Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Lucy Rowett, CSC CS ACS. Lucy is a certified sexologist and sex coach who is passionate about helping women and people with vulvas let go of sexual shame and hangups and embrace pleasure to create the passionate relationships they've always desired. She uses a combination of mind body tools with evidence-based sexuality education to create a fun and open space for womxn to explore their full erotic potential. Her speciality is working with women and people with vulvas who come from Faith backgrounds who are struggling to let go of sexual shame and enjoy pleasurable and intimate relationships again. She is a resident on UK contraception platform, The Lowdown, and she is regularly quoted in the media for her expertise in sexual health and wellness, pleasure, and sexual shame- including Men's Health, GQ, Kinkly, The O Diaries, The Sun, Insider, and Glamour. The two of us take a critical look at the sacred sexuality and Neo-Tantra community, addressing some of the things we’ve noticed, and sharing some practical ways for listeners to explore and embody their sexuality.

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Lucy’s Website: https://lucyrowett.com/

Lucy’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucylurowett

Lucy’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lucyrowett

Lucy’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lucyrowettcsc

Cam’s Patreon: www.patreon.com/thecamfraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Sarah Martin. Sarah is an anti-fascist sex & dating coach who helps horny people get laid ethically. She's the host of the Slutty Activism podcast and the creator of the Dignified Hedonist framework. She wrote her master's thesis about economic metaphor in pickup artist handbooks. She calls Vilnius, Lithuania home. The two of us talk about her Masters research regarding pickup artists and the seduction community. We discuss the way that sex and relationships are framed in this community, why this is detrimental, and how to reframe these for men.

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Sarah’s website: https://dignifiedhedonist.com

Sarah’s FacebookL: https://www.facebook.com/dignifiedhedonist

Sarah’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/HedonistDating

Sarah’s Instagram: @dignified.hedonist

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Oliver Morton-Evans. Oliver has had a diverse career journey and is the founder of a MedTech startup based in Sydney, Australia. He has advocated for the rights of people with physical disabilities for most of his life and openly talks about sexuality. The two of us talk about Oliver’s experience dating as a person with a disability. We also talk about the lack of representation and inclusivity at Tantra and sexuality events. We then discuss the perceptions people have about disability, dating, and sex. Oliver is passionate about dispelling these misperceptions.

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Oliver’s Instagram: @oliver_me79

Dr. Tara is a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton (recieved her tenure at the age of 33), an award-winning researcher, a sex and relationship coach, and the host of Luvbites by Dr. Tara Podcast that focuses on sexual wellness and sexploration. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health Magazine, Insider, and other media outlets. She's also the Relationship Tech consultant for Couply and Scratch Adventure mobile apps. In 2022, Dr. Tara gave a TEDx Talk titled Become Sexually Powerful that highlights her 5,000-participant study examining predictors of sexual satisfaction, and her journey from an anxious immigrant to a confident Sexpert. Her life's goal is to normalize sex talks, and help people live a more passionate life and feel more sexually fulfilled through confidence and communication coaching. The two of us talk about the common concerns our clients have as well as the creative ways in which to navigate these concerns. Dr. Tara shares a lot of advice about how to communicate with your partner about sex and how to begin exploring your sexual desires.

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Dr. Tara’s website: https://www.luvbites.co/

Dr. Tara’s Instagram/TikTok: @luvbites.co

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Daniel Di Pietro. Daniel is a Melbourne-based sexologist with a Masters in Sexology and provisional psychotherapist with several certifications in sex therapy; including how to treat mismatched sexual desire between couples and navigating issues of sexuality and sexual difficulties. Daniel has a keen interest in male sexual health, behaviour, pleasure and function and has presented his thesis on male sexual health for the Queensland Society of Australian Sexologists branch. Daniel enjoys working collaboratively with binary and non-binary people of all ages, cultural backgrounds, beliefs and sexual orientations. The two of us talk about the research Daniel conducted for his Masters in Sexology regarding erectile dysfunction and its impact on masculinity. We discuss how erectile dysfunction impacts men’s self-esteem and the strategies they use to compensate for it. We also look at the issues disseminating research related to men’s sexual health and functioning.

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Daniel’s website: www.dipietrosexology.com

Daniel’s instagram: @dipietrosexology

Cam’s website: www.cam-fraser.com

Cam’s patreon: www.patreon.com/thecamfraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Justin Houman, M.D. Justin is a board certified, fellowship-trained Urologist and Men’s Health specialist whose mission is to enhance men’s quality of life by improving their sexual, reproductive, and hormonal health. His focus is on making a difference in people’s lives through state-of-the-art, compassionate, and personally tailored care. The two of us talk about the issues men come to see him with in his position as a urologist, from low/no sperm count to low testosterone to erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation to Peyronie’s disease to vasectomies. We cover a lot of gound in this episode about men’s sexual health and the types of treatments available.

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Justin’s Instagram: Justin.Houman.MD

Jusitn’s Twitter: @JustinHoumanMD

Justin’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/jhouman

Justin’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LAMensHealth/

Justin’s TikTok: @justin.houman.md

Justin’s Website: https://houmanmd.com/

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Leeza Mangaldas. Leeza is India’s foremost pleasure positive content creator. Given how shrouded in stigma sex is in India, Leeza started creating sex education content on YouTube and Instagram in 2017 with the intention to normalize conversations around sexuality, sexual health, gender, pleasure, and the body. Her videos reach millions of young people around India and the world, everyday. She also hosts a Spotify Exclusive podcast called The Sex Podcast by Leeza Mangaldas that provides scientifically accurate, judgement-free answers to commonly asked sex questions in Hindi. Leeza is a recipient of The Pleasure Project’s Pleasure Fellowship, and was named Sexual Health Influencer of the Year at the Cosmo India Blogger Awards this year- the first year they introduced this category. She has also been named one of GQ’s Most Influential Young Indians in 2021 and 2022, and received the Google x SheThePeople Digital Women Award for Content. Prior to establishing her digital platforms, Leeza presented several lifestyle, sports, and current-affairs shows on Indian television channels including ET Now and Star Sports, as well as contributed to global publications including Forbes.com, Elle, and Harper’s Bazaar. Leeza spent her childhood in Goa, went to boarding school in Kodaikanal, and then to college in New York City on a scholarship at Columbia University. She graduated magna cum laude with a BA in English and Visual Art with a focus on gender and sexuality in 2011. In this episode the two of us talk about her experience as a sex educator in India and the culturally specific things that she has noticed doing this work.

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Leeza’s Instagram: instagram.com/leezamangaldas

Leeza’s Youtube: youtube.com/leezamangaldas1

Leeza’s Podcast: https://spotify.link/TheSexPodcastByLeeza

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with physical therapist, life and intimacy coach Dr. Kyle Freeman, PT, DPT. Kyle guides clients toward living a more authentic life by harnessing their sexual energy, finding greater clarity in their life's purpose and shedding any negative beliefs they have about themselves. Through sex education, conscious breathwork as well as mindset practices, his clients learn to find a home inside themselves & embrace their unique qualities. As a Doctor of Physical Therapy, breathwork facilitator, online sex/lifestyle coach & mental health advocate, Kyle has learned to coach people on quality health habits that lead to overall improvements in physical and mental well-being. The two us talk about how sexual self-awareness, from being sexure in your sexuality to communicating boundaries to expressing emotions during sex. Kyle and I believe that all of these things and more are important for bettering your sex life.

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Kyle’s Instagram: @drkyledean

Kyle’s Men’s Group: patreon.com/themodernman

Kyle’s Onlyfans: drkyledean-free

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jacob O’Neill. Jacob describes himself as a holder of visions, leader of heart-centered men, and absolutely hellbent on reactivating the grounded loving masculine within each man. He was a serial yes man & addicted to people-pleasing, on a mission to fit perfectly into the box society had so generously offered him. He contorted his SELF into the “model citizen” & settled in for a comfortable & safe life. But the universe had other plans, Jacob answered the call of his soul & followed what felt GOOD. Does his life look like he thought it would? NO, but it feels better than he ever could have imagined, because he is living his TRUTH. So now Jacob is committed to holding sacred space for men on the journey home to their TRUTH. The two of us talk about his personal experience of transformation and the catalysts which brought that about. We also speak about the practices he implements for becoming more aware of sensations in the body as well as the elements of pleasure, comfort and complacency.

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Jacob’s Instagram: @thejacoboneill

Jacob’s website: https://www.jacobatoneill.com/

On today’s episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Anthony Ragonese. Anthony is a writer and public speaker who explores the intersection of the erotic and esoteric. He specializes in topics including masturbation, self-love, body positivity, sacred sexuality, sex magic, and enthusiasm for penises, all of which are part of his spiritual philosophy called Autoerotic Phallicism. The two of us talk about his personal philosophy and his approach to self-pleasure. Anthony also shares advice for men who are interested in exploring their sexuality and spirituality.

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Anthony’s website: https://strokingthesoul.com

Anthony’s Instagram: @StrokingtheSoul