Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Tyson Adams. Tyson is a trauma-informed IFS men’s coach, somatic bodyworker, and psychedelic facilitator. After spending 20 years addicted to pornography, he outgrew it seven years ago and has found his passion and purpose in helping other men master their lifeforce energy. He also co-facilitates men’s work leadership intensives and works with couples experiencing intimacy challenges. When he’s not working, you’ll catch him on a rock wall or riding a slackline in sunny San Diego.

Key points:

- Tyson reintroduces himself

- Defining mindfulness

- Benefits of mindful masturbation

- Challenges to mindful masturbation

- Mirror work and embodiment

- Psychedelic experiences and self-pleasure

Relevant links:

Tyson’s Instagram: @tysonadams__

Tyson’s website: https://linktr.ee/tysonadams

From episode #52, a solo episode with just Cam.

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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Peter White from Bondimedical. Dr. White has over ten years experience treating patients in his practice, using non-invasive orthopaedic medical devices to improve confidence and quality of life. He has successfully treated numerous conditions, including Peyronie’s disease, side effects from urological surgery, and male enhancement.

Key points:

- Dr. White introduces himself

- Penile curvature treatment

- Using Phallosan Forte safely and effectively

- Expected results and longevity

- Addressing other penile health concerns

- Customer service emphasis

Relevant links:

Phallosan Forte website: https://www.phallosan.com.au/

From episode #51 with Dr. Joe Kort.

More from that episode:

- Dr. Kort shares about his practice as a therapist

- Heteroflexible and homoflexible

- Discussing Jane Ward’s book, Not Gay

- Bisexual erasure

- Queering heterosexuality

- “Your anus doesn’t have a sexual orientation”

- Fragile masculinity

- Working with couples in therapy

- Wives’ experiences with heteroflexible men

- Sexual fluidity for men and women

- Practical advice for men

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Judson Brandeis. Dr. Brandies has been voted Top Urologist in the San Francisco Bay Area by San Francisco Magazine from 2014 to 2020. In February 2019, he opened his office in San Ramon, where he focuses his practice entirely on Men’s Sexual Health and Rejuvenation. Dr. Brandeis is the National Director of Clinical Excellence for GAINSWave and created and runs the SWEET Study, the largest study of Shockwave Therapy for erectile dysfunction ever performed. Dr. Brandeis is also a national sexual medicine educator who has run weekend educational seminars all around the United States.

Key points:

- Dr. Brandeis introduces himself

- Erectile dysfunction treatment options

- Low intensity shockwave therapy

- Penile enhancement

- Erection variability and hard flaccid condition

- Risks and adverse effects

Relevant links:

Dr. Brandeis’ website: https://brandeismd.com/

Dr. Brandeis’ Instagram: @judsonbrandeismd

From episode #50 with Emily Claire.

More from that episode:

- Emily shares about her journey from Law to Tantra

- Mentoring with John Wineland

- Healing your relationship with men

- A woman’s experience working with men

- Mix-gendered spaces: Learning from other genders

- “Fuck and Kill to Consciousness”

- What are men’s natural desires?

- Integrating the animal part of ourselves

- Masculine and Feminine Energy

- Fight, Flight, Freeze, Feed and Fuck

- Practical advice for men wanting to begin this work

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I share an audio recording of one of my sexuality seminars. The title of this sexuality seminar is, "Presence and Masculine Sexuality. If you're interested in learning more, head to my website and check out what else I have on offer.

Key points:

- Who am I?

- What do I mean by "presence"?

- Practical tools for being more present

- What does "masculine sexuality" mean?

- Practical tools for embodying your masculinity

- An invitation to explore more

Relevant links:

Cam's website: www.cam-fraser.com

From episode #49 with Johnathan White.

More from that episode:

- Johnathan shares about his teachings

- Creating your own personal practice

- Learning to listen to your body

- Your first non-ejaculatory ogasm

- Techniques for non-ejaculatory orgasms

- Mantak Chia’s “Million Dollar Point” technique

- Obsessing over and redefining orgasm

- The importance of non-sexual practices

- Semen retention and NoFap

- The energetics of ejaculation

- Conscious ejaculation vs semen retention

- Testicle breathing practice

Relevant Links:

Johnathan’s Instagram: @sexual.kungfu

Johnathan’s YouTube: Sexual Kung Fu

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Kate Balestrieri, a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist, certified sex therapist, founder of the therapy practice Modern Intimacy, and host of the Get Naked with Dr. Kate podcast. She helps people live more fulfilled lives by shattering stigma and erasing shame.

Key Points:

- Kate introduces herself

- Inequalities in emotional labour

- Addressing inequalities through communication

- Emotional labour and mental load

- Practical steps for individuals and couples

Relevant links:

Kate’s website: https://www.modernintimacy.com/

Kate’s Instagram: @themodernintimacy

Kate’s TikTok: @drkatebalestrieri

From episode #48 with Tyran Mowbray.

More from that episode:

- Tyran shares some of his story

- What men talk about when they get together

- The flaws in taking back your power

- Men in the sexuality space

- “Fellahs, is it gay to talk about having sex with women?”

- Being a conscious man in a relationship

- Saying “No” and asserting boundaries

- Men can’t be raped