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And your actions are aligned. A lot of people talk about what they, what they want to do or what they want to achieve or who they want to become. But so much of life is your mindset. It is what you think about yourself. It is what you think about your opportunities. It is about the story you tell yourself as you are experiencing life. You know, so many of our lives are similar, but we view the same things differently. And sometimes there’s benefit to that, but sometimes that can hurt us in our journey. And I found a, a lot of value, a lot of value in getting clear on the direction that life is going, on the direction that I want things to go, whether it’s in personal or, or business, friendship, relationship, family. Having that clarity, having a, having a vision, having a purpose, and then waking up every single day, putting in efforts to live inside of the mindset necessary as well as the actions necessary to align with the vision.

Now, I don’t say this from a place of rigidity either because we do know that, uh, people need to adapt. You do need to adapt to what’s going on around you. You do need to adapt to your environment and to your circumstance, to your capabilities, to your abilities. But you also need to adapt to the possibilities. And I strongly believe, this is something I teach to all my clients, something I’m always talking about, I write about it in my books, is your mindset is everything. And when you can get to that congruence, that place of congruence, and this isn’t about perfection. This is just about that place of congruence where your mind and your actions are aligned, where you have that praxis, where you have that energy that is just flowing because the mind, the body, the heart, and the soul, you have that union. You have that, that union, that connection between all things.

So I, I hope you have a great week. I hope you stay focused on your mindset. I hope each day you wake up and you program your mind on where you’re going, right? Where you are right now is most likely the result of a previous mindset and previous actions. So if you love where you are, that’s good. Keep doing what you’re doing. Keep investing in your life the way that you’re investing in your life. And if you don’t, if you don’t like what you see, it’s no, no reason to beat yourself up about it. It’s just about, “Hey, pick yourself up. Where am I going? What do I need to do? What do I need to focus on?” And the question that I love, a question that I give my clients all the time is: who do you need to become to experience what you want to experience? Or, who do you need to become to go to the level that you need to go to?

So much of life is, uh, just about your personality, your personal reality. So much of life is just about the personal reality that you choose to live in. And the beautiful thing is that, you know what? There’s some things we can never change, that we do need to just accept and love about ourselves, and there are some things that we can shift, we can get better, we can, uh, improve. And, and, and for some of us, it’s not improvement. For some of us, it’s just alignment. Like, some people don’t need to get better. Some people need to actually just live in alignment. And through the natural consequence of living in alignment, everything is better for you, right? Some people approach personal development work and they’re like, “Oh, I just gotta get better,” and that’s true for some people. Uh, that’s true for a lot of people. You do need to get better. But there’s a lot of people who don’t actually need to be better. They just need to be more in alignment, which you could argue is better. You could argue that’s better too.

The Voice Inside Your Head is Lying to You : Integrating The Critical Inner-Voice

Your inner critic is a programmed script that is actively holding you back from your potential. Most of us operate under the assumption that our inner voice is telling us the truth about our worth, our capabilities, and our future. But what if that voice is actually a liar?

It’s time to stop believing everything you think.

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Good morning. Thank you for tuning in. I’m an author of 10 books. My name is Sylvester McNutt III. I’m a life coach as well as I’m a former athlete. I played arena football for three years. Today I want to talk to you about the it is yours assumption. First, I’m going to read you this page from my book, Live the Life You Deserve. And then I’m going to walk you through the is it yours assumption. And we’re just going to talk a little bit about your mindset.

“One of the best parts of life is when you recognize that yes, there is a lot you cannot control and there is a lot you can. It’s a duality. When people speak about feeling empowered, it’s because they know that there is a lot they can control and they focus there. They make a home there. You can design your life every day. You have air in your lungs. You can design your life the way you want. Fall in love with this process because the more you love it, the easier it is.”

That’s Live The Life You Deserve page 122.

The ‘It Is Yours’ Assumption

Adopting the Assumption

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Author Sylvester McNutt III talks about the Law Of Attraction and the Art Of Allowing

Using the Law of Attraction is about more than just wishing for something—it’s about aligning your thoughts, energy, and actions with the reality you want to create. When you live in harmony with your desires, you begin to attract opportunities, people, and circumstances that match the vibration you’re putting out into the world.

This recording is designed to remind you of your power. Every day you are either consciously or unconsciously shaping your reality. The Law of Attraction works whether you believe in it or not. The difference is that when you learn to use it intentionally, you step into the driver’s seat of your own life. Instead of drifting, you begin to manifest with clarity and purpose.

Inside this message, I talk about aligning with the energy of what you want, practicing gratitude to expand your frequency, and visualizing with conviction so your subconscious mind believes it’s already yours. When your mindset and your vibration match the life you desire, the universe has no choice but to respond.

If you’ve ever felt stuck or wondered why the things you want seem just out of reach, this will help you shift perspective. You’ll learn that life isn’t about chasing—it’s about attracting. By staying focused, positive, and consistent in your inner work, you create a magnetism that pulls your goals closer to you every single day.

For a deeper dive into these principles, make sure you check out my book Live the Life You Deserve. It’s available now on Audible, so you can listen anywhere, anytime, and let these teachings sink into your subconscious. Go deeper and get the audibook now, Live The Life You Deserve on Audible, or order the Hardback or Paperback versions for those of you who like to feel the energy of a book.

Is Your Story Holding You Back? ( How To Take Your Power Back)

Sylvester talks about the steps needed to take your power back if you feel like your story may be holding you back.

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How to Deal with Fear and Anxiety in Relationships (The Walking on Eggshells Feeling )

Navigating fear and anxiety in relationships—often described as the "walking on eggshells" feeling—can be emotionally exhausting. This sensation arises when you’re constantly on edge, trying to manage someone else’s reactions while suppressing your own feelings and needs. But the truth is, you have choices. You don’t have to stay trapped in this cycle.

The first step is to understand where this fear and anxiety stem from. Are you afraid of conflict? Rejection? Or is it tied to a deeper sense of unworthiness or unresolved wounds from the past? Once you’ve identified the root cause, you can begin to decide how you want to move forward.

Here are your choices:

1. Accept them as they are. Sometimes, the person you're dealing with may not change, and it’s up to you to decide if you can find peace in accepting them for who they are without losing yourself in the process.

2. Get out of the middle ground and lean into a hard conversation. This means addressing the tension directly and honestly, even if it feels uncomfortable. Speak your truth, set boundaries, and clarify your needs. Hard conversations are often the gateway to deeper connection or necessary clarity.

3. Invite them to a new level of relationship. If the relationship has potential but is stuck in a dysfunctional pattern, you can propose a new way of engaging—a level of honesty, vulnerability, and mutual respect that elevates the connection. This requires both parties to be willing to grow.

4. Continue people-pleasing.* This choice keeps the peace temporarily, but it often comes at the cost of your own emotional health. Over time, it can lead to resentment, burnout, and a deeper disconnect from yourself and the relationship.

The key is to recognize that fear and anxiety are signals—not permanent states. They are asking you to take action, make a choice, and step into your power. Whether you choose acceptance, honest communication, or inviting change, remember that the ultimate goal is to honor yourself and create relationships where you feel safe, respected, and seen. Want to go deeper with me? Here are the two options.

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Episode Title: The Big Board Exercise: Getting Focused on the Life You Want

In this episode, I dive into the powerful Big Board Exercise that I recently led in my community. This exercise is all about getting laser-focused on what you want, living in alignment with your goals, and refusing to make excuses for the life you deserve. Whether you’re looking to manifest a thriving career, deeper relationships, or personal peace, this episode is a step-by-step guide to clarity and action.

Getting clear on your desires isn’t just a mental exercise—it’s a transformative process that activates the law of attraction. When you focus your energy on what you truly want, you start to notice how opportunities, resources, and connections align to support your vision. It’s not magic; it’s clarity and commitment in motion.

Tune in to hear how the Big Board Exercise can:

- Help you define your priorities with precision.

- Create alignment between your actions and your goals.

- Shift your mindset from scarcity to abundance.

- Unlock the power of the law of attraction to bring your dreams to life.

This episode will leave you inspired, focused, and ready to tackle the year with purpose. No more excuses—it’s time to own your vision and make it a reality.

Key Takeaways:

1. Clarity Is Power – Knowing exactly what you want gives you a roadmap to success and minimizes distractions.

2. Alignment Is Everything – Align your actions, habits, and choices with the goals you’ve set to create unstoppable momentum.

3. Manifestation in Action – The law of attraction works when you’re clear, consistent, and committed to your vision.

4. No More Excuses – The life you want starts with owning your goals and taking responsibility for your journey.

Homework for Listeners:

- Take 20 minutes to create your own Big Board. Write down the top 5 things you want to achieve this year and what living in alignment with those goals looks like.

- Reflect on where you’ve been making excuses and how you can pivot toward action.

Resources Mentioned:

- [Join the Mastery Circle](https://sylvestermcnutt.net/mastery-circle) to access the Big Board Exercise and connect with a community dedicated to personal growth.

- Check out my course, The Art of Living Intentionally for more tools to align your life with your highest aspirations.

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Let’s step into the year with clarity and purpose. Remember, the life you want is waiting for you to claim it!

In this heartfelt episode, we explore the transformative power of being present in the healing process. Through a prayerful reflection, we honor pain, embrace self-compassion, and invite divine light to guide us toward wholeness. Tune in to find peace, strength, and encouragement for your healing journey.