In this episode, we talk about what it is like when your partner all of a sudden seems less interested, distant, and withdrawn and you might be left questioning: is my partner less interested in me or are they dealing with their own issues? My response is: does it matter? You get the same level of contact from them - less affection, care, and communication in the relationship

Uncertainty you feel leads to overanalyzing and walking on eggshells. The focus should shift to what is needed in the relationship. Three areas are suggested for consideration: 1) Can open dialogue and understanding be achieved with the partner? 2) Identifying personal needs and values in a relationship. 3) Prioritizing self-care and addressing emotional baggage. It is important to communicate openly, assess personal needs, and prioritize self-care for a healthy relationship.

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

In this podcast episode, I explore the concept of cognitive dissonance in relationships. Cognitive dissonance arises when we hold opposing beliefs about a situation, causing a struggle to find resolution. Using the example of Jane, who justified her partner's infidelity and hurtful comments, I illustrate how trauma bonded relationships often lead us to rationalize harmful behavior.

I delve into the biological aspect of cognitive dissonance, where the bonding hormone oxytocin becomes associated with stress instead of affection. This cycle perpetuates justifying our partner's actions while experiencing heightened stress levels.

I emphasize the importance of self-awareness in recognizing cognitive dissonance and its impact on decision-making. It is crucial to take a step back, evaluate conflicting beliefs, and prioritize our long-term well-being. Setting boundaries is an act of self-love and self-respect, not rejection.

Furthermore, I urge listeners to reflect on how tolerating disrespect sabotages personal growth and self-worth. It is essential to prioritize our own development and seek healthier relationships.

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

Welcome to Dr Sarah: Relationship Success Lab, where high achievers, executives, and entrepreneurs explore relationship fitness, healing from relationship trauma, and creating secure, trusting, and loving partnerships. Designed for those navigating high-stakes careers and relationships, we dive into trauma-informed coaching, relationship wellbeing, and practical strategies to recover from trauma bonding and build meaningful connections. Save your marriage, start building secure relationships and optimizing your relationship wellbeing.

 

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In this podcast episode, we explore the concept of trauma bonds and debunk common misconceptions surrounding them. I understand the struggle you face in trying to leave an abusive relationship despite the concerns of loved ones. Trauma bonds are a complex cycle of love and abuse where affection becomes entangled with criticism and neglect. Traits like high empathy, anxious attachment, or a history of childhood trauma can make individuals more susceptible to these bonds.

The dependency on a trauma bonded relationship stems from a desire for validation and emotional regulation. Vulnerable individuals seek validation and love from their abusive partners, hoping to be seen and appreciated unconditionally. The intermittent moments of affection and validation create a glimmer of hope that the relationship can be salvaged. Additionally, the relationship serves as a means of emotional regulation, alleviating anxiety and creating a temporary sense of safety. Practical dependencies, such as financial control or social isolation, further reinforce the dependency on the abusive partner.

However, it's important to recognize that there is a way out. Seeking therapy and support can provide a safe space to explore self-worth and untangle the complexities of the trauma bond. By understanding your

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

TRIGGER WARNING: Some reference to physical violence, domestic violence, aggression, and death.
In this episode, the host is joined by John (alias), a former frontline police officer with experience in dealing with domestic violence cases. They discuss why people stay in abusive relationships from a police perspective, exploring both the legal and emotional aspects of the issue. John shares insights based on his years of handling domestic incidents, emphasizing the importance of separating the parties involved to gather unbiased information. He acknowledges the frustration that arises when vulnerable individuals subjected to abuse withdraw their complaints, making it difficult to hold perpetrators accountable. The conversation delves into the complexities of the dynamics, including the cycle of abuse, fear, financial dependency, and the normalization of violence. They also touch upon the psychological impact on both the abused and the abuser, examining the loss of self-worth and the power dynamics at play. The discussion highlights the generational aspect of abuse and how individuals may perpetuate patterns witnessed in their own upbringing. They address the challenges faced by vulnerable individuals in seeking help and the efforts being made by domestic violence units to provide better support and guidance throughout the legal process. The episode concludes with a reminder that support is available and that progress is being made in breaking down barriers and improving training for law enforcement, ultimately fostering a safer environment for people to come forward.

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

In this captivating podcast episode, I delve into the intriguing topic of narcissism and explore why some individuals like yourself find people with narcissistic traits attractive. Throughout the episode, I focus on the fragile sense of self that narcissists possess and how they employ self-inflation as a defense mechanism. Together, we examine the underlying reasons for this attraction, such as the allure of perceived success and the glimpses of vulnerability that narcissists reveal. We also explore the early stages of a relationship with a narcissist, where grand gestures and attention create an enticing façade. I encourage you to reflect on your own experiences and question the true basis of your attraction. By gaining a deeper understanding of these dynamics, this episode aims to shed light on the complexities of relationships with narcissistic individuals and empower you to navigate healthier connections.

You can find more resources and contact me on www.healtoxicrelationships.com

You can also find me on instagram @dr.sarahalsawy

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

In today's episode, we delve into the topic of people-pleasing tendencies and why they can be a significant red flag. Many individuals, including myself, often find themselves falling into the trap of people-pleasing, yet admitting to this behavior can be challenging. However, acknowledging and understanding our traits and tendencies is crucial for personal growth and living authentically. People-pleasers constantly prioritize others, catering to their needs, emotions, thoughts, and opinions to ensure their happiness. Unfortunately, this behavior comes with risks. First, people-pleasers often suppress their own needs, neglecting their own emotions, thoughts, and opinions. Second, they attract unhealthy relationships where others may take advantage of their kind nature.

The roots of people-pleasing lie in trauma responses, which can range from major life-threatening events to ongoing criticism, judgment, or fear of abandonment. Subconsciously, people learn that prioritizing others' happiness is a means of self-protection. By keeping others satisfied, they believe they will be safe and secure. People-pleasing also reflects underlying anxiety, as individuals fear the consequences of not constantly prioritizing others or expressing their own needs, which may conflict with those of others.

People-pleasers seek certainty in pleasing others, believing it will ensure love, acceptance, and stability in their relationships. However, by continuously striving to please, they inadvertently lose their own sense of certainty. They miss opportunities to discover genuine relationships that value them for who they are, rather than what they do. Gradually, by stepping away from people-pleasing, individuals can find confidence in their own worth and feel comfortable expressing their needs, thoughts, and desires. This shift allows for healthier relationship dynamics, where both partners prioritize each other and feel secure in their mutual affection.

Letting go of people-pleasing is a transformative process that helps individuals evaluate the authenticity of their relationships and recognize if they are truly loved and valued. It opens doors to finding safety, security, and a greater sense of self-worth. By breaking free from the urge to constantly please others, individuals can develop healthier dynamics, meet their own needs, and prioritize themselves alongside their partners. This journey fosters personal growth and ultimately leads to more fulfilling relationships.

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

People who identify as empaths have commonly grown up in environments characterized by criticism, judgment, aggression, and threats. These experiences have led them to prioritize others and work tirelessly to ensure their happiness, often neglecting their own needs in the process. This subconscious programming takes root during childhood. When entering relationships, empaths continue to prioritize others while suppressing their own needs, perceiving others' needs as a reflection of their own. Consequently, narcissists, who crave being the center of attention, become an alluring match for empaths.

The attraction between empaths and narcissists operates at a deep, subconscious level, even if it may not appear logical. This dynamic emerges due to the ingrained belief that one's own safety and well-being depend on meeting the needs of others. Within these relationships, trauma bonding and a loss of self can occur as empaths tirelessly strive to please their partners, enduring criticism and doubt. They often find themselves trapped in a cycle of self-blame and self-criticism, as their self-worth becomes intertwined with external validation.

To break free from this pattern, therapy and introspection are valuable resources. By engaging in therapy, individuals can gain a deeper understanding of their subconscious needs and work towards prioritizing their own well-being. Engaging in self-reflection enables individuals to identify the pain they wish to overcome and the experiences they aspire to attain. By fostering self-awareness and setting boundaries, people can gradually shift the trajectory of their lives and cultivate healthier relationships.

Ultimately, through therapy and self-discovery, individuals can regain a sense of autonomy, reclaim their own needs, and establish healthier relationship dynamics. It is a transformative journey that empowers individuals to break free from toxic patterns and cultivate fulfilling connections with others.

You can find more resources and contact me on www.healtoxicrelationships.com

You can also find me on instagram @dr.sarahalsawy

Support the show

Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

Support the show

Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy