BPD Breakup Men The Man Up Be Tough Message Has Nothing To Do With the Breakup and Will Not Win The BPD Woman Back - Counsellor and Trauma Recovery Coach AJ Mahari

Borderline Projective Identification and the effects it has on loved ones, parnters, Ex's of those with BPD. Codependent introjection of Borderline Projective Identification - Inside the Trauma Bond Dynamics.

Can you keep a Person with Borderline Personality Disorder Happy or Make them Happy or is this Codependent denial?

BPD Breakups Leave Ex's wondering if the BPD Ex will find someone better and be happy with them. Rumination is pervasive very common and extremely painful. Codependents ruminate about an with BPD without their own therapy because they don't know how to let go. Rumination is negative and deep and not just about the BPD Ex. I work with clients to help them break patterned rumination.

Borderline Abuse of partners is significant and traumatizing. Both men and women with BPD abuse their partners. Many who are in relationships with someone with suspected or diagnosed BPD are trauma bonded due to their own codependency. Abuse is not love. Untreated Borderlines don't attach or love they try to possess you, control you, and they often become obsessed. Borderline abuse is a deal breaker and codependents need therapy to break the trauma bond and heal from broken abusive relationships and codependency.

Part 3 of 3 Loving an untreated person with Borderline Personality is impossible.
The inequity and injustice men experience when a marriage with a borderline ex breaksup and
their are children involved as well as a question from a woman about her male BPD Ex.

Part 2 of 3 Loving a Borderline is Impossible with a lot of questions from men and focus on many challenges that are more difficult for men in a relationship breakup with a Borderline Female and therapy is so important to healing codependency and from these relationship breakups.

Part 1 of 3 Loving a Borderline is Impossible - From a Youtube Live Stream A.J. Mahari did January 12, 2022 Loving a Borderline is impossible. Surviving a BPD Relationship Breakup means coming to terms with this in therapy and healing your codependency.

Borderline Personality and Secondary Psychopathy, not proven, but as conflicting studies indicate, it is not a reality for all with BPD but may well be for the most severe cases of BPD. Secondary Psychopathy in BPD does not mean a percentage of those with severe BPD are Psychopaths. It is also not (as A.P.A.) claims only in women with Severe BPD but Men with Severe BPD also. In my 31 years of working with clients approx 10% to 15% have experienced a person (Ex) in their life with Severe BPD and who likely had secondary psychopathy. What is it and what does it mean in those with BPD who have it. Secondary Psychopathy is not a Borderline splitting and becoming a "Psychopath" at all.

A.J. Mahari Interview with Author and BPD Expert Randi Kreger who co-authored Stop Waking on Eggshells - Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Love Has Borderline Personality Disorder. Randi's books are in the podcast intro and she has 2 new books coming in 2022. Randi talks about BPD, what she has termed Conventional and Unconventional BPD, and BPD/NPD trait or Personality Disorder Co-Morbidity. Everyone can learn from Randi Kreger and in this interview no matter the relationship type you have or had with someone with BPD. Randi's website is https://stopwalkingoneggshells.com