Borderlines are Drowning Emotionally Go *No Contact* Don't Drown With The Relation - SHIP

Borderlines (untreated) are drowning emotionally go no contact don't drown with the Relationship. Borderline emotional dysregulation and the major defense mechanism of splitting leave many partners,

Ex's, On/Off again "partners" playing the role of a life preserver.If you approached a person actually drowning in a pool or lake who was panicked and freaking out they often pull rescuers under who then drown as well.

Sessions with A.J. Mahari - ajmahari.ca/sessions

Borderline Inward Focus Leaves You Out - 5 Reasons Why

The inward focus of people with Borderline Personality Disorder is at the heart of why you really cannot be connected to them and they don't ever truly connect fully or consistently to or with you.
The inward focus of people with BPD has 5 central core reasons that all end up blocking you out and making mutuality and/or reciprocity impossible which makes your relationship unhealthy and next to impossible, if not impossible. to have work, last, or function in any remotely healthy way at all.

What Do Borderlines Need? 9 Red Flags You Can't Help Them & Why You Will Be Punished For Caring

Peope with Patterns of BPD or diagnosed and not extremely well treated and on their way to BPD
Recovery (for real) need from a partner or anyone close to them interpersonally. Why you really
can't give them what they need. 9 Red Flags why helping a borderline and meeting their needs is
impossible and how you will be punished for caring, loving them, and trying to meet their needs
and walk on all those eggshells.

Sessions with A.J. Mahari - ajmahari.ca/sessions

BPD On/Off Relationship Recycling limbo and Still Stuck Wanting Your BPD Ex Back? Why?

BPD on/off relationship recycling limbo and still stuck wanting your BPD Ex back is the
situation that a lot of people are finding themselves in. What is keeping you stuck in
these very unhealthy cycles? Why do so many keep betraying themselves? If you can relate
what is your self-abandonment due to? Your relationship to an untreated person with
Borderline Personality Disorder is a trauma bond. There is no healthy love in a trauma bond.

ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessions With A.J. Mahari

Loving a Borderline is a One Way Relationship

When you are loving or trying to love a person with Borderline Personality, whether a significant other,
mother or father. sibling or friend it's a one way relationship. You will give and give and that person
will take and take. You want to please them, but they can't be pleased. You want to be seen and heard but they truly don't see you or hear you. Loving a Borderline is a one way relationship in which you lose yourself. There is no mutuality in these relationships. When you need something like support or being heard about feeling hurt the BPD partner or on/off Ex has nothing to give you. Why do you put up with this lack of mutuality?

https://ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessions with A.J.

Do Borderlines Lack of Empathy?

Borderlines lack of empathy is fueled by identity disturbance - the loss of self and the arrested emotional development as a trauma response to adverse childhood experience. People with BPD unconsciously at very young ages need a lot of defense mechanisms to survive their childhoods. Their defenses in childhood become very maladaptive in adulthood in any attempts
to have relationships.

Borderline Provocation Manipulates You What Codependents Need To Know To Get Into Recovery Action to Break Free

Borderline provocation manipulates you to react & re-engage in cycles of circles that won't and can't meet your needs. Why and how can you stop the emotional reactivity? This happens in BPD Breakups and/or BPD Relationship recycling as well as in any relationship type with a person with BPD patterns and/or BPD. Codependents need to take action in a healing and recovery process to learn how to stop self-abandoning and how to regulate their own emotions to cope more effectively with choices and working toward no contact and breaking the unhealthy bond.

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Borderline Ghost You? Want BPD Ex Back? Is Your BPD Ex Thinking About You?

Most people who each get into a significant other relationship, with someone who ends up having
all the patterns of BPD (undiagnosed) or someone diagnosed and untreated, will get split to devaluation and ghosted.

When most people in these unhealthy relationships (having Codependency) are ghosted they want the BPD Ex back. Is your BPD Ex thinking about you? Do people with undiagnosed and/or untreated BPD really have you on their minds after splitting you to devaluation and ghosting you?

BPD Betrayal Means Can't Be Friends & No Contact Needs To Be For Life

BPD Betrayal occurs when they split you to devaluation (often even in the relationship) and then the major split to devaluation (in relationship recycling repeatedly) ghost or discard you. It is not healthy at
all to want to be friends with a Borderline that betrayed you. No contact is the way to heal. No contact needs to be for life? Why is no contact so important? I talk about why no contact is central
to breaking the trauma bond and healing and why it needs to be for life.

This episode of Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups Podcast features Season 2 Episode 8 of my Codependency Surviving Cluster B Relationships Podcast.

Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems 16 Patterns Re-Enacted In BPD or NPD Adult Relationships

People with Codependency, more often than not, re-enact core childhood woundness from Family
Sytems in Family of Origin in adulthood with people with BPD or NPD - 16 Patterns of Codependents with peoplw with BPD or NPD in adult relationships and more. Do you relate to one or more of the 16 patterns of feeling and or actions? To be a Codependent doesn't mean you have to have or identify with any and every pattern or explanation I give or anyone else gives. Denail is unfortunately a very strong possiblity for many people who will benefit from realizing what Codependency is, means, and the many ways you can experience it, relate from it and get into and/or stay in very toxic relationships because of the patterns of the core content of what Codpendency is and means.