What if offering your child choices isn't really giving them autonomy? Have you ever considered that the choices you present might feel manipulative? Let’s delve into the nuanced world of offering choices and explore how to empower our children genuinely and constructively.

In this episode, I unpack giving children choices, spotlighting its potential benefits and pitfalls. I illustrate how choices can sometimes come off as controlling rather than empowering. I also discuss the vital role of true autonomy in developing a child's independence and problem-solving skills.

In This Episode:

• The importance of real choices in parenting
• Examples of fake choices and their pitfalls
• Autonomy's role in childhood development
• Parental control vs. child independence
• Real-life anecdotes on flexible parenting
• Connection strategies for more meaningful choices

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What are the modern challenges of raising teens in a Snapchat and TikTok world, and how should parents adapt? Does taking away their smartphone do more damage than good? Today, I sit down with Danielle, a dedicated mother of four navigating the challenging terrain of parenting a 13-year-old daughter in the digital age. Over the past year, a widening gap has formed between them, fueled by social media and smartphone usage complexities.

Danielle opens up about her struggles setting boundaries around smartphone use while attempting to build trust and connection. We discuss why traditional punitive measures often backfire and explore alternative strategies prioritizing empathy and understanding. Together, I share the nuances of allowing social media access, addressing the temptations and pitfalls teens face online, and finding ways to remain a supportive and present parent.

In This Episode:

• Rebuilding bonds with rule-resistant teens
• Understanding modern social pressures on adolescents
• Shifting from punishment to building trust
• Navigating social media challenges with empathy
• Embracing the role of connection in discipline

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What if the key to being a better parent isn't being perfect but embracing our imperfections? It's time to get real about the rollercoaster journey of parenting, which is filled with mistakes, learning, and growth.

Today, I will talk candidly about the misconceptions around "parenting experts" and our own expectations as parents. I’ll share my experiences, exploring how moments of stress, like a recent family vacation, can shed light on our triggers and mistakes and how we can transform these mistakes into valuable lessons for ourselves and our children.

In This Episode:

• The myth of the "perfect parent" debunked
• Understanding the impact of high expectations
• Embracing mistakes as learning opportunities
• Navigating the emotional challenges of parenting transitions
• The importance of continuous growth and self-compassion

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What do you do when a nine-year-old flat-out refuses to take a shower? How might giving your child more autonomy reduce daily power struggles? In today's episode, we dive into these nuanced dynamics of connected parenting.

Joining me today is Jade, a dedicated mother juggling a blended family and her journey into connected parenting. Jade shares her struggle with her strong-willed nine-year-old daughter who challenges the status quo by simply saying, "No." Together, we explore the beauty of natural consequences, the search for autonomy in adolescence, and the importance of connection over control.

In This Episode:

• Embracing natural consequences over artificial punishments
• Supporting your child's search for autonomy
• Prioritizing connection to improve cooperation
• Guiding with questions instead of dictating
• Empowering children through their own decision-making

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Ever find yourself questioning your parenting because your child’s behavior doesn’t match up with society’s expectations? Today, I discuss a topic that hits close to home: the idea that successful parenting is not about having perfectly behaved children but about how we respond to their imperfections.

We often get caught up in societal expectations, believing that good parenting is reflected in having compliant, well-mannered kids. But real success lies in how we handle the challenging moments, the times when our kids act out, and how we use those moments to foster a deeper connection. I reflect on how important it is to ground ourselves in the truth that parenting is a journey filled with highs and lows and that every moment, good or bad, is an opportunity for growth.

In This Episode:

• Redefining parenting success beyond behavior
• The pressure of societal expectations on parents
• Why your child’s behavior doesn’t define your worth
• Using difficult moments to deepen connection
• My story of handling an outburst with grace

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What if the hardest moments in parenting are actually the best opportunities for connection? Can the struggles we face with our kids actually help us heal our own past? Today, I'm joined by the wonderful Cammie, who shares her heartfelt journey into connected parenting. We delve into the challenges and triumphs of raising young children while navigating the lingering effects of our own childhood experiences. From sleepless nights with a newborn to embracing the big emotions of a toddler, Cammie's story is a testament to the power of empathy and connection.

We explore how facing our children's most challenging moments can become a pathway to our own healing. As Cammie recounts her experiences, we discuss strategies for staying connected with our kids even in the midst of tantrums and upsets, and how these very moments can become the foundation of a deep, enduring bond.

In This Episode:

• Unexpected benefits of challenging parenting moments
• Healing past wounds through connected parenting
• Practical applications of empathy and connection
• Visualizing our inner child during parenting
• Group support and its transformative impact
• It’s never too late to strengthen connections

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Imagine this: Your child has just knocked over their sibling's Lego creation, and you’re torn between wanting to gently correct their behavior and wondering if there’s a better way. Is it really about making them say, "I'm sorry," or is there a deeper lesson to be learned?

In this episode, I share a more nuanced concept of accountability in parenting. We explore the common desire to hold our children accountable for their actions—whether it's making them apologize or ensuring they understand the consequences of their behavior. But what does "accountability" really mean in a connected parenting approach? I challenge the traditional views and offer insight into how we can foster true responsibility in our children without resorting to shame or force.

In This Episode:

• Redefining accountability in parenting
• Encouraging children to internalize lessons
• Balancing empathy with discipline
• Avoiding shame while teaching responsibility
• The impact of connected parenting on long-term behavior

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Is there a way to navigate sharing disputes that affirm both children's feelings and boundaries? Are sibling meltdowns causing tension in your home? Today, I sit down with Katrina, a mother of two daughters, navigating the tricky terrain of tantrums and toy sharing. Together, we delve into practical strategies for setting boundaries while respecting each child’s feelings, fostering a sense of fairness and validation for both siblings.

In This Episode:

• Handling sibling meltdowns empathetically
• Importance of listening to children’s feelings
• Teaching boundaries using connective principles
• Strategies to self-regulate as a parent
• Repairing and validating sibling relationships

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Does your child connect with some teachers but not others? Have you wondered why? Imagine a classroom where connection, not just curriculum, is the priority. Could this change everything?

Teaching has always been challenging, particularly due to crowded classrooms and lack of support for educators. However, I have personally witnessed how building real connections with students can significantly decrease behavioral problems and improve engagement. With 13 years of experience in public schools, I’ll share my thoughts on why our education system is letting down both teachers and students and explain how shifting our emphasis from academic rigor to nurturing relationships can establish a more productive and empathetic learning environment.

In This Episode:

• Teaching through connection, not curriculum
• Systemic issues in education
• The power of relationships in learning
• Practical tips for teachers
• Parallels between parenting and teaching
• Importance of play in education

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From a troubled teen to a mindful mom: Today, you’ll hear one mom’s journey of breaking the cycle of chaotic parenting. Have you ever felt like you're falling short as a parent despite your best efforts? In this powerful episode, I have an intimate conversation with Taylor, a mom who openly shares her struggles with regulating her emotions and the impact of her challenging upbringing on her parenting journey. Together, we explore practical strategies for overcoming self-doubt, managing sibling rivalries, and fostering a deeper connection with our children.

In This Episode:

• Strategies for managing anger and frustration
• The impact of childhood experiences on parenting
• Fostering connection through daily special time
• Empathetic approaches to resolving sibling conflicts
• Focusing on progress over perfection in parenting
• Recognizing and celebrating personal parenting strengths

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