Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Mattia Zambaldi. Mattia guides men through processes of deep transformation and soul emergence. He is a firm believer that evolution is at its core a process of initiation which requires the alignment of mind, heart and body - including free and authentic sexual expression. His coaching method is a unique blend of western science, eastern wisdom and esoteric knowledge. He is a certified men’s sex coach, a certified Tantra teacher, and he also draws from all the knowledge and experience of his previous career as an elite sports physiotherapist where he has treated and coached some of the best athletes in the world.

Key Points:

- Mattia introduces himself

- Mattia’s holistic coaching approach

- Perspectives on masculine and feminine polarity

- Embodiment practices for me

- Integrating pleasure and embodiment during life transitions

Relevant links:

Mattia’s Instagram: @rivoluzionemaschile

Mattia’s website: www.rivoluzionemaschile.com

From episode #67 with Manu Paradiso. More from that episode:

- Manu shares about his story and his passion

- Discussing approaches to coaching men

- Personal sexual turning points

- The line between sexualization and objectification

- Having intention with sexual energy

- Being honest about your intentions

- Listening to your “Yes”

- Advice for men interested in this work

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Bryan Reeves. A former US Air Force Captain, Bryan is now an internationally renowned Author and Life/Relationship Coach with a current focus on supporting men to have better lives and relationships. His viral blog has been read by over 50 million people in every country on the planet (except North Korea). He’s the co-founder of "Elevate Your Relationship,” a live coaching program for men ready to elevate their relationship game, which currently serves men in 10 countries. He's co-host of the popular podcast, “Men, This Way,” and his newest book, Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her), is available on Audible, Amazon and other retailers.

Key Points:

- Bryan introduces himself

- Exploring personal growth and relationships

- The power of vulnerability and connection

- Navigating power dynamics in relationships

- Reframing pleasure and intimacy

- Recap and closing thoughts

Relevant links:

Bryan’s website: https://bryanreeves.com/

Bryan’s Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight

From episode #66 with Lauren French. More from that episode:

- What is an Acknowledgement of Country?

- Comprehensive Sexuality Education

- The importance of Media and Porn Literacy

- Creating safe spaces for kids to learn

- Language and terminology

- Lauren shares about her family and lineage

- Intergenerational trauma and loss of culture

- Sex- and pleasure-positivity

- Fear, masculinity and masculinities

- Compassionate words for any First Nations people listening

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Stefanie Iris Weiss, a New York City-based writer, certified clinical sexologist, and professional astrologer in private practice for two decades. A pleasure activist and author of ten books, Stefanie writes about sex, politics, the environment, and astrology. The core of her work focuses on sexuality, somatics, sustainability, and the stars, subjects that coalesce at the heart of the natural world and our nature as humans. The long arc of her work explores how the environment, our bodies, and the cosmos commingle. Her latest book, Sex and Your Stars: A Sexologist’s Guide to the Erotic Energy of the Zodiac, is now available for pre-order.

Key points:

- Stefanie introduces herself

- Astrology and sexology integration

- Misconceptions about astrology and sexology

- Exploring the zodiac signs and elements

- Advice for men exploring astrology and sex

- Accessing your astrological chart

Relevant links:

Stefanie’s website: https://stefanieirisweiss.com/

Stefanie’s Instagram: @ stefanieirisweiss

From episode #65 with Alicia Brown. More from that episode:

- Alicia shares about her motivation for sharing sexuality information

- Learning good communication skills

- Talking about sex both online and offline

- Sex education for Aboriginal and Torres Straight Islander communities

- Terminology, Nations and language groups

- Connecting with community and traditions

- Whose Country are you on?

- “There is no time limit to discovering who you are”

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Jordin Wiggins. Jordin is a Naturopathic Doctor, Pleasure & Intimacy Coach, and author. She teaches high-achieving, successful women how to be as badass in the bedroom and relationships as they are in business. She is the CEO of the Pleasure Collective, a coaching community for women reclaiming their pleasure as well as the host of The Pleasure Principles podcast, where she dedicates her time to exploring and understanding pleasure, health, and sex in today's society. Jordin maintains a small private practice in Ontario to help entrepreneurs and professional women feel their best.

Key Points:

- Jordin introduces herself

- Differing perspectives on pleasure

- Barriers to experiencing pleasure

- The importance of self-exploration

- Navigating pleasure in relationships

- Broader implications of prioritizing pleasure

Relevant links:

Jordin’s website: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/

Jordin’s Instagram: @drjordinwiggins

From episode #64 with Bek Antonucci. More from that episode:

- Bek shares about her personal story

- Living with herpes

- The stigma of STIs

- Normalizing conversations about sexual health

- Talking about sex online

- Intention vs impact

- Sister wounds and brother wounds

- “What do men need to know?”

- Attention seeking

- Advice for being a sexually embodied person on the internet

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with author and men’s coach GS Youngblood. He wrote a book titled “The Masculine in Relationship”, which offers a model called the Masculine Blueprint for men to become grounded in their own power and more relational with their Feminine partner. The premise of his work is that many relationship problems are actually rooted in a lack of Relational Masculinity - which is a combination of groundedness, leadership, and relational skills. This is what he

teaches to men. GS's work draws inspiration from various disciplines, including psychology, men's work, spirituality, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM.

Key points:

- GS introduces himself

- Overcoming emasculation

- What is The Masculine Blueprint?

- Applying the Blueprint

- Recap and Call-to-action

Relevant links:

GS’s website: gsyoungblood.com

GS’s Instagram: @gsyoungbloodmir

From episode #63 wit Betty Martin. More from that episode:

- Betty shares about her career

- The inception of The Wheel of Consent

- Giving/Receiving and Doing/Done-To

- The four quadrants

- The 3 Minute Game

- Learning how to take pleasure

- You can’t make someone surrender

- Practical advice for men using The Wheel