We Talk Back

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam dive into celebrity headlines, the influence of Black women on Black men, and the layered complexities of identity within the LGBTQ community. Special guest Philip Miller opens up about his experiences as a Black gay man, offering perspective on societal challenges, coming out, and navigating public perception. The conversation highlights the importance of self-acceptance, authenticity, and embracing one’s truth despite external pressures. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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AJ Holiday and TamBam sit down with special guest Chantelle Chevon for a powerful conversation on  self-discovery. They explore the intersections of spirituality and sexuality, the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the role of community in healing. The discussion highlights the importance of intuition, self-love, and accountability in love and intimacy, while unpacking cultural beliefs around growth, connection, and spiritual alignment. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by guest Vanity Wear for a wide-ranging conversation that blends real talk with professional insight. They unpack the nuance of declining fertility rates, the 'Tea' app controversy, and the nuanced realities of modern dating. Vanity shares her experiences as a Black woman in tech, shedding light on burnout, code-switching, and the value of staying authentic in corporate spaces. They also explore the blurred lines between therapy and life coaching, how self-worth extends beyond job titles, and the subtle ways financial control shows up in relationships. With humor and depth, this episode offers a roadmap for navigating both career and connection with intention. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ and TamBam reflect on recent travels and the value of rest amid the pressures of American life. The conversation moves from the joys and risks of vacation to a heartfelt tribute to the late Malcolm-Jamal Warner. They explore modern masculinity, highlighting how environmental and emotional stressors affect men’s health and behavior. The hosts emphasize the importance of vulnerability, accountability, and emotional intelligence in both friendships and romantic relationships. Through candid dialogue, they advocate for therapy, intentional communication, and the power of expressing love as tools for healing and connection. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the meaning of the "soft life" for Black women, exploring how it intersects with cultural narratives, gender roles, and personal well-being. They examine the origins of the trend, the weight of the “strong Black woman” archetype, and how social media has reshaped perceptions of ease, luxury, and femininity. The conversation also dives into relationship dynamics, the economics of independence, and the importance of self-care and mental health. Throughout, the hosts emphasize that softness isn’t defined by material comfort—but by a mindset rooted in peace, boundaries, and intentional living. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into everything from their weekend recaps to the messy realities of modern relationships. They unpack Diddy’s latest legal troubles and the ripple effects of abuse and scamming within the community. The conversation takes an unfiltered turn into the idea of “dixcipline”—the practice of sexual discipline—and why it matters. Exploring the push and pull between masculinity and femininity, the hosts reflect on the state of the Black community and the power of self-awareness. With their signature humor and honesty, they wrap up with a reminder to stay mindful, stay disciplined, and make choices that align with self-respect. 

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off by recapping their weekend adventures and reflecting on themes of celebration, self-image, and growth. The conversation dives into the world of situationships, unpacking the emotional gray areas and the pressure of societal expectations in modern dating. As they share personal stories and honest perspectives, the hosts explore how views on love and commitment evolve—especially as women prioritize emotional stability and compatibility over fairy tale endings. With humor and candor, they highlight the importance of clarity, self-awareness, and the courage it takes to navigate connection in today’s dating landscape. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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In this week's episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the latest SINS—from David Banner’s viral take on cheating and accountability to Cardi B’s album announcement and Offset’s unexpected celebrity crush on Sabrina Carpenter. Later, they’re joined by Emmy-nominated journalist Simone Boyce for an insightful conversation on authenticity, representation, and resilience in media. Simone reflects on her journey as a biracial journalist, the challenges of freelance reporting, and the evolving influence of social media and AI in shaping public narratives. With humor and honesty, the discussion explores what it takes to navigate the industry with integrity—ending with a rapid-fire round that puts a modern spin on the state of journalism today. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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This week on We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their weekends before diving into their S.I.N.S. of the week—starting with the lawsuit against Tyler Perry (and you know TamBam had something to say about that). The conversation takes a serious turn as they reflect on the heartbreaking news of former MTV VJ Ananda Lewis's passing from breast cancer, emphasizing health awareness and the benefits of natural products. The hosts also lighten the mood with hilarious takes on workplace harassment and a wild story of divorce deception. For the main discussion, they honor Juneteenth by exploring its historical roots, the ongoing fight against historical erasure, and the power of community in preserving cultural identity. It’s a call to action, reflection, and celebration—because real freedom means knowing your history. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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This week on We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a recap of AJ’s birthday festivities and weekend highlights. During their S.I.N.S. of the week, they cover everything from Keith Sweat’s comments on modern women to Coco Gauff’s big win, and Kevin Hunter’s tell-all about his relationship with Wendy Williams. TamBam also makes it known—don’t come for Tyler Perry in her presence. That leads into this week’s movie review: Acrimony. The ladies dive into themes of sacrifice, mental health, loyalty, and the emotional toll relationships take on Black women. Through it all, they challenge the expectations placed on women and explore what it really means to love, lose, and let go. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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