The Self Love Podcast

In this episode we explore stress and how your relationship to yourself can create less of it... so if you're sick and tired of life's sh*t this one is for you!

I've also popped this on a blog post if you want to read it and explore more self reflection , and you can also⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community where I email words of wisdom every 1-2 weeks.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠theselflove_therapist⁠⁠ and find out more about me or my 1:1 services working on my website ⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!

Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

In this episode we explore codependent relationships and how being in the identity and role of the 'giver' allows the takers to take more.

If this resonated, and you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠theselflove_therapist⁠

You can also find out more about me and info on working with me 1:1 on my website ⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!

Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

In this episode we explore how lack of self trust, anxiety and the need for immediate certainty; how social media, AI and really ANY external dependency is hooking you into the anxious cycles that you may think they help you escape from.

If this resonated, and you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠theselflove_therapist

You can also find out more about me and info on working with me 1:1 on my website www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!

Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

I am BACK after an unintentional long break!

In this episode we explore how aesthetic viral trends are damaging your self worth, and how social media is hooking you into the fear of not being enough, by providing the certainty of buying something 'popular' to be 'popular' and how the mind hooks into this and creates anxious cycles.

If this resonated, and you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠the_psychospiritualtherapist⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!

Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

In this episode we explore the power and truth about vulnerability, and how fear of it may be holding you back in relationships; causing unnecessary stress, struggle and conflict whilst trying to protect yourself and how this fear will get in the way of empathy, intimacy and deeper connection.

You can watch the Brene Brown ted talk here

If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠thetrueselftherapist⁠

At the start of the episode, I mention vulnerability within abusive dynamics, you can get more advice here:

https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!

Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

In this third episode of a 3 part podcast, I talk about how we can create REAL and LASTING change to the 'good girl' childhood blueprint that once kept us safe, through reframing shame, removing self blame and reparenting the inner child to create compassion, courage and the confidence to be YOU. 

If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠thetrueselftherapist

Here are some charities that offer help:

⁠https://www.mind.org.uk/⁠

⁠https://www.thecalmzone.net/international-mental-health-charities⁠

You can also consult a registered mental health organisation in your local area if you need further help. 

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Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!

Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

TW: This episode contains reference to childhood trauma and abuse. 

In this second episode of a 3 part podcast, I talk about the darker side of being the  ‘good girl' or good child when it’s related to intentional manipulation and abuse. I don’t go into detail, but we explore the different types of trauma and hopefully enough for you to feel seen and heard if this was your experience. 

If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠the_psychospiritualtherapist⁠⁠⁠⁠

Here are some charities that also offer help:

https://www.mind.org.uk/

https://www.thecalmzone.net/international-mental-health-charities

You can also consult a registered mental health organisation in your local area if you need further help. 

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!

Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

Being a 'good girl' was never meant to be your adult identity

In this first episode of a 3 part podcast, I talk about the concept of 'good girl' childhood conditioning- where it comes from, how it happens and how it affects childhood and adulthood.

If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠the_psychospiritualtherapist⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!

Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

Being your own best friend is great advice, but this doesn't get to the vulnerable parts that really need it.

In this episode, I talk about the concept of 'reparenting' your inner child, which really works to help you with your relationship to you and helps with the many patterns that are holding you back from self love.

If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠the_psychospiritualtherapist⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!

Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

In this episode talk more about the generation we (and our parents before us) grew up in affected yours esne of self and ability to love yourself, and how anxious ir avoidant attachment might be shaping your life.

If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠ ⁠⁠click here⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠the_psychospiritualtherapist⁠

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Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!

Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.