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Why do some people bother us SO much?
In this episode, we're talking about the hidden emotional exhaustion that comes from obsessing over people you don't even like — the coworkers, family members, acquaintances, personalities, or social dynamics that keep hijacking your peace.
You'll learn:
This episode is about emotional discipline, nervous system regulation, boundaries, confidence, and learning how to stop wasting your life force on people who are not aligned with your peace.
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🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK / STOP BEING AFRAID OF JUDGMENT https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/fear-of-judgment-reset/
🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH www.collegeofconfidence.com
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
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Swagger isn't arrogance.
It's not loud confidence, attention-seeking, or pretending you're better than people.
Real swagger is embodied self-approval.
And most people don't lack confidence because they're incapable — they lack confidence because they've become disconnected from themselves.
In this episode, we're talking about:
This episode will help you stop chasing validation and start becoming someone who actually likes being themselves again.
Grab a spot in the Mid-Year Reset ➡️ www.trishblackwell.com/midyear
🤖 REFRAME AI TOOL [Must-Have Tool to Train Your Brain!] www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.
Do you constantly feel like you should be doing more, achieving more, or being better?
In this episode, we're talking about the self-critical voice — the exhausting inner dialogue that keeps high achievers stuck in cycles of pressure, overthinking, shame, and never feeling good enough.
You'll learn:
* why self-criticism feels "productive"
* the hidden cost of being hard on yourself
* the difference between accountability and self-attack
* how to reframe your thoughts without becoming soft
* practical ways to retrain your inner voice and build real confidence
If you've ever felt mentally exhausted from your own thoughts, this episode will help you shift the way you speak to yourself — and ultimately, the way you experience your life.
Grab a spot in the Mid-Year Reset ➡️ www.trishblackwell.com/midyear
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.
Why your brain keeps rehearsing fear — and how to retrain it for confidence.
Most people don't realize this:
They are using their imagination against themselves all day long.
They imagine:
And then they wonder why they feel anxious, hesitant, emotionally exhausted, and stuck in overthinking.
In this episode, we're unpacking:
Because confidence isn't just about what you DO.
It's about what your mind practices repeatedly before you ever take action.
This episode will help you:
PLUS — I'll share how I personally use my new Reframe Engine AI tool to interrupt anxious thought spirals in real time and retrain my thinking within minutes instead of spending 45+ minutes stuck in overthinking loops.
If you're tired of your brain working against you…this episode is for you.
Grab a spot in the Mid-Year Reset ➡️ www.trishblackwell.com/midyear
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.
Most people aren't aware of how negative their thinking actually is.
In this episode, we're diving into the concept of negativity bias—your brain's natural tendency to focus on problems, threats, and what's going wrong—and how it quietly shapes your confidence, decisions, and results.
You'll learn how to:
This isn't about toxic positivity.
It's about mental training—and learning how to think in a way that actually moves your life forward.
⬇️ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️ ✨ [NEW] ✨The Reframe Engine AI ➡️ www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️ www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!)
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.
If saying no makes you feel guilty, anxious, or like you're letting people down—this episode is for you.
In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're breaking down how to say no with confidence—without overexplaining, people-pleasing, or spiraling about what others think.
You'll learn:
Because confidence isn't about doing more—it's about choosing better.
👉 If you're ready to stop overcommitting and start honoring your time, energy, and goals, this episode will change the way you show up in your life.
🎧 Listen now and start practicing your next confident "no."
⬇️ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️ www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!)
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.
After 700 episodes of The Confidence Podcast, millions of downloads, and years of coaching high-achieving women—this is the most honest, distilled truth about confidence I've ever shared.
Because confidence isn't what most people think it is.
It's not something you're born with.
It's not something you "find."
And it's definitely not something you wait to feel before you take action.
Confidence is something you build.
In this episode, I'm breaking down the 7 core truths about confidence—what actually works, what doesn't, and how to start building real, lasting self-trust starting today.
If you've ever struggled with:
This episode will give you a clear, practical framework to move forward.
In this episode:
Because confidence isn't about feeling fearless…
It's about becoming someone who shows up anyway.
⬇️ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️ www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!)
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.
Disappointment is one of the most powerful—and most misunderstood—emotions when it comes to confidence.
Most people don't fail because they aren't capable.
They fail because they don't know how to process disappointment… so they make it mean something about who they are.
In this episode, I'm sharing a real-life lesson from Snowboarding Nationals—where I found myself coaching my kids through the emotional highs and lows of competition, and teaching them a skill most adults never learn:
How to feel disappointed… and still believe in yourself.
You'll learn:
This episode will change how you experience setbacks—and give you a new way to move forward with confidence, even when things don't go as planned.
Because confidence isn't about never feeling discouraged…
It's about knowing what to do when you are.
⬇️ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️ www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!)
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.
Most people believe success comes from trying harder.
But that mindset often creates the exact things that hold us back: pressure, perfectionism, hesitation, and fear of failure.
In this episode, I'm introducing a powerful shift that will change the way you approach growth, confidence, and progress in your life:
When you treat life like a series of experiments instead of pass/fail tests, everything changes. Failure becomes feedback. Action becomes data. And confidence grows faster because you stop making every outcome mean something about your worth.
In this episode, you'll learn:
• Why the "try harder" mindset actually sabotages confidence
• How adopting an experiment mindset reduces fear and overthinking
• The 5 areas of your life you should start testing immediately
• How to turn setbacks into useful data instead of self-criticism
• A simple 3-question framework to help you run experiments in your daily life
If you've ever felt stuck, hesitant, or like you're putting too much pressure on yourself to get things right… this episode will help you move forward with curiosity, courage, and momentum.
Because confident people don't succeed more than everyone else.
They just run more experiments.
⬇️ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️ www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!)
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.
Other Episodes on Impostor Syndrome
#223: Impostor Syndrome is the Biggest Liar in Your Life
#422: How to Win Against Impostor Syndrome
What if the goal isn't to eliminate impostor syndrome…
but to become so confident that it doesn't control you anymore?
Most people don't tell you this:
The people doing the biggest things in the world…
the people stepping into leadership…
the people trying new things…
they all feel like impostors sometimes.
The difference isn't that confident people don't feel it.
The difference is that they don't obey it.
Today we're going to talk about:
• Why impostor syndrome never actually goes away
• Why that's good news
• And how to build the kind of confidence where you keep moving forward anyway.
Resources Mentioned:
www.trishblackwell.com/90day
www.trishblackwell.com/socialconfidence
⬇️ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️ www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!)
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.
Other Episodes on Impostor Syndrome
#223: Impostor Syndrome is the Biggest Liar in Your Life
#422: How to Win Against Impostor Syndrome
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