Soul Led Living Podcast with Nikki Novo

Lindsey Simcik is an instantly recognizable name in the podcast world. As co-host of Almost 30, she and Krista Williams boast one of the top-rated lifestyle podcasts in the game. I like to think of them as my virtual besties. Lindsey has had an amazing journey that she’s shared on the podcast, relating to thousands of listeners. 

Today, Lindsey is in a relationship and considers her time as a single woman empowering, but something that she’s only shared with friends during deep conversations. Now, she’s paying it forward with her Instagram live series called, “The Sacredness of Being Single.”

Listen in to learn more about Lindsey’s series, her own healing, meeting her person, and some lessons she’s learned along the way. 

What we cover:

• The power of being a single woman 
• Releasing the pressure of being in a relationship
• Opening your heart 
• Owning your divine feminine
• Growing in a relationship

Resources

Lindsey’s Instagram

Almost 30 Website

Almost 30 Podcast

Yue Xu was new to San Francisco when she first met Julie Krafchick at a brunch event. The two hit it off after realizing that dating was their number one favorite subject to obsess over.

Soon their podcast Dateable was born where the two talk to real daters and their experiences.

During their podcast tenure, they’ve both been single and in relationships, giving them learning experiences that have brought them a lot of self-work and growth. According to the podcasters, the work never stops.

Yue and Julie joined me on the podcast to share all their modern dating know-how.

From the Bay Area’s gender roles to the end of fuckboys, the Dateable girls give us new insight into dating during COVID and beyond. 

What we cover:

• Finding love in San Francisco
• How to navigate the shift in gender roles
• The cultural shift toward polyamory 
• Men and communication
• Dating during quarantine and COVID dating trends

Resources

• Dateable Podcast
• Dateable’s Instagram
• Dateable’s Website

Have you ever had a friend call you out on your shit? The kind of friend who reminds you to stop feeling bad for yourself.

Veronica Grant had that friend. And this friend reminded her that she was awesome, but had a habit of wanting to be validated by outside sources — aka, a guy.

Ultimately, Veronica armed herself with tools to kick the habit of down playing her worth. She found herself a partner who valued her, and then decided to teach other women how to do the same.

These days, Veronica is a love-life coach and a dating podcaster helping women everywhere find love in feely kinda way.

Veronica joined me today on the podcast to share her wisdom on how to move from dating overwhelm to dating success.

We explained how we kick the habit of people pleasing, get over the fear of rejection, and use the feeling of loneliness for good.

What we cover:

• Integrating the spiritual tools you know to change your life
• How to get over the fear of rejection
• Dating as a people pleaser
• Taking a look at why you're attracting what you're attracting

Resources:

• Veronica’s Website
• Veronica’s Instagram
• Veronica’s Podcast
• Veronica's free training
• The Intuitive Dating Method with Nikki Novo

Changing our beliefs in order to get to where we want, isn't a new concept.

But I know so many of you are trying to believe good things are coming, or that you're worthy, or that there are still good people out there. I know you're trying, but why doesn't it always stick?

In today's episode, we're going to dig into some of the material in Chapter 5 of "The Final Swipe," where I talk about how to change your beliefs in a way that feels good.

Get your notebook ready, because you're going to want to remember this one.

Resources:

• High-Vibe Dating Group Coaching
• The Final Swipe Book
• Soul Seeker- My course designed to sharpen your intuition
• Join our free Facebook group The Final Swipe Podcast group to connect with Nikki and other like-minded daters

Have you ever dated someone and thought he or she was the answer to your prayers? Where it all just seemed so perfect, and you really felt heard by the Universe. It felt like…

This is it. 

That happened to me once while I was dating, and nope the guy didn’t turn out to be my now-husband. Shocker?

And for someone who really depends on her intuition, thinking this guy was “the one” only to find out later that I was wrong, was a real blow to the ego. Not to mention, the Universe received a few angry letters from me, as well. 

Here’s the truth: I was seeing this relationship as an answer to my current life’s prayer and not my future life’s prayer. 

In today’s podcast episode, I share that story with you, so you can see where I went wrong with my own intuition, in hopes that you understand yours a little bit more. 

Ready? Because you’re about to have a meeting with your soul today. 

Listen in on today’s episode of The Final Swipe.

Resources:

• High-Vibe Dating Group Coaching
• Soul Seeker- My course designed to sharpen your intuition
• Join our free Facebook group The Final Swipe Podcast group to connect with Nikki and other like-minded daters

I recently did readings with the hosts of Mindfully Millennial, and I just had to share their thoughts on their experience.

Today, we're running a recording from their podcast where we talk about how I became intuitive, and how I'm able to see people's blocks without ever seeing their faces.

I know, guys, it's bizarre. But truth is, we're all energy.

If you're a tad bit interested in how reading works and how legit predicting futures can really be, this is a must listen to episode.

Resources:

• High-Vibe Dating Group Coaching
• Mindfully Millennial Podcast
• Join our free Facebook group The Final Swipe Podcast group to connect with Nikki and other like-minded daters
• Nikki will be teaching live in D.C. in February. Grab your tickets below!
• Intuitive Dating Workshop
• Tapping into Intuition with Spirit Guides Workshop

Today is our wedding anniversary. Eight years! I can't believe it. For a while there, I really never thought I would have a relationship past two years. Here I am, all grown up!

In today's episode, I wanted to share with you my story of how I met my husband. How we came together. What worked. What didn't work.

I know it's kind of an old story, but love is a classic story, right? I wanted to share because I think you might find a few nuggets of wisdom that will help you along your path. Plus, aren't we at the stage by now, where you should know my love story?

Enjoy! And send me any thoughts or questions.

This is your year for love, right? But haven’t you said that before? Isn’t it super scary to think that you’re in the same place all over again?

I got you, my friend. 

In this episode of The Final Swipe, I discuss your 2020 plan. This is how this year is going to be different. 

It’s a mix of honesty, inspired action, and mindset. 

Get your notes ready! Write down what comes up as we talk. 

Why do some people from our past just feel sticky? Energetic cords, my friend.

I see these often on people. They look like little ropes coming from one person to the other.

Sometimes, we're the person holding on, and sometimes they're holding on.

Who care who is the doing the holding. What's important is that we release them. If we don't, they become littler energy leaks in our aura.

Don't be afraid to let go of people. It doesn't mean we'll never see them again. This healing just helps us not feel attached to them. We no longer need their validation or love to be feel whole. We are calling back all our energy to ourselves, so we can be our most powerful self.

Warning, do this practice when not driving.

And let me know how it goes!

When we think "boundaries" we tend to think about setting them for people we don't really like. Or for people who we have to keep at an arms length. We rarely think of setting boundaries for people we do like.

In this episode, author and master coach Nancy Levin schools us on the magic of boundaries, and how they make us look sexy while dating.

She also shares her story of being in a controlling relationship, how she was able to get out, heal, and move forward. So many of us can see ourselves in her story, so it's one to listen to.

I also have a funny situation in the recording, where I'm trying to please Nancy, while she's teaching us about how not to please others. It's funny, and very eye-opening.

Get ready to open your heart by expanding it towards yourself first. Give this episode a listen and let me know your thoughts.

What we cover:

• What are boundaries?
• How do we set them?
• How can we stop people pleasing in dating and in life?
• How to stop being perfect

Resources:

• Nancy's new book: "Setting Boundaries Will Set You Free"
• Nancy's site: https://www.nancylevin.com/
• Levin Life Coaching: https://www.nancylevin.com/vip/

Updates:

• Join our free Facebook group The Final Swipe Podcast group to connect with Nikki and other like-minded daters
• Nikki will be teaching live in D.C. in February. Grab your tickets below!
• Intuitive Dating Workshop
• Tapping into Intuition with Spirit Guides Workshop