Borderline Revolving Door Situationship -Can It Work? Borderline Revolving Door
Situationships see the borderline come and go many times in weeks or months.
Why do Codependents keep letting them come back?

Does Your BPD Ex Remember The Good Times? A.J. Mahari's answer, the explanation and
how staying invested in this answer is self-abandonment and going to increase your pain. What do you need to do to get past this question and false hope to start healing your pain?

Borderline Inability To Communicate Part 2 Tennis Anyone? A.J. Mahari in Part 2 of the impossibility of communicating in BPD relationships to people with untreated BPD who have no logic and no self from which to communicate mutually rather than defend at all costs.

Borderline Core Communication Deficits No Ability to Repair Or Give Closure to Any BPD Episode. Untreated people with BPD have no emotional maturity to take personal responsibility and be open to reparative communication instead they defend, deflect, blame, rage, and twist your words back at you in a projective and childlike way.

Reverse Hoovers of The Borderline After Being Ghosted only increase your pain after a BPD Relationship Breakup. The path to surviving the BPD Relationship Breakup and learning to cope with your pain means getting into action in therapy to heal and recover from the relationship and family of origin childhood trauma or woundedness.

BPD Splitting More Devaluation Less Idealization In BPD Relationships - A.J. Mahari goes deep into BPD Splitting revealing that there is no continued cycle of idealization to devaluation but rather devaluation to its cessation temporarily to BPD base mood. People with BPD do not see or hear you for who you really are just as object other parent representation re-experiencing repetition compulsions cycles of childhood adverse experiences. These relationships are unhealthy and impossible.

A commenter to my Youtube channel left a comment as to his theory or
belief that there is so much more involved in and happening for
people with suspected or untreated Borderline Personality in the initial
Idealization Phase of beginning a relationship. A.J. Mahari points out
how and why this person's trying to apply perceived logic and rational
about people with BPD isn't a part of the initial idealization phase

BPD Relationship Cycle 7 Stages Of Rinse and Repeat - The "Archetypal" stages and phases that continually repeat and re-occur in repetition compulsions unconscious ways for and with people with untreated BPD and those who try to love them - often people with Codependency. A.J. Mahari explains the BPD Relationship Cycle that is rinse and repeat until the partner or Ex partner gets into treatment to break the trauma bond and heal from the relationship and why NO CONTACT is essential to ending this incredibly painful toxic relationship cycle.

Inside BPD Idealization Does or Did the Borderline Love You? A.J. Mahari explains how you are not seen and heard in idealization either. The intense and fast relationship beginning with a person with BPD is creating a fantasy bond within a trauma bond. Untreated people with BPD can't love or attach to you. You are, to them, "Object Other Parent Representative within the unconscious repetition compulsion cycles of untreated borderlines.

Borderlines and Narcissists - Codependent’s Focus On Cluster B's Is Not The Way of Healing. A.J. Mahari explains why continuing to focus son a borderline or narcissist Ex and/or parent or friend is not the way to heal and in fact will block you getting into the action of a formal healing and recovery journey. Even when you are "out" of the relationship after leaving or being ghosted or discarded how do you emotionally and focus-wise heal and totally get out of the relationship, detach, and move forward without recycling.