Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jenna Love. Jenna has been a sex worker in Australia for over a decade, mostly as an independent full service sex worker and online adult content creator, but also with experience in brothels and massage parlours. She is the President of Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association, and is the co-host and Producer of sex industry podcast Somebody You Love, which was a finalist in the Australian Podcast Awards Sex & Relationships category in 2021. She is a pansexual polyamorous cat mum who lives with her husband of 15 years on Dharug & Gundungurra land in the Blue Mountains, NSW.

Key points:

- Jenna introduces herself

- Decriminalization vs legalization models

- The “whorearhcy”

- Challenging misconceptions about clients

- The range of client experiences

- Pleasure and sex work

Relevant links:

Jenna’s Instagram: @jennaloveaus

From episode #62 with Julieta Chiara.

More from that episode:

- Julieta shares some of her journey

- Sexuality related career pathways

- Discovering your authentic sexual self

- Sex industry expectations and assumptions

- Introducing kink and BDSM

- Male submission and surrender

- Male dominance and assertiveness

- Creating safety to sexually explore

- Experimenting with power play

- Tantra and Shibari

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Destin Gerek. Destin is a Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International. Destin is a globally recognized coach in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. He is the author of the best-selling book, The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and the One She Craves and the creator of the film Seductive Devotion. Destin hosts the podcast Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution.

Key points:

- Destin introduces himself

- Creating safe erotic spaces through consent and care

- Impact of mainstream porn on relationships and sex

- Transforming masculinity through self-mastery and care for women

- Working with high-achieving men through somatic sexology

Relevant links:

Destin’s website: https://destingerek.com/

Destin’s Instagram: @destingerek

From episode 61 with Lindsey, Katie, and Sugar.

More from that episode:

- Lindsey, Katie and Sugar share the origin story of Clit Talk

- Competition vs collaboration

- Polyamory, jealousy and compersion

- You can’t fulfill all your partner’s needs

- What is a pleasure-positive lifestyle?

- Pleasure practices and advice

- How can women get their men to open up?

- Stop coaching your partner

- An unfiltered look inside women’s minds

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Moshe Weizman. Moshe is a certified men’s sex coach, specializing in Sexological Bodywork. Since 2018, has served as the catalyst for many men to discover more fulfilling sexual lives. Guiding them through overcoming insecurities, lasting longer, and unlocking mind-blowing full-body orgasms. His unique approach combines traditional Taoist sexual techniques, practiced for thousands of years, with modern Sexological Bodywork principles. Currently, Moshe offers regular 10-week sexual empowerment courses that can help you too cultivate a sex life that feels amazing and liberating.

Key points:

- Moshe introduces himself

- Incorporating energy practices into solo and partnered sex

- Exploring mindful masturbation practices

- Experiences with non-ejaculatory orgasms

- Scientific research on energetic practices

- Benefits of establishing a self-pleasure practice

Relevant links:

Moshe’s website: www.multiorgasmcoaching.com

From episode #60 with Amanda Biccum.

More from that episode:

- Amanada shares about her work with men

- What is “Men’s Work?”

- Single gender and mixed gender containers

- Listening to men’s stories

- Holding space for you partner’s insecurity

- Moving sexual energy with a partner

- Rigidity kills polarity

- Understanding the feminine

- Practice asserting your boundaries

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Shaun Pickering. Shaun is an Archetypal guide to couples, a sovereign birth guide for men, and also a mentor/coach. He helps men understand where they’re are at in terms of being a pillar in the birth space, as well as helping men build a plan to empower them in the birth space. He is also the host of the Birthspace Brotherhood podcast.

Key points:

- Shaun introduces himself

- What is the Lover Archetype?

- Immature vs Mature

- Addicted vs Impotent

- The importance of self-love

- Embodying the Lover

Relevant links:

Shaun’s website: https://stan.store/shaunpickering

Shaun’s Instagram: @iam.shaunpickering

From episode #59 with Dex Parker. More from that episode:

- Dex shares about his journey

- What is sex work?

- Experiences of a male sex worker

- Erotic content creation

- Alternative expressions of male sexuality

- Discussing pornography

- Advice for exploring your sexuality

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Oli Jenkinson. Oli embarked on his Breathwork journey over 5 years ago amidst the stress of his corporate job, discovering its power to activate his parasympathetic nervous system. Through intuitive exploration and formal training in Bali, he delved deeper into Conscious Connected Breathing, experiencing profound emotional releases that transformed his life. Combining his personal journey with professional training, he founded Alchemy Breathwork, dedicated to guiding others in emotional healing and resilience. Rejecting hyper-spiritualism, Oli's approach emphasizes practical, sustainable growth, helping individuals navigate and process emotions for a fulfilling life. His mission is to provide a space where people can authentically heal and thrive.

Key Points:

- Oli introduces himself

- Breathwork, catharsis, and surrender

- Breathwork at home

- The energetics of breathwork

- Breathwork for men

- Engaging the throat, diaphragm, and perineum

Relevant links:

Oli’s website: https://www.alchemybreathwork.com.au/

Oli’s Instagram: @alchemy.breathwork

From episode #58 with Yuval Mann.

More from that episode:

- Yuval talks about his life journey

- Orthodox Judaism and sexuality

- Relationship with God

- Defining sacredness

- Overcoming sexual blockages

- How transformation happens

- Push vs Pull

- “Good” stress and excitement

- Emotional regulation

- Working with single men