Nope! We're Not Monogamous

My guest today is talking about her first ever visit to a sex club, her first ever polyamorous experience as a unicorn, and the biggest lessons she’s learned this last year in her journey to ethical non-monogamy. Kelsie Riffey can be found by day domming the business world, assisting high achieving women and scaling their businesses to seven figures and beyond, and by night you can find her on the middle of the dance floor hips swaying, fully liberated and expressed. 

💨 TLDR;

• 2:23- Discovering Non-Monogamy
• 5:40- A Unicorn Story
• 17:56- Balancing Boundaries and New Relationship Energy
• 25:49- Leading One Authentic Life
• 30:39- The Sex Club Experience
• 35:06- First Date Music

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Want to connect with Kelsie?
Instagram - @_kelsiecorrine_ 

📚 Books mentioned: 

● Opening Up, by Tristan Taormino

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Getting It on In a Group - Intentional Threesomes, Foursomes, & Moresomes Course

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Credits

- Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/

- Editor/Producer: Danny Walters. 

About Us

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.

Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.

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Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar Lindstein
STIM IPI: 572 393 237

Today, I talk with Deana Tanner about the five main pillars of polyamory: autonomy, personal responsibility, boundaries, effective communication and understanding emotions. We talk about growing up polyamorous, creating healthy relationships, and how to identify what you really want to make informed decisions.  

Deana Tanner has taken her 20 years of experience in leadership education and converted it to real world personal growth and development coaching for the queer and polyamorous communities. After starting out her marriage in a form of non-monogamy and radically progressing to full blow polyamory she became keenly aware of not just the lack of healthy relationship standards in the polyamorous and queer communities, but a serious lack of polyamory and queer informed professional services. She firmly maintains that the skills she uses with her clients is merely just the shit we should have learned in school. 

💨 TLDR;

• 5:29- Kitchen-table Polyamory
• 10:10- The Role of Resiliency in Relationships
• 14:10- Stepping out of the Monogamy Box
• 18:46- Jealousy and Tools for Coping
• 26:26- Creating Healthy Relationships
• 32:39- Learning What You Really Want
• 37:59- Pillars of Polyamory

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Want to connect with Deana Tanner

Website: https://www.practicalpolyamorycoaching.com/

@Practical_Polyamory on TikTok

Practical Polyamory Growth Group on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/877583006185319

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Getting It on In a Group - Intentional Threesomes, Foursomes, & Moresomes Course

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Credits

- Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/

- Editor/Producer: Danny Walters. 

About Us

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.

Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.

Send us Fan Mail

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Support the show

📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/newsletter

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👀 Find Us Online
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📘 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine
📸 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar Lindstein
STIM IPI: 572 393 237

Today I am talking with Ying Ying Lee.  Ying Ying founded SOP Lifestyle Productions, with a vision to create fun, unique & sensual getaways and vacations where attendees can be comfortable exploring new things and expanding their knowledge and experiences. We talk about her journey to non monogamy, the spectrum from swinging to polyamorous, what happens inside a hotel takeover, and she answers the questions we get asked most frequently about swinger events!

SOP stands for Swinger, Open, Poly, and her events are inclusive of everyone in the Lifestyle, from Swinger to Open to Poly to Kink, and more, regardless of ages, gender and backgrounds; singles, couples and more are welcome.  SOP Lifestyle Productions' signature event is a complete hotel Takeover, the Winter Lifestyle Takeover every November and they are expanding their offerings to include the Tropical Lifestyle Takeover, the Summer Lifestyle Takeover, the Europe Lifestyle Takeover, Signature Experiences, Lifestyle Vacations, and other fun lifestyle events in Canada and around the world.

💨 TLDR;

• 4:00-The Spectrum of Non Monogamy
• 13:23- Swinging vs Open or Poly
• 17:46- Societal Expectations
• 24:30- Polyamory; Choice or Identity
• 27:26- Hotel Takeover Events
• 4022- Consent and Safety at Lifestyle Events

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Want to connect with Ying Ying Lee?

https://swingeropenpoly.com/

https://www.facebook.com/SOPLifestyleProductions

📚 Books mentioned: 

● Ethical Slut, by Janet Hardy

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👀 Find Us Online

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Credits

- Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/

- Editor/Producer: Danny Walters. 

About Us

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.

Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.

Send us Fan Mail

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Support the show

📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/newsletter

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👀 Find Us Online
🌍 Website:  https://www.elleciapaine.com
📘 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine
📸 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar Lindstein
STIM IPI: 572 393 237

In today’s episode, I'm sharing with you a recent workshop I did on taming the green eyed monster, jealousy. I'm talking to you about the overwhelming primal fear that takes over when you're feeling jealous and how to work through it without blowing up your relationships in the process, going from panic to calm and rational from feeling sure that you're being betrayed to feeling confidence and inner peace. You will get  loads of resources and nuggets so you can learn from my experience.

I made a lot of mistakes in my relationships and in my journey from monogamy to non monogamy. I believe that I made them so that I can teach you the right way to do it because you shouldn't have to repeat my mistakes. 

💨 TLDR;

• :45- What Jealousy Feels Like
• 9:32- A Life Without Jealousy
• 17:00- Jealousy vs Envy
• 25:29- The First Step
• 36:02- Tricks Your Brain Plays
• 40:34- Stopping the Cycle

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📚 Books mentioned: 

● Polysecure by Jessica Fern

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Conquering Jealousy in Non Monogamy a 6 week journey

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Credits

- Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/

- Editor/Producer: Danny Walters. 

About Us

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.

Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.

Send us Fan Mail

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Support the show

📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/newsletter

❤️ Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note. And if you want more, join our Patreon! http://www.patreon.com/notmonogamous

👀 Find Us Online
🌍 Website:  https://www.elleciapaine.com
📘 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine
📸 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar Lindstein
STIM IPI: 572 393 237

In today’s episode I have the pleasure of speaking with Evelin Dacker.  We have a juicy conversation on creating sexual safety in non-monogamy.  She tackles the most asked questions from my listeners on STIs, new relationship energy and she breaks down STARS, and how she uses it to create healthy relationships and communication around sex.

Evelin Dacker is a sex-positive Integrative Family Medicine physician. She is active in creating a safe space for LGBTQIA youth and adults and helping people through illness, trauma, and life transitions towards finding balance and joy. In addition to practicing medicine, Evelin created the safer sex communication model STARS to help facilitate open and honest sex conversations. She is a consent and sex educator, sexual health activist and TEDx speaker (on STARS).

💨 TLDR;

• 2:19- Polyamory
• 6:24- New Relationship Energy and Poly
• 9:46- S.T.A.R.S.
• 26:58- STIs
• 39:20- Sex Positive Doctors
• 42:48- Hierarchy in Relationships
• 46:06- Owning Yourself

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Want to connect with Evelin... 

• www.Maketimeforthetalk.com
• www.Evelindacker.com
• Tedx Talk on STARS

📚 Books mentioned: 

• “Polysecure”, by Jessica Fern
• “All About Love”, by Bell Hooks

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👀 Find Us Online

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           - Facebook

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Credits

- Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/

- Editor/Producer: Danny Walters. 

About Us

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.

Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.

Send us Fan Mail

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Support the show

📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/newsletter

❤️ Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note. And if you want more, join our Patreon! http://www.patreon.com/notmonogamous

👀 Find Us Online
🌍 Website:  https://www.elleciapaine.com
📘 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine
📸 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar Lindstein
STIM IPI: 572 393 237

In today’s episode I talk with Michael Love. He is the former publisher of ENM Magazine and PDXScene Magazine. Michael fancies himself an ambassador and advocate of Ethical Non-monogamy. Together with his nesting partners, they run a thriving online ENM Support Community that embraces all forms of Ethical Non-Monogamy, and host the ENM Talk Podcast show.  We talk about the spectrum of non-monogamy, what it’s like to be able to celebrate your partner’s relationships, and our journeys to Ethical Non-Monogamy.

💨 TLDR;

• 1:44- Finding an ENM Community 
• 4:33- The Different Types of ethical non-monogamy
• 8:25- Working Towards Celebrating Your Partner
• 19:22- Communication
• 22:04- The Spectrum of ethical non-monogamy
• 25:20- Single and Dating vs Not Single and Dating
• 27:15- Becoming ethically non-monogamous
• 30:13- Possession in Relationships
• 35:22- ENM Magazine Journey
• 37:57- ENM Facebook Community

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Map of Non-Monogamy

Want to connect with Michael...

www.enmtalkpodcast.com 

https://www.facebook.com/ENMTalkPodcast

https://www.facebook.com/groups/enmgroup

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👀 Find Us Online

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Credits

- Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/

- Editor/Producer: Danny Walters. 

About Us

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.

Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.

Send us Fan Mail

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Support the show

📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/newsletter

❤️ Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note. And if you want more, join our Patreon! http://www.patreon.com/notmonogamous

👀 Find Us Online
🌍 Website:  https://www.elleciapaine.com
📘 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine
📸 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar Lindstein
STIM IPI: 572 393 237

Today I am sharing Part 2 of an amazing conversation I had with Leanne and Greg Million. We continue our conversation with some really juicy sex tips, my enm playlist, and we also talk about how polyamory forces us to learn how to repair relationship ruptures in a way that most of us didn't learn in monogamous relationships. 

Leanne is a Relationship and Sexuality Coach, with an emphasis on those curious about or practicing poly/CNM, kink and alternative lifestyles. Greg is a relationship and empowerment coach specializing in helping others tap into the strength of their emotional life by supporting and guiding others on their journey of transformation into their most authentic, conscious, vulnerable and loving selves. Their coaching business, EMPOWERED NOW, is a safe space for the LGBTQ2IA+ community and people of all ethnicities, relationship structures and dynamics. 

💨 TLDR;

• 1:27- Becoming Non-Monogamous
• 5:18- Rupture and Repair
• 8:56- Polyamory as a Choice
• 16:43- Transparency
• 20:13- ENM and Culture
• 27:30- The Sexiness of Clear Communication
• 37:25- Know Yourself

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Want to connect with The Millions?

Website - gregmillion.com and leannemillion.com

IG - @gregmillion.lifecoach and @leannemillion

FB - Greg Million and Leanne Million

📚 Books mentioned: 

• 5 Sex Languages, by Douglass Weiss

🎵ENM Playlist on Spotify

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👀 Find Us Online

           - Website: https://www.elleciapaine.com/

           - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine

           - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Credits

            - Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/

            - Editor/Producer: Danny Walters. 

About Us

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.

Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.

Send us Fan Mail

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Support the show

📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/newsletter

❤️ Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note. And if you want more, join our Patreon! http://www.patreon.com/notmonogamous

👀 Find Us Online
🌍 Website:  https://www.elleciapaine.com
📘 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine
📸 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar Lindstein
STIM IPI: 572 393 237

Today I am sharing Part 1 of an amazing conversation I had with Leanne and Greg Million. We talk about non monogamy and all of its forms-- the differences between consensual non-monogamy, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, solo polyamory, relationship anarchy, swinging, and the real power to be gained with relational autonomy. There's some really beautiful advice for dealing with jealousy and hear what happens when you put three coaches in a room with each other.

Leanne is a Relationship and Sexuality Coach, with an emphasis on those curious about or practicing poly/CNM, kink and alternative lifestyles. Greg is a relationship and empowerment coach specializing in helping others tap into the strength of their emotional life by supporting and guiding others on their journey of transformation into their most authentic, conscious, vulnerable and loving selves. Their coaching business, EMPOWERED NOW, is a safe space for the LGBTQ2IA+ community and people of all ethnicities, relationship structures and dynamics. 

💨 TLDR;

• 3:25- Relationship Autonomy
• 21:34- Jealousy
• 30:07- CNM or ENM?
• 36.31- Societal Misconceptions
• 41:51- Creating Safety in Non-Monogamy
• 53:14- Defining Your Relationship Style

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Want to connect with The Millions?

Website - www.gregmillion.com and www.leannemillion.com
IG - @gregmillion.lifecoach and @leannemillion
FB - Greg Million and Leanne Million

📚 Books mentioned: 

• Polysecure, by Jessica Fern
• The Ethical Slut, by Janet Hardy

🎵ENM Playlist on Spotify

📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia 

👀 Find Us Online

           - Website: https://www.elleciapaine.com/
          - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine
          - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Credits

- Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/
- Editor/Producer: Danny Walters. 

About Us
Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.

Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.

Send us Fan Mail

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Support the show

📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/newsletter

❤️ Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note. And if you want more, join our Patreon! http://www.patreon.com/notmonogamous

👀 Find Us Online
🌍 Website:  https://www.elleciapaine.com
📘 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine
📸 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar Lindstein
STIM IPI: 572 393 237

I'm no expert on racism. But I am a person who's always learning and growing and challenging my own internalized racism. I consider this podcast and my other platforms to be absolutely anti-racist. So while this may not be a topic I address very often it is a topic that I feel passionately about. 

So today I'm sharing a conversation I had with my friend Kyra. Kyra is a solo poly relationship anarchist and a person of color who's passionate about hard cider and social justice. She is a child care and birth worker of color living in Seattle with her two cats and her turtle and in her spare time she grounds herself with reading and nature and loved ones, and is just a phenomenal human being. I'm really excited to share this conversation with you. Enjoy.

💨 TLDR;

• 1:36  - What is Relationship Anarchy?
• 3:49  - Deconstructing a religious conservative upbringing
• 9:08  - Dating as a Solo Polyamorous Relationship Anarchist
• 13:52- Misconceptions around polyamory and sexism
• 21:25- Racism and Decolonizing Relationships
• 31:11- Rupture and Repair in relationships
• 40:59- How Racism Effects Relationships
• 52:53- Unlearning Monogamy
• 59:37- Resources for Decolonizing Polyamory

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📚 Books and resources mentioned: Visit our website for a list of  POC ENM Resources from Kyra

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           - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine

           - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Credits

- Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/

- Editor/Producer: Danny Walters. 

About Us

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.

Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.

Send us Fan Mail

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Support the show

📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/newsletter

❤️ Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note. And if you want more, join our Patreon! http://www.patreon.com/notmonogamous

👀 Find Us Online
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📘 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine
📸 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar Lindstein
STIM IPI: 572 393 237

In today’s episode, I'm talking to Danny, the producer and editor of Nope, We're Not Monogamous, and also one of my partners. He shares the story of how a couple of high school sweethearts from a small town in the Midwest wound up in a committed married polyamorous quad, living in the Pacific Northwest. We talk about how that came about, the challenges that they faced, how they've overcome them and we dig deeper into the role insecurity plays in relationships.

💨 TLDR;

• 3:27- From a monogamish relationship to full blown polyamory
• 14:12- Insecurities
• 23:39- Transitioning Relationship Styles
• 31:33- Trust
• 36:17- Group Sex 

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Getting It on In a Group - Intentional Threesomes, Foursomes, & Moresomes Course

👀 Find Us Online

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           - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine

           - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/

Credits

- Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/

- Editor/Producer: Danny Walters. 

About Us

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.

Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.

Send us Fan Mail

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Support the show

📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/newsletter

❤️ Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note. And if you want more, join our Patreon! http://www.patreon.com/notmonogamous

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📘 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine
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Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar Lindstein
STIM IPI: 572 393 237