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The pandemic is really killing the mood and making it hard to prioritize pleasure. A listener calls in about losing the motivation to have sex, even with herself. To help answer the listener's question, Emily introduces groundbreaking research known as the "dual control model" and offers a simple but radical shift in the way we think about horniness.
If you have a question for Emily, call the Come As You Are hotline at (646) 397-8557 or send a voice memo to [email protected]. Tell us your pronouns and pseudonym (pick a name, any name!) Your question might be answered on the show.
SHOW NOTES:
Check out Emily’s free worksheets on her website to start applying the science of the dual control model to your own life.
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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The pandemic is really killing the mood and making it hard to prioritize pleasure. A listener calls in about losing the motivation to have sex, even with herself. To help answer the listener's question, Emily introduces groundbreaking research known as the "dual control model" and offers a simple but radical shift in the way we think about horniness.
If you have a question for Emily, call the Come As You Are hotline at (646) 397-8557 or send a voice memo to [email protected]. Tell us your pronouns and pseudonym (pick a name, any name!) Your question might be answered on the show.
SHOW NOTES:
Check out Emily’s free worksheets on her website to start applying the science of the dual control model to your own life.
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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