The Susan Winter Show

Emma writes, “Hello Susan, I really like and feel strong chemistry with this guy. And he tells me he feels the same way. He can be very affectionate and open with sharing his life. However, he tells me he doesn't want a relationship. Last time I saw him I told him I want a relationship. I haven't heard from him but if I do how should I react? Thank you for your empathetic and intelligent advice, Emma :)”

Dylan writes, “Hi Susan, I'm a big fan of your work and find your content extremely helpful and inspiring. My question is how do you begin to approach an older woman if you're only experienced in the ‘similar age' bracket of dating/having a sexual partner? Many thanks, Dylan.”

Are you stuck in torment due to your breakup? You can't move forward, and you're not sure how to get them back. Confused, immobile and waiting for a sign to guide you, you're stuck. So you wait. And wait. Here's the real price of fearing to take action.

Aaron writes, “Hi Susan, thank you for your videos it really help me a lot. Susan my boyfriend broke up with me because he wasn't ready for a commitment and decided that we should just stay friends.  I got really hurt, but I accepted the "Friendzone" situation because I love him.  Now I don't know where this thing's going? I'm confused and don't know what to do, do I just leave this situation? Thank you Susan”

Melissa writes, “I've been with my partner 4 years, living together for 1. My partner is cautious when it comes to making ANY decisions. I know he loves me and is fully committed to me in every way, BUT he said he's not ready for marriage yet and doesn't know when he will be (35 yr. old male). How do I communicate my relationship expectations/needs (as I'm 33 years old and want kids), without issuing an ultimatum?”

Bea writes, “Hi Susan,I just met a much younger guy. I am 44 and he's 27. He seems to be quite serious, a quiet type which suits me a lot. He has a very demanding job - he's a firefighter. So I sense he's a strong, manly man. He's also 6'6 and fit. I wonder if in our relationship I'd still be the one who's dominant, just because of my age? I don't fancy this idea. Is it possible he would be the leader here? Thanks, Bea”

Roger writes, “Hi Susan. Your help has made a tremendous impact on my dating life, but there's something really tough going on. I met this young woman. She got really damaged by some guy 6 months ago who she heavily fell in love with. Now she tells me that it made her insensitive to someone else and she doesn't know if she'll ever feel again. She likes me and I know her for months, but what can I do?”

Taylor writes, “Hi Susan. I was wondering what your thoughts were on trying to build a serious relationship with an ‘Overlapper.' Particularly, if you are the "other" man or women stealing them away from their current partner? Is it possible that you two are different or will they always be looking for that next someone. Thanks!”

Kate writes, “Hello Susan! Thank you so much for all the educative videos! I have a question about cheating: once a cheater, always a cheater – true or false? All of your videos have been truly helpful! Thank you again! Best Wishes, Kate”

Ann writes: “How to finally move on and be happy with yourself again? I've always been single and happy until I dated someone who was into me at first, pulled away, and went back to his ex. He lied to me about it and blamed me for feeling that way. It's been a year and I feel pathetic for being still sad about it and haven't met anyone, yet he has moved on with his happily ever after. Help:(“