The Other Woman And The Wife

In this episode, Chelsea interviews Lindsey, who shares her deeply personal experience with infidelity. She discusses how her life changed when she realized she had found safety and a sense of “home” with someone who wasn’t her husband. Lindsey opens up about the emotional struggles of divorce and what it took to rebuild her life with her affair partner.

A story of vulnerability and transformation, Lindsey’s journey sheds light on finding oneself amid heartache.

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Guest Links - Lindsey's Work

Explore Lindsey's Website:  The Resource

Follow Lindsey on Instagram: Lindsey.Kasten on IG

Lindsey's Blog:  PinzyDoesBrave

We’re back from summer break, and we have some exciting news! Joining our team here this season at The Other Woman and The Wife is a special guest Luke Shillings. Luke is stepping in to help us expand our reach to not just include women but men as well as we grow and develop The Other Man and The Mister community.

In this episode, we explore complex topics surrounding a men’s community, relationships, and the delicate issue of infidelity. Together, we dive deep into the emotional landscapes that often go undiscussed. Whether you’re navigating these challenges yourself or simply curious, this conversation is sure to resonate. Tune in for fresh insights, a powerful new perspectives, and a preview of what’s to come this season!

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How does a woman who is self described as "the most unlikely candidate to cheat" find herself in an affair? An affair that leaves her reeling and conflicted with a temptation to cheat again no less. Join Chelsea and Ann Marie as they candidly share their reactions, thoughts, and insights about this very situation.

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In this week’s episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve into the topic of disclosing your affair verses waiting for it to be discovered. The discussion weighs the merits of voluntary disclosure against the potential trauma of a partner finding out about the affair independently.  

Topics:

• Weighing Discovery Against Disclosure
• Steps to Prepare for Revealing an Affair
• Evaluating the Necessity of Revealing an Affair

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In this week's episode, Ann Marie and Chelsea dive into the concept of limerence and its role in infidelity. They discuss how the limerence narrative can limit self-growth by offering overly simplistic explanations, and examine its impact on addressing the root causes of affairs. Finally, they challenge the labels associated with limerence, suggesting it be viewed as a facet of human emotion rather than an addiction.

Topics:

• Limerence
• Infidelity
• Relationship Dynamics

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In this weeks episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve into "Gangster Gate," where a group of women doxed members of Chelsea's online community. They explore the dramatic events and their fallout. Chelsea shares her experience and the valuable lessons learned from this challenging situation. They also discuss the struggles and triumphs of building a controversial business from scratch, driven by passion and purpose, despite facing skepticism and opposition.

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In this week's episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the complex motivations behind infidelity by defining and distinguishing between "painkiller" and "refuge" affairs. By facing past traumas and recognizing unhealthy patterns, they discuss how addressing the root causes of infidelity can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Join us for an insightful discussion on the nuanced reasons behind why people seek affairs and how to move forward in a constructive way.

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In this weeks very special episode we are joined on the podcast by non other than Chelsea's husband, Stan. Join them as they discuss the intricate terrain of love, resilience, and personal growth after partaking in an affair. From Stan's immigrant roots to the complexities of their relationship dynamics, they offer raw honesty and shared wisdom, illuminating the transformative power of commitment amidst adversity.

Through candid reflections on overcoming challenges, rebuilding trust, and the importance of therapy, they inspire listeners with their tale of redemption and renewal.

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In this thought-provoking episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve deep into the often overlooked aspect of motherhood: the mother's own happiness and well-being. Join us as we explore the tendency for mothers to prioritize their children's experiences over their own, the societal expectations placed upon mothers, and the impact of relationships, like marriage, on a woman's happiness. 

Join us as we celebrate the multifaceted journey of motherhood, encouraging mothers everywhere to nurture their own happiness as they nurture their children. Tune in for an empowering and enlightening conversation.

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Episode Description:

This week Chelsea is joined in the studio with a special guest, Grace. They delve into the intricate layers of Grace's life, where she candidly shares her journey through a decades-spanning marriage. Discover the profound impact of infidelity on Grace's life, as she opens up about her 20-year affair with her brother-in-law, unraveling the tangled web of emotions, guilt, and longing.

In this episode, we confront the uncomfortable truths of marital discord, the allure of forbidden love, and the difficult journey toward reclaiming one's sense of self. We will navigate the depths of Grace's experiences, offering a counterweight to conventional narratives surrounding infidelity and providing a beacon of hope for those grappling with similar struggles.

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