This Tantric Life with Layla Martin

By Layla Martin

This Tantric Life is a podcast created by Layla Martin. The profound conversations throughout This Tantric Life are dedicated to exploring the deep wisdom and practices of Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, an... more

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Number 1: The 5 Sexual Superpowers That Change Your Entire Life
In this special solocast episode of This Tantric Life, Layla Martin introduces a paradigm shift in how we approach pleasure, desire, and intimacy. Moving away from performance-based mechanics or static personality types, Layla frames sexual energy as a set of dynamic "superpowers" that every person can cultivate to heal blockages, deepen partner connection, and activate their full erotic potential. Follow Layla! ⁠Instagram⁠ https://instagram.com/thelaylamartin ⁠Website⁠ https://laylamartin.com/ Weekly Email https://laylamartin.com/join-list/ ⁠Listen on ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-tantric-life-with-layla-martin/id1685418994 Listen on ⁠Spotify⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/72iBpAwMSsTl9zLk8fHMp1?si=9f465574aa114d63&nd=1 ⁠MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements⁠ https://shopmood.com/ For Men: ⁠Men's Sexual Mastery⁠ https://laylamartin.com/sexual-mastery/mens-sexual-mastery Obliss: ⁠The Sexual Masterclass for Women⁠ https://laylamartin.com/sexual-mastery/obliss Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction 03:00 - Superpower #1: Love yourself enough to be fully seen. (staying fully present) How well do you love yourself? Full-body somatic awareness, emotional awareness and fully loving the experience of being alive in your body. 13:11 - Superpower #2: Trusting the Intelligence of Your Body Dropping out of the mind and into physical sensation, allowing slow presence, breath, and natural somatic responses to guide pleasure. 25:06 - Superpower #3: Surrendering into the ecstasy of the moment In ecstatic states it's undeniable that this universe is made of something bigger than yourself and that you contain that same magic and life force and so does everyone else. When people know that, they are not easily controlled or silenced. 34:18 - Superpower #4: Expand your capacity for intensity It means being able to hold the full sensory vulnerability of being human and in relationship with other equally vulnerable humans. 44:00 - Superpower #5: Feeling Desire without abandoning yourself Knowing/feeling what you desire and remaining fully open to the experience. Being a channel of presence inside your own body where the outcome of getting what you desire doesn't change your wholeness.
September 13, 20261h 7min
Number 2: What Happens When You Stop Treating Pleasure As Optional
Shownotes How deep intimacy can be the antidote to widespread low-grade depression What Kim put in her online dating profile to magnetize her King How to take the first step toward learning to listen to your body What it took for Kim to go from numb and disconnected to a Tantric wedding at 50 The exact practices that can help you go from body hatred to body love What an extraordinary sexual experience actually feels like Bio Kimberly Phoenix-Coffin is a trauma-informed intimacy, relationship, and Tantra teacher, speaker, co-author, and coach, co-founder of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and host of the Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples podcast. After decades of disconnection shaped by trauma, self-doubt, and survival-based relating, Kim devoted the last decade to deep healing. embodiment, and the reclamation of her body, truth, and life through extensive work with Layla Martin, Mama Gena, Ma Ananda Sarita, and other world-renowned teachers. Her work blends Tantra, nervous system awareness, and somatic, embodiment-based practices, rooted in lived, personal experience. Her story is a journey from numbness to pleasure, from self-doubt to sovereignty, and from disconnection and survival-based relating into a deeply connected, consciously chosen partnership rooted in truth, communication, and erotic aliveness. She brings this work not as theory, but as something she lives daily… in her body, her relationship, her choices, and her leadership. Now, at 50 years old, she lives and teaches what she embodies… guiding individuals and couples into deeper intimacy, honest communication, and full-spectrum aliveness. Together with her partner Roberto, she leads immersive Tantra couples retreats in North Kawartha, Ontario, Canada, designed to reignite the flame that date nights can't… where connection, safety, and erotic aliveness meet. Their work supports couples in rebuilding trust, deepening connection, and awakening erotic intimacy that is both grounded and expansive. Follow Kim on ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠, and ⁠TikTok⁠, and learn more about her work on her ⁠website⁠. If learning about Tantra, embodiment, and conscious partnership lights you up… VITA™ Coaching is your next step ✨ Doors open August 20th, ⁠join the waitlist⁠ to get early access to join and the maximum number of bonuses!Follow Layla! 🌸 ⁠Instagram⁠ 🌐 ⁠Website⁠ 💌 ⁠Weekly Email ⁠ 🎧 Listen on ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ 🎶 Listen on ⁠Spotify⁠ 💋 ⁠MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements⁠ 🔥 For Men: ⁠Men's Sexual Mastery⁠ 🌹 Obliss: ⁠The Sexual Masterclass for Women⁠ Timestamps 00:00:48 - Guest introduction 00:04:14 - The email Kim got from Mama Gena that changed everything 00:04:56 - Discover the ⁠VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification⁠ 00:06:02 - Why fear always speaks the loudest right before you say yes to what you want 00:11:22 - Layla shares what it was like to lead 900 women in Sex Magic on a Broadway stage 00:14:37 - What started to change after Kim bejeweled her pussy 00:18:06 - The practices that helped Kim go from body hatred to body love 00:24:27 - Why Kim chose to bare it all on her eHarmony dating profile 00:27:47 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of ⁠MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir⁠ with code PODCAST at checkout 00:31:56 - What it actually means to "eat the fear, eat the grief, and eat the rage" 00:36:55 - Why learning to listen to your pussy starts with your clothes 00:45:17 - Asking your pussy or testicles this one question can change everything 00:48:56 - An example of exactly how pleasure practices heal trauma 00:58:58 - The one thing Layla always experiences during an extraordinary pleasure practice 01:04:55 - Why deep, conscious intimacy is as psychedelic as plant medicine 01:08:09 - Conclusion
August 09, 20261h 10min
Number 3: Meet the World's #1 Yoni Masseur {NEW Podcast!}
Shownotes The #1 piece of advice for men who want to become multi-orgasmic What prostate massage can teach men about sex What happens when men are socialized out of anal pleasure How slowness retrains patterns while intensity causes shutdown Why men need as much safety and self-love as women do The one book Devah says every man should be reading Bio Devah Curlechéile is a sex, intimacy, and sensual embodiment guide whose journey began in Ireland. Raised Catholic, he felt from an early age that life held far more than what he had been shown. After graduating with a degree in Neuroscience from Trinity College Dublin, he left Ireland at 25 and began a decades long global quest to explore the deeper mysteries of human potential, consciousness, energy, and healing. Over 20 years of travel and study, Devah immersed himself in a range of practices, including Reiki, Sound Healing, Tantra, meditation, shamanic medicine, conscious intimacy, EFT, and tantra massage. His path was shaped by various initiations, including breaking his back twice, navigating depression, sitting with large doses of the various Entheogen's, integrating suppressed parts of himself through transformative experiences in Tokyo's conscious kink underground, and studying tantra and tantra massage in Bali with Ma Ananda Sarita. Along the way, he also discovered the extraordinary potential of intimate connection with himself and others to open transcendent states of consciousness, cosmic orgasm, and deep embodied awakening. Now based on Kauai, Devah feels deeply called to help others reconnect with the wisdom of their bodies, awaken their senses, and access greater intimacy, healing, and expansion. Known for his compassionate heart, grounded presence, and nurturing approach, he creates spaces where people can feel safe, seen, and held in reverence as they explore, rediscover, and remember these pleasurable dimensions of embodiment. Follow Devah on Instagram and learn more about his work on his website. Does learning about Tantra, embodiment, and intimate connection light you up? VITA™ Coaching is your next step ✨ Doors open soon, join the waitlist to be the first to know when they do! Follow Layla! 🌸 Instagram 🌐 Website 💌 Weekly Email 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women Timestamps 00:00:47 - Guest introduction 00:03:48 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:07:19 - Why Devah recommends starting with a prostate massage before yoni dearmoring 00:11:13 - What Layla experienced when she saw Devah receive a prostate massage 00:15:00 - How to practice the microcosmic orbit to circulate your sexual energy 00:17:17 - Why grounding matters just as much as transcendence in Taoist Tantra 00:20:06 - Men are being socialized out of anal pleasure 00:26:17 - What self-pleasure on psychedelics can teach you about circulating energy 00:27:40 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:28:35 - What helps men to open up when their bodies are shut down from shame 00:37:52 - What a deeply intentional self-pleasure practice for men looks like 00:43:29 - The shift from dopamine sex to oxytocin sex 00:49:14 - The #1 piece of advice for men learning to become multi-orgasmic 00:57:31 - Why learning things while playing makes you 9x more likely to retain them 01:01:43 - How to worship the entire body before approaching the yoni 01:05:19 - Encouraging consent creates the safety needed for deeper pleasure 01:13:36 - How to hold space for a partner having an emotional experience 01:20:33 - An explanation of the "clock technique" to learn the inside of the yoni 01:25:56 - How Devah's queer sexual experiences made him a better lover to women 01:29:13 - What polarity really means and how to use it energetically 01:31:09 - Conclusion
July 26, 20261h 34min
Number 4: Why Energy, Consciousness, and Polarity are Keys to Better Sex
Shownotes Why men have been led to misunderstand what the masculine actually is What the first stage, second stage, and third stage of relationship look like Why a deeply safe person can activate an unsafe nervous system The 3 things men need to address to heal the pain between genders Why love and relationships are in an evolutionary moment right now A simple embodied practice to drop into your masculine or feminine Bio John Wineland is a world renowned author, teacher, and speaker. For nearly two decades, he has guided thousands of men and women in the realms of masculine and feminine embodiment, sexual polarity, and sacred intimacy. His best selling book, From The Core: A New Masculine Paradigm for Leading with Love, Living Your Truth & Healing the World, has been translated into five languages and continues to support men around the world. His next book, Evolutionary Love, releases in late 2026 and lays out the four pillars of a new approach to romantic partnership, sexual artistry, and the practice of love itself. John is the host of The Embodied Relationship Experience, the #1 podcast on relationships and sacred intimacy. His teachings blend energetic and practical approaches, offering profound insights into leadership, polarity, and conscious relationships. Follow John's work on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook and learn about his new women's program The Body of Love and membership platform The Embodied Relationship Experience. Does learning about Tantra, conscious partnership, and sacred sexuality light you up? VITA™ Coaching is your next step ✨ Doors open soon, join the waitlist to be the first to know when they do! Follow Layla! 🌸 Instagram 🌐 Website 💌 Weekly Email 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women Timestamps 00:00:47 - Guest introduction 00:03:00 - What Layla and John learned from dating each other 00:04:57 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:05:56 - Why men have been led to misunderstand what the masculine actually is 00:09:30 - What true nervous system regulation really requires 00:11:47 - The polarity practice John does with men in the desert 00:15:25 - What Achilles, Gilgamesh, and Beowulf taught John about masculinity 00:20:06 - How men with active feminines change relationships 00:24:04 - What polarity truly is and how it connects with consciousness and energy 00:28:55 - Almost everything between men and women is a call for love 00:29:29 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:34:29 - Why the greatest masculine practice is simply being a yes to what is 00:40:28 - Why the concept of polarity has gotten a bad reputation 00:46:23 - Breaking down first stage, second stage, and third stage of relationship 00:58:12 - How to carry consciousness into sex 01:07:50 - Why a deeply safe person can activate an unsafe nervous system 01:09:07 - Layla's realization that men are not okay 01:17:22 - 3 things men must address to in order to heal their collective wound 01:27:12 - What it will take to finally heal the pain between men and women 01:28:56 - John guides a simple embodiment practice to drop into your masculine or feminine 01:33:59 - Conclusion
July 12, 20261h 35min
Number 5: Mama Gena Wrote You This Guidebook
Shownotes How the losing her greatest love taught Mama Gena about eros What healing truly is (and what it isn't) Why the only prayer in the Goddess tradition is "thank you" What Layla learned throughout two years of ongoing illness Why Mama Gena was thrown out of the cathedral on Park Avenue What Mama Gena wants every woman to feel when she's on her knees Bio Regena Thomashauer, better known as Mama Gena, is a pioneering voice in women's empowerment, a bestselling author, teacher, feminist icon, and the founder and CEO of the School of Womanly Arts, which began in her living room in 1998 and has since grown into a global movement. For more than three decades, Regena has devoted her work to restoring what has been systematically stripped from women: our connection to the body, our desires, our emotional lives, and our right to want more. At the heart of her teaching is a radical truth: pleasure is a form of power. And when a woman is fully expressed – in her body, her desires, her voice – she moves differently. She tolerates less and expects more. The stakes of her life become visible, and she responds accordingly. This work is rooted in lived experience, decades of research, and the real-world results of hundreds of thousands of students. It has changed the way women relate to themselves, the standards they hold, and the lives they are willing to claim. Regena is the author of five books, including the New York Times bestseller Pussy: A Reclamation, and has been widely recognized as a leading voice in modern feminism. Regena's approach is both deeply personal and unmistakably collective. In a culture that shames our bodies and suppresses our emotions, her work serves as a vital antidote that offers not only tools for survival, but a pathway to turn-on, truth, and full-bodied liberation. Her conviction: that the feminine, long suppressed, is the force that will change everything. These teachings don't just challenge the status quo. They transform it. Buy your copy of Mama Gena's new book, On Our Knees. Learn more about Mama Gena on her website and follow her on Instagram. Go deeper into your own transformation and turn your healing journey into a thriving business inside VITA™ Coaching ✨ The class of 2027 is enrolling now, submit your application today to unlock the best price and a full VITA Coaching bonus suite! Follow Layla! 🌸 Instagram 🌐 Website 💌 Weekly Email 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women Timestamps 00:00:52 - Guest introduction 00:02:53 - Join Layla's email list to receive free practices, in-depth teachings, and new episodes 00:04:17 - Why Layla was the very first person to read On Our Knees 00:05:33 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:12:27 - What brought Mama Gena to her knees feeling betrayed by God and Goddess 00:15:22 - An invitation: let discomfort move through you and remake you 00:18:13 - How the losing her greatest love taught Mama Gena about eros 00:23:44 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:28:15 - What got Mama Gena thrown out of the cathedral on Park Avenue 00:38:28 - What healing truly is (and what it isn't) 00:43:03 - The only prayer in the Goddess tradition is "thank you" 00:51:25 - What Layla learned throughout two years of ongoing illness 01:02:22 - Why the entire proposal for On Our Knees was rewritten in deep surrender to life 01:10:44 - What Mama Gena wants every woman to feel when she's on her knees in the dark 01:15:27 - On Our Knees is the guidebook for hell that we've needed for a long time 01:16:43 - Conclusion
August 28, 20261h 18min