"Every moment of patience, every moment of genuine understanding is an act of devotion to love." - Preston Smiles

Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:

• Defining emotional safety & devotion to our partner's nervous system.
• Unwinding destructive patterns and embracing persistence.
• How can we focus on non-verbal cues rather than verbal arguments.
• Techniques for effective apology and relationship repair.
• Importance of self-nourishment to maintain a healthy relationship.
• Prioritizing emotional safety over other relationship aspects.

Connect with Preston:

• Instagram: @prestonsmiles
• Order: Spiritual Millionaire 
• Website: prestonsmiles.com
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@prestonsmilesabundance

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• Instagram: @john_wineland 
• Website: www.johnwineland.com
• Join our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of Love
• Join our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of Depth
• Start with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform
• Apply for The Embodied Men's Leadership Training: Embodied Men's Leadership - John Wineland
• The Art of Sacred Intimacy - Austin, Tx - February 14-16, 2025 - Enrollment opens November 4th. Join us in-person, or form the comfort of your own home. 
• Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com

“In dominant-sub roles, one person holds power and the other gives it up. Unlike simple dominance, erotic leadership is about guiding, influencing, and inspiring”.- Kimi Inch 

Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:

• Discussing erotic power dynamics.
• The healing and connecting power of erotic spaces.
• Unpacking the concept of "Conscious Kink".
• The dance of erotic leadership.
• Taboo territory as way to rediscover your sexuality. 
• The therapeutic potential of erotic play.

Connect with Kimi :

• Instagram: @kimiinch
• Website: andmorepresents.com
• Course: The Irresistible Art Of Verbal Seduction
• Download: The Kink Checklist

Connect with John:

• Instagram: @john_wineland 
• Website: www.johnwineland.com
• Join our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of Love - John Wineland
• Start with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform
• Apply for The Embodied Men's Leadership Training: Embodied Men's Leadership - John Wineland
• The Art of Sacred Intimacy - Austin, Tx - February 14-16, 2025 - Enrollment opens November 4th. Join us in-person, or form the comfort of your own home. 
• Private coaching - Home - John Wineland Coaching

"Where is your value in relationships? Relationships will often end when there is not a deep exchange of value back and forth.".- John Wineland

Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:

• Why do most relationships end?
• Understanding why breakups are so painful.
• The best way to end your relationship.
• Learning from our past relationships.
• Tools for self-evaluation before entering your next relationship.

Connect with John:

• Instagram: John Wineland  Instagram (@john_wineland)
• Apply for The Embodied Men's Leadership Training: Embodied Men's Leadership - John Wineland Embodied Men's Leadership - John Wineland
• Join our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of Depth - A Masculine Embodiment Practice Circle The Body of Depth - John Wineland

• Website: Home - John Wineland
• Start with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform: The Embodied Relationship Experience

• Private coaching -  Home - John Wineland Coaching
• The Relationship Reconciliation Inventory Practice I mention during the episode. The Relationship Reconciliation Inventory

 "What I crave emotionally is to be seen and loved for who I am, as I am, in non-judgmental and compassionate ways. That's healing." -Stefanos Sifandos

Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:

• The importance of creating physical and emotional space in relationships
• How devotional love within relationships creates an impact on intimacy.
• What makes men feel emotionally safe and the influence on their ability to commit and trust.
• The allure of open-heartedness as a trait in partners.
• Devotion and Worship within mature and balanced relationships.

Connect with Stefanos Sifandos:

• Website: www.stefanossinfandos.com
• Instagram: @stefanossifandos 

Connect with John:

• Join our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of Love - John Wineland
• Instagram: Instagram (@john_wineland)
• Website: Home - John Wineland
• Start with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform: The Embodied Relationship Experience
• Apply for The Embodied Men's Leadership Training: Embodied Men's Leadership - John Wineland
• Private coaching - Home - John Wineland Coaching

"I'm having an experience of being human here. I've got a heart. I've got feelings. I've got sensations. I'm living life. I'm dealing with joys and disappointments and fears and my own brand of neurosis and you're probably doing the same. And so when we start to reveal our shared humanity to another and we start to really tune in to each other's fears, each other's desires, each other's experience of being human, we begin to recognize our own experience of being human through another, that is another beautiful form of intimacy."-John Wineland

Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:

• Understanding what intimacy really means.
• How to create real intimacy with your partner
• Human-to-human recognition, another form of intimacy
• The best way of getting to know your partner's humanity. 
• Feeling into your partner's divine essence through your own.

Connect with John:

• Instagram: @john_wineland 
• Website: www.johnwineland.com
• Start with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform
• Join a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.com
• Training Program: The Embodied Men's Leadership Training. (esta sold out pero lo menciono)
• Apply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.com
• Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com
• Get the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

“Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual's conscious life, the blacker and denser it is.” - John Wineland

Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:

• How to understand your shadows?
• How do we find our shadows?
• What does it mean to integrate our shadows?
• Understanding that the darker parts of our personality have value.
• Exploring the warrior practices to help you face your demons.
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Connect with John:

• Instagram: @john_wineland 
• Website: www.johnwineland.com
• Start with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform
• Join a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.com
• Apply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.com
• Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com
• Get the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

"You can train a man to rest in consciousness and sharpen other men, but that's not enough. Good men's work needs both masculine and feminine aspects." - John Wineland

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Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:

• How has men's work evolved over time?
• Why do we need to challenge the traditional stereotypes and misconceptions about men's work?
• Why is integrating both feminine and masculine practices crucial in men's work?
• How does men's work enhance many aspects of a man's life?
• Top practices to address the holistic needs of a man.

Connect with John:

• Instagram: @john_wineland 
• Website: www.johnwineland.com
• Start with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform
• Join a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.com
• Apply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.com
• Join the Art of Sacred Intimacy Portugal: johnwineland.com/the-art-of-sacred-intimacy-2024
• Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com
• Get the book - johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

"Our capacity to go from incredibly tender and deep and heart open, almost weeping, to being, you know, sort of brutally primal and hungry, right, and our capacity to have a full range of expression during lovemaking leads to a much more artful lovemaking." - John Wineland.

Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:

•  What is sexual artistry?
• Understanding the tenants upon which sexual artistry is built.
• How being fully committed and present during lovemaking is similar to an artist lost in their art.
• Why incorporating artistic expressions into your sexual practices will lead to deeper intimacy. 
• What is feminine and masculine artistry in lovemaking? 

Connect with John:

• Instagram: @john_wineland 
• Website: www.johnwineland.com
• Start with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform
• Join a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.com
• Apply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.com
• Join the Art of Sacred Intimacy Portugal: johnwineland.com/the-art-of-sacred-intimacy-2024
• Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com
• Get the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

“If you want somebody of value, you have to become valuable, and, in doing so you're not only becoming more magnetic but you're basically transmitting to the world and to the universe your own value, your own fullness, and your own depth.” — John Wineland

Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:

• How to embody the qualities you desire in a partner.
• Understanding the principle of attracting what you reflect.
• The significance of healing childhood wounds in relationship dynamics.
• How you can improve nervous system capacity, presence, and integrity

Connect with John:

• Instagram: @john_wineland 
• Website: www.johnwineland.com
• Start with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform
• Join a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.com
• Apply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.com
• Join the Art of Sacred Intimacy Portugal: johnwineland.com/the-art-of-sacred-intimacy-2024
• Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com
• Get the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

“One of the reasons why I think repair is such a powerful practice is because it involves the masculine capacities of awareness and reflection, combined with the feminine capacities of empathy and expression.” — John Wineland

Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:

• Embracing the art of repair to build trust and safety
• Integrating masculine awareness and feminine empathy in repairs
• How to sooth your partner's nervous system during repairs
• Applying structured frameworks for effective repair conversations
• Ways to incorporate breath work and embodiment in repairs
• How to make consistent efforts to build trust and security

Resources:

• Your Brain on Love by Stan Tatkin
• Fierce Intimacy by Terry Real
• Imago Dialogue by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt

Connect with John:

• Instagram: @john_wineland 
• Website: www.johnwineland.com
• Start with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform
• Join a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.com
• Apply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.com
• Join the Art of Sacred Intimacy Portugal: johnwineland.com/the-art-of-sacred-intimacy-2024
• Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com
• Get the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core