The Loving Truth

If your marriage has become disconnected and lonely, you may yearn for “a return to fine,” even knowing, deep down, that isn’t enough. Even when pain is pushing you toward a place of transformation in your relationship, it may feel easier to simply let it all go, releasing that tension. But is that truly what you want?

In this episode, I will share with you how fear factors into our relationship hesitation and how to combat it with purposeful, actionable steps to start steering toward a life you want to live, whether that’s in your marriage or out of it. You will discover how to do the hard things and stop denying the desires of your heart.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Avoiding “a return to fine.”
• Recognizing when you’re playing it safe
• Utilizing the catalyst for relationship growth 
• Finding your reason to stay
• Setting honest and determined intentions
• Leaning into life-changing discomfort

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

When you’re trying to decide whether to stay or go in a loveless marriage, fear can be paralyzing - fear that you’ll hurt your husband, fear that you’ll end up in an even more painful situation, fear that you’ll make the wrong decision and regret it.

In this episode, I teach you how to get the missing information you need to make the right decision about your marriage - one you’re completely confident you won’t regret. You’ll learn how to overcome your fears so you can break free from this place of confusion and heartbreak and finally take real steps toward happiness.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• What paralyzes us from deciding whether to stay or go in a loveless marriage
• If you’re stuck in indecision, it’s probably because you’re missing this one thing… here’s how to get it
• The truth about the fear you’re facing (and how to take action despite it, even if you can’t get rid of it)
• What being “ready” to make a decision about your marriage actually feels like
• Just how many people struggle with indecision (including real numbers from my clientele) (trust me… you’re NOT alone!)

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode!  Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

In many cases, it’s not until the husband is faced with divorce that he’ll begin making the changes his wife has requested for years. But as the wife, how can you tell whether these changes are genuine? Is it safe to assume this is your “new normal,” or will he revert back to his old ways as soon as you take divorce off the table?

In this episode, I explain why this phenomenon is so common in marriages and what to do when you’re faced with it. You’ll learn how to tell whether the changes your husband is making are permanent so you can confidently make your final decision of whether to stay or go.

If you’ve lost hope in your marriage and know that it’s time to leave, but you feel too scared, lost, or overwhelmed to take action… sign up for my free on-demand training, Undoing I Do. In this 60-minute class, I’ll give practical advice on how to process the emotions holding you back so you can confidently take steps toward your new happiness.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• What most men do after their spouse asks for a divorce (even if they’ve been “checked out” for years)
• How to tell if the changes your spouse is making will last
• What emotions might arise after you tell your spouse it’s over (and how to stay true to your wants and needs)

Featured On The Show:

• Know that it’s time to leave but not sure how? Sign up for my free on-demand training, Undoing I Do.
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode!  Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Making the decision to end your marriage is a journey of its own… but breaching the subject to your spouse is a whole different story. How do you tell your husband - someone you likely still care deeply for, the father of your children, whose life has been intertwined with yours for years or decades - that it’s over?

In this episode, I’ll guide you through how to have this difficult conversation with your spouse so you can finally start moving forward towards happiness. You’ll learn how to meet your husband where he’s at so he can come to understand and accept your decision, even if divorce was the last thing on his mind. You’ll also learn how to map out exactly what to say ahead of time so you can set the stage for a peaceful separation.

If you’ve lost hope in your marriage and know that it’s time to leave, but you feel too scared, lost, or overwhelmed to take action… sign up for my free on-demand training, Undoing I Do. In this 60-minute class, I’ll give practical advice on how to process the emotions holding you back so you can confidently take steps toward your new happiness.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Why waiting for a big argument isn’t a good solution to end the marriage (even if it seems like an easier path)
• The key to peacefully ending a marriage without hurting your kids (no matter what age they are)
• What’s likely to happen a few days after you ask for a divorce (and how to navigate it)
• How to honor your husband’s feelings and come to a resolution everyone can make peace with (even if your announcement is a total shock to him)
• How to tell your spouse it’s over in just 3-5 sentences

Featured On The Show:

• Know that it’s time to leave but not sure how? Sign up for my free on-demand training, Undoing I Do.
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode!  Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

When women reach out to me about their affair, they’re often experiencing a whirlwind of emotions: adoration for their new partner, guilt over their spouse’s feelings, and, above all else, utter confusion about how to move forward. For reasons unbeknownst to them, they can’t bring themselves to let go of their marriage, yet ending the affair feels impossible - and maybe they’ve even tried and failed several times before.

“Where do I go from here?” they ask me. “Will I be stuck in this spot forever?”

In this judgment-free episode, I explain what causes decision paralysis in relationships and why more and more modern women are seeking affair partners. Then, I’ll walk you through a 3-step process to decide exactly what you want, whether or not it’s possible to achieve it, and how you can start moving forward toward happiness.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• What I say to women who are having an affair and don’t know how to stop (hint: it’s not judgment, and it’s not “just end it already!”)
• The real reasons it feels impossible to leave your marriage, even when you’re having an affair
• Why things can never go back to “the way they were” pre-affair (and why that’s okay)
• How to stop giving your power away (and create a healthy future for yourself, with or without your husband or affair partner)
• 3 steps to get 100% clear on what you want (and create a realistic path to long-term happiness)

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Until the 1970s, women couldn’t file for divorce without hard evidence of abuse or infidelity. Today, divorce rates are skyrocketing - and it’s the women who are leaving in droves.

In this episode, I explain what’s caused this massive shift in modern relationship dynamics. I also explore the biological differences between men and women and what causes imbalanced marriage satisfaction over the years.

If you’ve ever wondered how your husband seems “fine” while you’re falling apart... don’t miss this special episode of The Loving Truth podcast.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• The massive shifts that are affecting today’s relationships (and causing most marriages to be ended by the woman)
• The differences in how men and women find life satisfaction (and how this impacts relationship dynamics)
• Why relationship coaches (including myself) primarily speak to women, not men
• How today’s relationships differ from those of even one generation ago (and the resulting resentments we need to watch out for)
• Why women struggle to get the connection they want in marriage (even if their husbands genuinely want to appease them)

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

You might’ve thought that 20 years into your marriage, you’d have it all figured out… but that’s rarely the case. In fact, the divorce rate for couples aged 50+ is skyrocketing, and it’s the women who are serving the papers.

In this episode, I explore why that is and what makes relationships falter after decades spent together. You’ll learn about new challenges to anticipate in a mature marriage and how to navigate conflicting desires and goals with your partner. I’ll also share 5 warning signs that your marriage is in trouble so you can get out ahead of snowballing issues and give your relationship the best shot possible.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Why two-thirds of divorces between couples aged 50+ are instigated by the woman
• The unique struggles we face in mature marriages (even if the early days went well)
• 5 warning signs that your marriage is in trouble (and what to do about it)
• Why many men and women are misaligned in their goals & energy levels after the kids move out
• How to renegotiate what the second half of your marriage looks like

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode!  Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Most couples acknowledge the concept of “emotional infidelity,” but what does it actually mean? Flirting? Exchanging provocative photos? Sharing intimate life details that create deeper feelings?

In this episode, I’ll show you two ways to define emotional infidelity so you and your partner are both crystal clear on expectations. I also explore why emotional affairs happen (even to people who never expected themselves to cheat) and how you can avoid infidelity, either by yourself or your spouse, in the future.

Want more help rekindling the “spark” in your marriage - or determining whether it’s possible at all? Click here to sign up for my free on-demand training, Living Like Roommates, where we’ll dive deep into what’s caused the distance in your relationship so you can understand how to move forward in a new direction.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• What constitutes an emotional affair
• How unsuspecting women become involved in affairs (even when they used to judge others for it)
• Why affair partners are typically the opposite of your current partner
• 2 ways to reduce the likelihood of emotional infidelity in your marriage
• How to create your own definition of infidelity with your partner

Featured On The Show:

• Sign up for my free Living Like Roommates training
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

It’s well known that first marriages end at a rate of 40-50%. But why do second marriages end at a rate of 67% and third marriages at 73% - despite the extra relationship experience accumulated?

In this episode, I explore what we take with us from relationship to relationship and how responsibility is shared in divorce. I also share ways to heal yourself and shift your “background music behaviors” so you can find success in future relationships, whether you stay where you are or seek happiness elsewhere.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Why the divorce rate rises with second, third, and fourth marriages
• 3 common concerns of women facing their second divorce
• How to determine who’s really responsible for a marriage ending
• Why trying to find someone who “makes you feel the way you want to feel” is an unproductive goal (and what to do instead)
• How to heal yourself (regardless of whether you stay in or leave your marriage)

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode!  Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

In times of desperation, it’s something we ask everyone around us - friends, family, even the internet… “Is my marriage over?”

Unfortunately, as you may have found, getting outside opinions on your marriage will never lead to your own answer. In this episode, I’ll share the one path that will consistently bring you to a place of clarity so you can determine whether it’s time to reinvest in your marriage or lovingly leave it.

If you’re questioning whether you can recover the feelings you’ve lost for your spouse, and you’re serious about putting an end to feeling stuck, lost, and alone… I’ve written a book just for you. It’s called Stay Or Go: How To Find Confidence And Clarity So You Can Fix Your Marriage, Or Move Forward Without Regret. The approach I share in this bestselling book has already worked for thousands of women struggling in lonely, disconnected marriages, and I’m confident that it will work for you, too. If you don’t want to spend another day stuck in indecision, get your copy of Stay Or Go now.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• The one path that will consistently help you find clarity about your marriage
• Why asking friends, family, and the internet won’t lead you to your answer
• What to do if your spouse wants to give up on the marriage, but you don’t

Featured On The Show:

• Can’t decide how to move forward in your marriage? Grab a copy of my bestselling book, Stay Or Go.
• Want even more tools to improve communication in your marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.
• Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.