Present and Sober

16/06/2022Present and Sober Podcast Episode 55The Comfort Crisis (part 1)

We all love to be comfortable, right? But what if our endless pursuit of comfort was actually messing us up? Like REALLY messing us up? Come and explore this question with us - you might be surprised where we go with this! 

What You'll learn in this Episode:

• Why Ellie should never do an intro 😂 (2.00)
• Why this is an important topic (4.00)
• How to start to sit with your feelings (9.00)
• How to empower yourself to see your emotions differently (26.00)
• Why you really should join the next STAY STOPPED SOLUTION!!! (25.00+)

Come and read about/join the July '22 'Stay Stopped Solution' Group 🙌
https://www.pumpupthepresent.com/offers/JjG3z2uN 
Don't forget to...

• Join the FB group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/presentandsoberpodcast
• Check out the YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeHQR-mfwZ5GxMhuv8IpEDw
• Catch Sam TikTok - @soberrebellion
• Leave us a review 😊 on your fave podcast player!

And now for that disclaimer...
Nothing on the Present & Sober podcast, including Ellie, Sam's and our guest's opinions, is a substitute for medical advice. Don’t stop drinking suddenly if you’re physically dependent on alcohol. Seek help for any withdrawal symptoms from a medical professional.

14/06/2022Present and Sober Podcast Episode 54Susan Joy: Lessons Learnt from Prison

The thought of going to prison is enough to strike the fear of God into most of us. By its very nature, prison is designed to be out of our comfort zone, a deterrent, a punishment. But does it do what it is 'designed' to do? What are the true realities of prison sub-culture and what would you do if you were there? This week we have the inspirational Susan Joy back with us as she reflects on the lessons and harsh realities of the prison system. We cover the challenges and the gifts of one of life's most challenging experiences. 
Susan is a certified 'This Naked Mind' and Health coach with a Master's Degree in Counseling. She has a special interest in working with sober-curious women who are experiencing midlife psychological, biological, and social transitions. Be sure to check out her resources and links below! 

What You'll learn in this Episode:

• Just how grateful Susan is for all the support she has received (2.30+) 
• The difference between jail and prison (08.00)
• The power of yoga & breath work throughout Susan's journey (10.00)
• The power of setting boundaries (15.00+)
• The realities of setting up shop in a prison community (20.00+)
• The beauty of carrying nothing (45.00)
• Rebuilding after prison and the power of dogs (55.00)

Susan's awesome resources 

• Susan's website - https://susanjoycoaching.com/
• Instagram - @susanjoycoaching

Don't forget to...

• Join the 'Stay Stopped Solution' waitlist - https://sendfox.com/presentandsober
• Join the FB group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/presentandsoberpodcast
• Catch us on TikTok @presentandsober
• Leave us a review 😊 on your fave podcast player!

07/06/2022Present and Sober Podcast Episode 53Am I an Alcoholic?
What You'll learn in this Episode:

• Why Ellie never used the term 'alcoholic' (2.00)
• The power of descriptors vs statements of 'who we are' (10.00)
• Why science uses 'alcohol use disorder' (not alcoholic) as a term (12.00)
• how the 'blame game' gets involved (15.00)
• Why in the end this is all up to YOU (15.00+)

Don't forget to...

• Join the 'Stay Stopped Solution' waitlist - https://sendfox.com/presentandsober
• Join the FB group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/presentandsoberpodcast
• Check out the YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeHQR-mfwZ5GxMhuv8IpEDw
• Catch us on Instagram - @presentandsoberpodcast
• Leave us a review 😊 on your fave podcast player!

And now for that disclaimer...
Nothing on the Present & Sober podcast, including Ellie, Sam's, and our guest's opinions, is a substitute for medical advice. Don’t stop drinking suddenly if you’re physically dependent on alcohol. Seek help for any withdrawal symptoms from a medical professional.

31/05/2022Present and Sober Episode 52The One Year Anniversary Show!!!

Can you believe it's 52 weeks since we embarked on this amazing journey together? Us neither!! So we thought we'd put something super special together to celebrate - we had such a laugh doing it too! not only are we having a super cool giveaway (info in the show notes and on the show), but we're also having a VERY serious awards ceremony 😉 to celebrate our top 5 most downloaded guests! Thank you sooooooo much for all the support - we love you all! 

What You'll learn in this special Episode:

• The 5 winners of the prestigious 'Present and Sober' awards 2022
• Some of Sam and Ellie's favourite moments from the past year
• How Sam and Ellie feel about their first podcast (live on air not prepared in any way)
• A lot of banter and silliness 

ONE-YEAR GIVEAWAY!!! (FOR EPISODE 52)
On Tuesday May 31st  we would love you to do three things in order to enter the giveaway... 
(It's gotta be on Tuesday 31st May to enter)
1. 
Subscribe/follow & listen to the podcast, on iTunes (Apple)
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/present-and-sober/id1569061067
(If you already follow our podcast, click the follow tick off and on again 🙂, and take a listen to our One Year Anniversary Show)
If you normally listen on Android - please click the link and follow us/listen on the Apple podcast website (above) just for one week - you don't need an Apple device to do this!
If enough of you listen to & follow the show on Tuesday, we have a real chance of hitting SUPER high up the podcast charts - how cool would that be!?!
We'll reach more people and spread more Present and Sober spirit around the world 🙂🙌🙏


2.
Listen to the episode (or as much of it as you can - you can always finish it later 🙂)...
And a short way into the podcast we're going to say 2 SECRET words...
After you've listened, do one more thing...
3.
Email Sam @...
[email protected] with the  SECRET word & confirmation that you listened/followed us to enter the giveaway! 
(final entries must hit Sam's inbox by 02:00am UK time (that's 09.00pm ET) on Tuesday 31st May)

Okay, I know you wanna know what's up for grabs so here we go...
5 limited edition 'Slippery Fish Mugs' - (yes you read that correctly) 
These will be made to order so we'll send it out to you wherever you are! 
2 limited edition T-shirts! 
And... 
(wait for it)...
For one lucky person...
A SPOT ON THE NEXT 'STAY STOPPED SOLUTION' - starting soon! 
Yep, you read that right...
Ellie and I have poured our heart and soul into this program and the love we have received has been incredible!  
So we wanna keep that channel open. 
We wouldn't be here without your love and support. 
So if you're on this list and want a shot... 
All you have to do is...

1. Follow 
2. Listen 
3. email the secret 'word' to Sam - [email protected]

On Tuesday  may 31st - on Apple Podcast (either the website or your Apple device)
Here's the podcast link again:
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/present-and-sober/id1569061067

Don't forget to...

• Join the 'Stay Stopped Solution' waitlist - https://sendfox.com/presentandsober
• Join the FB group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/presentandsoberpodcast
• Catch us on Instagram - @presentandsoberpodcast
• Leave us a review 😊 on your fave podcast player!

And now for that disclaimer...
Nothing on the Present & Sober podcast, including Ellie, Sam's and our guest's opinions, is a substitute for medical advice. Don’t stop drinking suddenly if you’re physically dependent on alcohol. Seek help for any withdrawal symptoms from a medical professional.

24/05/2022Present and Sober Podcast Episode 51How to Trust Your Inner Guide

It's all about getting out your comfort zone, right? Right. But with so many options, so many things 'to do' how we know we're doing the right this FOR US and not for those around us? It's a biggy and this week's podcast tackles this question head on. We all have an inner GPS, the thing is, how do we listen to the guidance when we've innocently drowned out the 'voice' of our inner guide for so long? 

What You'll learn in this Episode:

• How Sam (almost) became a poll dancer!
• How drinking can make the comfort tolerable (until it doesn't) (5.00+)
• Ellie's journey through the world of sales (10.00+)
• How removing alcohol brings clarity (16.00+)
• The need to prove our self can cloud our inner wisdom (22.00)
• How noticing your animating energy is super important (35.00+)
• Why trusting your feelings isn't always the best idea! (40.00+)

ONE-YEAR GIVEAWAY!!! (FOR EPISODE 52)
On Tuesday May 31st  we would love you to do three things in order to enter the giveaway... 
(It's gotta be on Tuesday 31st May to enter)
1. 
Subscribe/follow & listen to the podcast, on iTunes (Apple)
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/present-and-sober/id1569061067
(If you already follow our podcast, click the follow tick off and on again 🙂, and take a listen to our One Year Anniversary Show)
If you normally listen on Android - please click the link and follow us/listen on the Apple podcast website (above) just for one week - you don't need an Apple device to do this!
If enough of you listen to & follow the show on Tuesday, we have a real chance of hitting SUPER high up the podcast charts - how cool would that be!?!
We'll reach more people and spread more Present and Sober spirit around the world 🙂🙌🙏


2.
Listen to the episode (or as much of it as you can - you can always finish it later 🙂)...
And a short way into the podcast we're going to say a SECRET word...
After you've listened, do one more thing...
3.
Email Sam @...
[email protected] with the  SECRET word & confirmation that you listened/followed us to enter the giveaway! 
(final entries must hit Sam's inbox by 02:00am UK time (that's 09pm ET) on Tuesday 31st May)

Okay, I know you wanna know what's up for grabs so here we go...
5 limited edition 'Slippery Fish Mugs' - (yes you read that correctly) 
These will be made to order so we'll send it out to you wherever you are! 
2 limited edition T-shirts! 
And... 
(wait for it)...
For one lucky person...
A SPOT ON THE NEXT 'STAY STOPPED SOLUTION' - starting soon! 
Yep, you read that right...
Ellie and I have poured our heart and soul into this program and the love we have received has been incredible!  
So we wanna keep that channel open. 
We wouldn't be here without your love and support. 
So if you're on this list and want a shot... 
All you have to do is...

1. Follow 
2. Listen 
3. email the secret 'word' to Sam - [email protected]

On Tuesday  may 31st - on Apple Podcast (either the website or your Apple device)

Here's the podcast link again:
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/present-and-sober/id1569061067

Don't forget to...

• Join the 'Stay Stopped Solution' waitlist - https://sendfox.com/presentandsober
• Join the FB group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/presentandsoberpodcast
• Catch us on Instagram - @presentandsoberpodcast
• Leave us a review 😊 on your fave podcast player!

And now for that disclaimer...
Nothing on the Present & Sober podcast, including Ellie, Sam's and our guest's opinions, is a substitute for medical advice. Don’t stop drinking suddenly if you’re physically dependent on alcohol. Seek help for any withdrawal symptoms from a medical professional.

10/05/2022Present and Sober Podcast Episode 50Finding the Motivation for True Change
Today is the 50th episode of the 'Present and Sober' podcast!!! How on earth did that happen so fast? Yet at the same time, we've learnt so so much and we hope you all have too. This week's guest, Mary Davenport, is with us not just to share her story but to talk about motivation, the comfort zone, and the joy of living an alcohol-free life. We wanted to deliver a truly special episode for this milestone and Mary 100% delivered! 

Mary is a former party girl and current alcohol-free life coach. She grew up in Salt Lake City, Utah where alcohol was small and irrelevant in her life, and then spent her 20’s and 30’s globe-trotting with her foreign-service spouse and having babies. Sounds fun and glamorous and oftentimes it was, but it was also frequently challenging and lonely. Drinking was her favourite way to make new friends, let loose, celebrate, mark the end of the work day, or pass a Sunday afternoon. She truly had no idea how much alcohol was impacting her life and mental health until she took an experimental 30-day break from drinking. That was in January of 2019, and she hasn’t looked back. Amazed by how much better life is when lived “naked” rather than numb, Mary trained with Annie Grace to become an alcohol-free life coach and has helped hundreds of people on their journeys to freedom.
What You'll learn in this Episode:

• How Mary never experimented with having 'a drink' - only 'getting drunk' (5.30)
• How the writing was on the wall from Mary's early 20s (08.00)
• How 'This Naked Mind' changed everything for Mary (14.30+)
• How change is integral to the human experience (20.00)
• A flip on the way we usually look at the 'comfort zone' (28.00)
• How to grow your 'inner knowing' (40.00+)
• What the good witch has to do with anything (49.00)

Mary's awesome resources 

• Mary's website - https://www.goodwitchcoaching.com/

Don't forget to...

• Join the 'Stay Stopped Solution' waitlist - https://sendfox.com/presentandsober
• Join the FB group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/presentandsoberpodcast
• Catch us on Instagram - @presentandsoberpodcast
• Leave us a review 😊 on your fave podcast player!

10/05/2022Present and Sober Podcast Episode 49'Why am I so freakin' Angry all the time!?!'

"IT'S BEEN FOUR MONTHS OF ALCOHOL FREEDOM WHY AM I STILL SO IRRITABLE/ANGRY?" That's how the post (which became the inspiration for this podcast) started... 
How is it that in doing something so amazing (letting go of alcohol) our experience can shift so profoundly? Sometimes into uncomfortable feelings, we'd rather not have? This is the journey Sam and Ellie go on in this week's episode. The answer might surprise you... 

10/05/2022Present and Sober Podcast Episode 49'Why am I so freakin' Angry all the time!?!'
What You'll learn in this Episode:

• Our BIG announcement (2.00)
• This week's topic (08.00)
• How we may have been judging certain emotions as 'wrong' for a long time without knowing it & the impact this can have on our day to day experience (10.00)
• Why alcohol seems to 'work' to numb our emotions (15.00)
• Why Radical Responsibility requires (18.00)
• The mechanics of our filter (22.00)
• How Ellie's mum's use of emojis triggered a 'reaction' (28.00)
• How to respond instead of reacting (35.00+)

Don't forget to...

• Join the 'Stay Stopped Solution' waitlist - https://sendfox.com/presentandsober
• Join the FB group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/presentandsoberpodcast
• Catch us on Instagram - @presentandsoberpodcast
• Leave us a review 😊 on your fave podcast player!

And now for that disclaimer...
Nothing on the Present & Sober podcast, including Ellie, Sam's and our guest's opinions, is a substitute for medical advice. Don’t stop drinking suddenly if you’re physically dependent on alcohol. Seek help for any withdrawal symptoms from a medical professional.

03/05/2022Present and Sober Podcast Episode 48Rachael Layton: The Grey Area Drinking Trap

When Rachael had to navigate a huge life event, alcohol quickly became the support she thought she needed - until she realised it was taking far more than it was giving. Join us as Rachael shares her story through gray area drinking, navigating a divorce, and many of the ways alcohol is conning us into believing it's a good friend. 
Racheal spent years questioning how much she was drinking, worried what impacts it was having on her health and trying to moderate. Taking back control of alcohol has transformed her life in so many positive ways and now she want to help others achieve the same freedom. She is a certified TNM coach and she uses her experience, to help other people struggling with the same battle to feel empowered rather than trapped.

What You'll learn in this Episode:

• How Racheal's story started like so many other Aussie's (4.00+)
• How 'mommy wine culture' crept in (08.30)
• How navigating divorce changed everything (10.30)
• What the Wizard of Oz has to do with anything (25.00)
• What mangoes has to do with anything (32.00)
• How stopping drinking can potentially help with hot flushes and premenopausal symptoms (40.00)

Rachael's awesome resources 

• Rachael's website - https://inspiredtochange.com.au/
• Instagram - @inspired_to_change_aus

Don't forget to...

• Join the 'Stay Stopped Solution' waitlist - https://sendfox.com/presentandsober
• Join the FB group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/presentandsoberpodcast
• Catch us on Instagram - presentandsoberpodcast
• Leave us a review 😊 on your fave podcast player!

And now for that disclaimer...
Nothing on the Present & Sober podcast, including Ellie, Sam's and our guest's opinions, is a substitute for medical advice. Don’t stop drinking suddenly if you’re physically dependent on alcohol. Seek help for any withdrawal symptoms from a medical professional.

26/04/2022Present and Sober Podcast Episode 47Susan Joy: A Sudden Rock bottom, Prison and Returning to Joy

Prepare yourself for an emotional episode full of twists and turns as Susan Joy shares her incredible story for the first time. This week we talk about rock bottoms, surviving prison, and using dark times as a beacon of light for others on their alcohol-free journey. Susan's story is as harrowing as it is fascinating and it highlights the deep power in taking radical responsibility for our lives and the power of hope to guide us back home. 

Susan is a certified 'This Naked Mind' and Health Coach with a Master's Degree in Counseling. She has a special interest in working with sober-curious women who are experiencing midlife psychological, biological, and social transitions. 

What You'll learn in this Episode:

• Susan's journey to using alcohol as a way to deal with life's challenges 
• The impact of our relationships on our drinking and lives (14.00)
• How a DUI can happen to anyone, no matter their background (13.00)
• The impact a prison sentence can have on our loved ones (19.00)
• The shock of prison culture & the power of dogs (30.00+)
• How Susan returned to drinking after being released (36.00)

Susan's awesome resources 

• Susan's website - https://susanjoycoaching.com/
• Instagram - @susanjoycoaching

Don't forget to...

• Join the 'Stay Stopped Solution' waitlist - https://sendfox.com/presentandsober
• Join the FB group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/presentandsoberpodcast
• Catch us on Instagram - presentandsoberpodcast
• Leave us a review 😊 on your fave podcast player!

19/04/2022Present and Sober Podcast Episode 46Karolina Rzadkowolska: Euphoric; Gain a Happier More Confident You

It's time to balance the books! Our guest this week - Karolina Rzadkowolska is all about finding that happier, more confident you (without the booze). Let's be honest, the story out there about living alcohol-free is seriously one-sided. How many of us have been told that living AF is 'unfortunate' or just something we'll 'have to deal with'? The thing is, nothing could be further from the truth! Come and discover the amazing personal and professional edge that choosing to be alcohol-free provides us. 
Karolina is a certified alcohol-free life coach, host of 'Euphoric the Podcast', and the bestselling author of 'Euphoric; Ditch Alcohol & Gain a Happier More Confident You'. She specializes in helping highly intuitive women make alcohol insignificant and harness their true potential - be sure to check out her amazing work and website below! 

19/04/2022Present and Sober Podcast Episode 46Karolina Rzadkowolska: Euphoric; Gain a Happier More Confident You
What you will learn in this episode:

• Karolina's story & how she found the space of change (03.00+)
• How alcohol can affect our mood (06.00)
• Some of Karolina's biggest epiphanies (14.00)
• How living without booze is badass (14.00)
• What about creativity? (22.00)
• How to start the journey to euphoria (31.00)

Karolina's awesome resources; book, podcast, coaching...

• Karolina's Website - https://euphoricaf.com/

Don't forget to...

• Join the 'Stay Stopped Solution' waitlist - https://sendfox.com/presentandsober
• Join the FB group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/presentandsoberpodcast
• Leave us a review 😊 on your fave podcast player!