WHAT IS A SUBMISSIVE WOMAN ANYWAY?

A submissive woman is one who wants to pair with a Dominant Man.

A submissive woman is one who is no longer is in shadow about wanting a Dominant Man.

A submissive woman is one who wants to play the complimentary role to a Dominant Man.

A submissive woman desires and values men’s masculinity, their masculine strength and masculine leadership.  

She never competes with men.  

Instead, she is brilliant at cooperating with strong and dominant men.  

She values their leadership and is a brilliant follower to their leadership.  

She cherishes and  nourishes men’s masculine virtues.  

She embodies the complimentary energy to strong, dominant men.

A submissive woman is foremost a feminine woman.  

She embodies feminine characteristics and feminine virtues at every level.  

She is feminine, supple, graceful and gracious — in her appearance, in her speech, in her energy, in her very core.

— Om Rupani

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PODCAST WITH LEAH PIPER & DR. WILLOW BROWN - 2022

—BDSM as a path to self-discovery.

—Bridge between Tantra & BDSM.

—How to take responsibility for new sensual investigations.

—Emotional release as erotic movement.

—Catharsis in BDSM play.

—The separation of giving and receiving.

—Balancing Giving & Receiving in BDSM dynamics.

—The fallacy of seeking healing through receiving rather than giving.

—Reviving stale relationships with introducing Dom-sub play.

—Distinguishing consensual D/s from cultural trauma.

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THE NON-CONSENSUAL DYNAMICS IN VANILLA RELATIONSHIPS

Dom-sub dynamics are built on Consent.

Dom-sub dynamics are built on the two people being in Agreement with each other.

Without this agreement/consent, there is no scene between Dom and sub; there is no dynamic between Dom and sub; there is no relationship between Dom & sub.

We even create a provision for both Dom & sub to exit their scene in case either of them comes out of consent in the middle of a scene.  This what safe-words are for.

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By contrast, vanilla relationships are rife with lack of agreement between the two people.

Husbands and wives live in a state of disagreement with each other.

Boyfriends and girlfriends are in a constant state of negotiation and bickering with each other.

From the perspective of Consent, these people are NOT in consent in their relationships.

Most husband-wife relationships, most boyfriend-girlfriend relationships are occurring out of consent!

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Living in this state of non-consent is the crucial problem at the center of most relationships.

To create happiness, come into agreement with your partner.

It is entirely up to you who you partner with, but if you want a functioning and thriving relationship, the key to that harmonious relationship is that the two people be in agreement with each other.

— Om Rupani

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AGREEMENT DEFICIENCY IS KILLING WOMEN’S RELATIONSHIPS TO MEN

The one ingredient you need to make any relationship work is — AGREEMENT!

This applies to romantic relationships.

It applies to filial and family relationships.

It even applies to relationships within a group and a tribe.

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One piece of poisonous programming that the modern woman has swallowed, thanks to feminism, is that coming into agreement with one’s man is considered a point of weakness for the modern, empowered woman.

It has become part of women’s identity to keep testing men, to judge men, to disapprove of men, to question men, to challenge men, to instill doubt in their systems and to disagree with men.

This one piece of poisonous programming is sufficient to entirely sabotage the possibility of happiness between women and their partners.

—Om Rupani

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I have a 6-month program for practitioners who are interested in bringing BDSM skills into their session work.  

I teach this intensive with my dear friend Lauren Harkness.  

This is a conversation with one of our students about her experience with this course.

You can find our more about this program at : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery

Best,
Om

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WOMEN ARE FULL OF SHIT IN THEIR SEXINESS.

*(This is a module from the course : CREATING THE DOMINANT MAN)

Women’s sexiness is the most alluring part of their bullshit.  It looks so good.  It smiles so good.  It laughs so sexy.  Those eyes, those lips, those heels, that dress, that look in their eyes and then another look in their eyes.  The lilt of their laughter.  That sway of their hips as they walk by you.

Ohhhh sooo good.  It’s all so, so good.  It’s all so beautiful.  It is all so downright delectable!

I certainly don’t want women to stop being beautiful and alluring.  I don’t want women to stop presenting their beauty to the world or stop charming and alluring everyone (men and women) with their physicality.

And yet, there is a darker and deeper conversation that needs to be had with men regarding women’s sexiness and women’s presentation.  This conversation, this understanding truly separates the boys from the men.  It separates the boys — whom women know they can bullshit, from the men that women have to fess up their true face to.

Women’s sexiness, when they are in full presentation mode is like counterfeit currency.  That sexiness is a counterfeit hundred dollar bill.  And most women carry a stack of these counterfeit C Notes in their purse.

If you had a stack of counterfeit bills in your possession, how would your proceed?  

This is what you would do : You would try to pay as many people with the counterfeited money as you could.  You know what the difference between the two notes is.  You know which currency is fake and worthless and which bill is actually worth its full $100.  If people allow you to hand them the fake bills, you will be buying stuff with the fake bills all day long.

When would you ever give somebody a real bill?  

You would give the real money only to someone who recognized your fake bill when you gave it to them and they threw that fake money back in your face.

Lying is easy.  Lying is efficient.  If you allow women to lie to you, women will keep lying to you.

If they know they can lie to you, they will not respect you.

If a woman does not respect you because she knows she can manipulate you with her sexiness, she will never bond with you in any real way.  You will for ever be just one of her marks, and she will act towards you like a hustler.

I see a lot of men who think they are in real relationships with their women, but who in fact are in this Hustler-mark dynamic, because these men have no capacity or clarity to perceive or call out their women’s bullshit.

*(more on this inside the course)

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SEXINESS IS ABOUT HAVING CONTROL OVER THE MAN.

GOOD SEX HAPPENS WHEN A WOMAN SURRENDERS CONTROL TO HER MAN.

The idiot man thinks that when a woman is hurling sexiness at him, that she is offering him control over her.  This is a hustler’s move on the woman’s part; it’s a slight-of-hand.  Through sexiness, a woman makes a man feel powerful over her while she maintains all the power and control over the man.

If a man can’t recognize this con, whatever ensues, it is at least partly the man’s own fault.  You accepted her counterfeit bill, you didn’t recognize the Fugazi.  So you are the chump.

*(more on this inside the course)

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FEMINISM HAS FAILED!  WHAT’S NEXT?

Feminism has given us a generation of angry and disappointed women and a generation of broken and self-doubting men.

In this conversation with Kelly Brogan we discuss the current state of masculinity and femininity, all that is dysfunctional in our modern culture and where we might go from here.

— Om Rupani

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THE MODERN WOMAN IS ENERGETICALLY CONSTIPATED IN RELATION TO THE MASCULINE

I think the modern woman is more interested in being disappointed in men than in being happy with men.

This is an energetic and spiritual crucible.

The feminine ego is deriving a certain satisfaction in being this perpetually disappointed in the masculine.

What are the egos satisfactions?

She gets to be special in her misery and disappointment.

She gets to be right.

She gets to be better than men since they are the one disappointing her perpetually.

She gets to be superior to men.

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Women’s disappointment in men shuts down their receptivity to men.

This lack of receptivity sets men up to fail with the women.  And it keeps women in regular confirmation of their justified disappointment.

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I offer women an exercise to reverse this energetics:

GO CONTRIBUTE TO THE LIVES OF 3 MEN YOU CONSIDER WORTHY!

Instead of living in the perpetual story around how men are not giving to you, go give to men.

Contribute to their life.

Make their lives better.

—Om Rupani
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MEN SHOULD STOP CARING ABOUT WOMEN’S EMOTIONS.

Women’s emotions have become too important to men.

This is counterproductive.  This is actually neither good for men, nor for women.

Men caring so much for women’s emotions is destroying Man-Woman relating.

Women’s emotions are flooding Men’s energetic and emotional bodies in two big ways:

1.  Women’s emotionality is triggering men’s emotionality.
2.  Women’s emotionality is influencing men’s actions.

Both of these influences are disastrous for both men and women.

— Om Rupani

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WHAT ARE YOU BUILT FOR AS A MAN?

We all must inquire from time to time, ‘What the hell am I doing here anyway?  What is my Purpose?  Why am I here?’

Maybe instead of turning to the heavens and inquiring about our purpose, we can take a more introverted approach and ask, ‘What exactly am I built for?’

Here today, as you are, what are you built for?

As Barbara Walters might ask, if you were a dog, what kind of dog would you be?

Are you retriever who is built for retrieving birds that your master has shot down?

Are you a herding dog who is built to herd sheep?

Are you a blood hound used to track deer or even humans?

Are you a terrier built to kill rats?

Are you a Saint Bernard that was bred to rescue people caught in mountain storms.

Are you a Newfoundland Dog built to rescue drowning fishermen in the north Atlantic?

Which dog breed are you?

What are you built for?

How does a man determine what kind of breed he is?

Ask yourself these questions:

What is the level of burden you are built to carry?  Are you carrying that much?  Are you carrying too much?  Are you carrying too little?

Where have you served others?  What have others found you useful for?  What have others sought you out for?  What have others used you for?

What can you not stand seen done badly?  In what field are you a snob, where you judge the work of others harshly because you know their work can be done better and you know how to do it better?

In what area of life do you feel inspiration and insight comes to you more easily?  What is the field in which, when you seek assistance, assistance is given.  When you make inquiries in this field, answers appear?

In which field, if you were to engage your energies fully, you would go to bed each night properly tired and peaceful.  Not that you were getting rich or world famous or on your way to great success.  But you would feel well-used.

In which task or field have people been readily willing to pay you for what you bring?

After all that, we may more fruitfully ask ourselves, ‘What is my Soul Purpose?’

—- Om Rupani

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