The Loving Truth

Are today’s women satisfied with cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the kids in exchange for protection and provision? The answer is no. It is clear that in today’s times, women can take care of themselves, and simply being the provider of the family is not enough to sustain a good marriage as a man. 

In this episode, we will explore the question: what do women really want in a relationship? Now, ⅔ of divorces are initiated by the woman. They want a partner, not a provider. But the issue remains - men and women are different. How do we cultivate strong marriages? The answer is simple: learn to understand one another better!

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• How marriage roles used to be
• How marriage expectations have changed
• Where we learn relationship roles from
• What priority should look like in marriage
• What women want now
• How we can fulfill marriage expectations

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Have you had an affair and wondered if you could have a fresh start with your affair partner? Maybe you’ve seen the statistics - which aren’t helping your optimism. What does it take to make that affair relationship last? And will it be worth it in the long run?

In this episode, we will explore why people get into affairs in the first place, and what you are really looking for. The truth is, when one or both of the affair partners become 100% available, the dynamic is going to change. The question is - will it be what you’re looking for?

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Why people begin affairs
• What happens to the affair after the marriage ends
• Who you are attracted to in an affair partner
• What you need for the relationship to thrive

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Do you ever feel disconnected in your relationship, like there’s a gap between you and your spouse? Are you stuck repeating boring conversations about work, the kids, and the weather without any real connection? If so, you’re not alone - and the solution may be the opposite of what you think.

Here’s the key: complaining does not work on men. Women understand that language, but most of the time, men struggle with knowing what to do with that information. Instead, the gap that you’re feeling is the love that you’re not giving. What do I mean by that? Find out in today’s episode!

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• What is the gap?
• Why doesn’t complaining work? 
• How to identify the love you’re not giving
• How to bridge the gap
• How to communicate about connection
• How to foster continued connection

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Have you heard that date night solves everything, nothing should feel awkward after you’re married, or you should never argue with your spouse? If you have, you’re not alone! Despite being well-meaning, people often perpetuate 7 relationship myths that aren’t true for some - if not most - relationships. But the question remains - what does work when you’ve hit a rough patch?

The truth is, most solutions are not one-size-fits-all. In fact, in this episode, we will explore some of the unlikely truths of relationships, including the deeper meaning of date night, the awkwardness of long relationships, and the benefits of “arguing” with your spouse. Let’s dive in!

If you’re questioning whether you can recover the feelings you’ve lost for your spouse, and you’re serious about putting an end to feeling stuck, lost, and alone… I’ve written a book just for you. It’s called Stay Or Go: How To Find Confidence And Clarity So You Can Fix Your Marriage, Or Move Forward Without Regret. The approach I share in this bestselling book has already worked for thousands of women struggling in lonely, disconnected marriages, and I’m confident that it will work for you, too. If you don’t want to spend another day stuck in indecision, get your copy of Stay Or Go now.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Date night doesn’t fix everything
• How to go deeper
• Awkwardness lasts after marriage
• How to claim the awkward
• Never arguing is unhealthy
• How to talk about what really matters

Featured On The Show:

• Can’t decide how to move forward in your marriage? Grab a copy of my bestselling book, Stay Or Go.
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode!  Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Does your partner ever say, “my love for you will never change”? Doesn’t that feel terribly romantic? However, unfortunately, this phrase, along with a few others, can be a sign of unhealth in your marriage, pointing to bigger problems around priorities and how you consider your spouse.

In this episode, I explore three phrases that can be signs of marriage unhealth and explain why they unnecessarily place your spouse as the linchpin that holds your life together. Our spouses are of course incredibly important and should be priorities in our lives, but to not expect them and other aspects of our lives to change is setting us up for failure. Learn how to avoid these three pitfalls with me!

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Why ‘my love for you will never change’ is unhealthy
• How people change in relationships
• Why ‘I should always be your greatest priority’ is unhealthy
• What priority should look like in marriage
• Why ‘I can’t live without you’ is unhealthy
• How to practice emotional regulation in love

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode!  Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Are you a driven, type-A, get-things-done kind of woman? So am I, and I have found that, although these masculine qualities serve me well in my career and other areas of my life, I often find it hard to tap into my essential feminine side in my relationship. Whether you are the alpha or beta partner in your marriage, you have to learn to turn your masculine-feminine dials for optimum pleasure and success in your relationship.

In this episode, I will talk about the struggles of being all alpha in our relationships and what we are often missing out on. Every person is both masculine and feminine, and you are in control of those levels. There is no right or wrong way to be, but in this episode, we will explore what could bring our relationship the most life!

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• If you are the alpha or beta partner
• How you are in charge of your masculinity/femininity
• Which partners people tend to choose
• How to optimize pleasure and personality
• What tips to try to lean into your feminine side

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode!  Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Do you feel as if the spark has gone out in your marriage? Do you wonder where that magical attraction you initially felt disappeared to? Well, here’s the secret - there was never any “magic” outside your control. You can bring that spark back to your marriage today.

In this episode, I explore what makes a relationship feel “magical” and how you can keep that dopamine and excitement flowing in your marriage. We will talk about focusing your attention on your spouse and how familiarity suppresses desire. The solution is simpler than you may think.

Want more help rekindling the “spark” in your marriage - or determining whether it’s possible at all? Click here to sign up for my free on-demand training, Living Like Roommates, where we’ll dive deep into what’s caused the distance in your relationship so you can understand how to move forward in a new direction.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• What the “magic” truly is
• Why you are in control of the “magic” 
• How familiarity suppresses desire 
• How to cultivate dopamine in your marriage
• How to “mix it up” and spark interest
• How to fill our own tanks

Featured On The Show:

• Sign up for my free Living Like Roommates training
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Even in faithful relationships, we still betray each other day in and out, even if we don’t call it a betrayal. How is that so? Well, betrayal can come in a variety of different forms, including any breach of trust. So how do you rebuild that trust?

In this episode, I will explain how we betray one another in our most intimate relationships and what contributes to continued breaches of trust. We will talk about how forgiveness is not enough for healing betrayal and learn how to unwind that hurt into a safe, healthy relationship once again.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Kinds of betrayals
• How hurt can layer
• Forgiveness versus healing
• How to unwind pain
• How to rebuild trust
• The timeline for healing

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode!  Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

So your partner had an affair. What do you do now? Whether an emotional or physical betrayal, any loss of trust is a big deal, and many partners find themselves desperately monitoring their spouse’s every move and venting to their friends and family. But the question remains - if you want to make the marriage work, how are you going to rebuild that trust?

In this episode, I will explain how micromanaging your partner after they have cheated may make you feel safer but absolutely does not fix the damage done to your relationship in the long run. Even if your partner is apologizing beautifully and doing all the right things, it is hard to feel safe again after you’ve been betrayed, and you’ll have to learn how to take your power back in order to get there.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Why you micromanage after a loss of trust
• How to discover what you really want
• What not to do after discovering your partner cheated
• How to understand your spouse’s autonomy
• How to take your power back in the relationship

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode!  Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

In any controlling relationship, there are two contributors, whether you realize it or not - the controller and the receiver. Most of us wouldn’t admit to being controlling, but almost everyone has controlling tendencies. Think about it - we all want to feel safe. And in order to diminish our fear, we often resort to controlling our partner. But do you truly want to control your spouse, or would you rather be involved in an equal partnership?

In this episode, I will dive into why we end up being controlling in our marriages, exploring both sides of the control experience. Understanding the emotions motivating your control or your inability to speak up will revolutionize your understanding of your relationship. I will explain how you can begin to foster trust and partnership with your spouse instead of leaning on control’s crutch.

If you’re questioning whether you can recover the feelings you’ve lost for your spouse, and you’re serious about putting an end to feeling stuck, lost, and alone… I’ve written a book just for you. It’s called Stay Or Go: How To Find Confidence And Clarity So You Can Fix Your Marriage, Or Move Forward Without Regret. The approach I share in this bestselling book has already worked for thousands of women struggling in lonely, disconnected marriages, and I’m confident that it will work for you, too. If you don’t want to spend another day stuck in indecision, get your copy of Stay Or Go now.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Why people are controlling in marriages
• How fear motivates control and the receiving of control
• Why control is not only a male issue
• How control can show up in a marriage 
• Why you don’t truly want control in your relationship
• How to start building true trust with your partner

Featured On The Show:

• Can’t decide how to move forward in your marriage? Grab a copy of my bestselling book, Stay Or Go.
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode!  Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.