- Premature aging

Relevant links:

Cam's blog: https://cam-fraser.com/blog/

From episode #55 with Asa Baav.

More from that episode:

- Asa shares about her agency, Tailor Matched

- Matchmaking vs Coaching

- What is sexual compatibility?

- Collecting information about our sexual desires

- Approaching conversations about sexual function

- Dating: Don’t waste your time

- Who is using matchmaking services?

- Expanding the dating pool

- The stigma of using a matchmaking service

- Emphasizing connection over appearance

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Daz Alexandra Tendler (she/they/he). Daz is a sex-and-body-positive sexologist holding membership with the Society of Australian Sexologists. With an understanding that everyone’s sexual and relationship desires and needs are unique and diverse, she ensures her non-judgemental and compassionate practice focuses foremost on individual well-being. Daz is trans, queer and neurodiverse – through personal experiences with ethnicity and religion, class, gender and sexual diversity, and neurodiversity, they know how important it is to nurture safe, supportive spaces for marginalised minorities, particularly LGBTQIA+ individuals and those with ADHD and autism.

Key points:

- Daz introduces himself

- Defining ADHD

- ADHD symptoms and impacts

- ADHD and sexual dysfunction

- Managing ADHD through lifestyle and medication

- Supporting a partner with ADHD

Instagram: @daztranstender

Instagram: @sexspaceau

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daztender/

From episode #54 with Shaft Uddin.

More from that episode:

- Shaft introduces himself as the “Wim Hof of Tantra”

- Portraying Tantra in the mainstream media

- Living in the Tantra bubble

- Lineages and finding your own path

- Shaft’s personal daily practice

- What is an injaculation?

- Conscious ejaculation and consecration

- Ejaculation shaming and non-ejaculatory orgasm

- What does a non-ejaculatory orgasm feel like?

- Researching multiple orgasms for men

- “I love my life, I love my body, I love myself”

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jo Milios, Ph.D. Jo is a Physiotherapist with a special interest in Men’s Health, Yoga, and Pilates. Since establishing a Men’s Health service in 2005, she has treated over 3000 prostatectomy patients, over 500 chronic pelvic pain patients, and 100’s of men with Erectile Dysfunction. Among achievements such as delivering Men’s Health courses to Physiotherapists in Australia, England, Ireland, Portugal, New Zealand, and South Africa, Jo also established PROST! Exercise 4 Prostate Cancer, a not-for-profit community education and exercise program for men in 2012.

Key Points:

- Jo introduces herself

- Prostate health protocols

- Kegels vs Reverse Kegels: Pelvic floor exercises

- Prostatectomy recovery

- Shockwave therapy for erectile dysfunction

- The importance of intimacy

Relevant links:

Jo’s website: http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/

From episode #53 with Ginger Jen.

More from that episode:

- Ginger shares some of her story

- Ginger explains what ADHD is

- Strategies for getting into your body

- How do people with ADHD express their sexuality?

- ADHD and sexual rejection

- Communicating with a partner who has ADHD

- ADHD and high risk sexual behaviour

- Ginger shares about her diagnosis with ADHD

- The intersection of escorting and ADHD

- Working with men in the sexuality space

- The women who sell sex and men who buy it

- Online coaching and final thoughts