Stuck Not Broken

What supports do real people in shutdown find the most helpful? And how many supports do they try? This is part 4 of the Shutdown Experiences Survey results.

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00:00 Introduction: You're Not Alone in Shutdown

00:34 Survey Insights: Most Helpful Resources

01:04 Exploring Support Options: What Works Best?

04:29 Challenges in Overcoming Shutdown

07:24 The Role of Co-Regulation and Support

10:14 Non-Professional vs. Professional Support

18:22 From Shutdown to Stillness

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Let's practice validating! Can you validate the sensations, emotions, impulses, cognitions, and Polyvagal state in this story?

00:00 Introduction to Validation

00:07 Understanding Validation

01:01 Domains of Validation

01:45 Introducing the SSIEC Tool

03:18 Story of Maria

04:23 Analyzing Emotions and Cognitions

06:31 Exploring Sensations and Impulses

09:27 Polyvagal State Analysis

15:20 Conclusion and Resources

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Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

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Join therapist and coach Justin Sunseri as he delves into emotional validation and its role in self-regulation. Learn the first lesson from his course, Shutdown to Stillness, which focuses on compassionately validating and acknowledging your emotions as a critical step towards inner peace and self-regulation. Validation can lead to normalization and even permitting your emotions to be.

00:00 Introduction to Emotional Invalidation

01:27 Understanding Shutdown and Stillness

01:47 The Autonomic Nervous System Overview

04:35 Experiences of Shutdown

05:21 The Importance of Stillness

06:04 Combining Safety and Shutdown

07:50 Validating Shutdown

13:44 Self-Reflection

15:31 Conclusion and Course Information

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Why do you get obsessive, ruminating, or scattered thinking? Justin Sunseri answers this question through the lens of the Polyvagal Theory. He explains freeze and then describes how that results in cognitive shifts.

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Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

Therapist and coach Justin Sunseri addresses a YouTube comment regarding persistent hyperarousal and difficulty accessing a state of ventral vagal safety. Justin discusses various perspectives and advice from members of his private community, highlighting the importance of small steps, connections with others, and mindful practices. The episode emphasizes the necessity of both internal and external sources of safety, including co-regulation with others and individual sensory experiences. Justin also mentions approaches like validating emotions, normalizing experiences, and incremental exposure to safety cues as critical components to overcoming emotional dysregulation.

00:00 Introduction and Overview

00:16 Reading a YouTube Comment

03:15 Community Insights: Karen's Advice

12:36 Community Insights: Flo's Journey

17:08 Community Insights: Love Day's Experience

19:20 Community Insights: Mandy's Perspective

23:37 Understanding Co-Regulation

24:20 Professional vs. Friendly Co-Regulation

25:17 Using Co-Regulation Mindfully

26:19 Alternative Ways to Co-Regulate

27:35 Reconnecting with Others

29:10 Community Insights on Co-Regulation

30:21 Addressing Defensive State Activation

34:43 Personalizing Your Approach

43:13 Next Steps and Resources

45:53 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Learn what the Freeze trauma response is, the dangers of addressing it head-on, and how to start coming out of it.

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Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

Join therapist and coach Justin Sunseri as he addresses a key question from his private community about transitioning from dorsal vagal shutdown to sympathetic flight fight activation. In this episode of 'Stuck Not Broken,' Justin delves into the Polyvagal Theory, explaining how to safely navigate these states without reinforcing a shutdown pattern. He also provides insights into his upcoming book and exclusive cohort 'Shutdown to Stillness.' Learn how to live with more calm, confidence, and connection while enhancing your self-regulation skills.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:57 Understanding Shutdown and Sympathetic Activation

03:12 The Role of Safety in Navigating Shutdown

07:50 Practical Steps to Move from Shutdown to Mobilization

10:42 Addressing Concerns and Misconceptions

15:42 Updates on the Book and Future Plans

20:25 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

Justin Sunseri addresses whether everyone can recover from trauma by accessing their Polyvagal safety state. He explains the nuances, emphasizing the importance of context, co-regulation, and healthy attachments.

0:00 Can Anybody Self-Regulate and Recover from Trauma?

01:43 Introduction to Safety Anchors and UDS

02:08 Exploring the Concept of Safety Anchors

03:53 The Role of Co-Regulation in Safety

04:33 Challenges of Practicing Alone

05:01 Building a Supportive Environment

06:46 Barriers to Achieving Safety

07:54 Impact of Personal Growth on Relationships

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I answer questions about self-regulation and our safety state - should we challenge the capacity of our distress tolerance? Will this help strengthen our vagal brake?

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Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

Justin Sunseri continues his exploration of the Shutdown Experiences Survey, this time discussing the results of how dorsal vagal shutdown affects people on a daily basis. How effective do people feel they are coping? How do they alter their daily lives?

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Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).