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I don’t know what to say, but I’d love to listen. Do you want to talk some more about this? 我不知道要说什么，但是我乐意听，你需要多聊一点吗？（特别是这个话题。）加入我们的晨间女子俱乐部iflyclub，用旅行的方式来学习英语和丰盛人生的秘诀flywithlily.com/join公众微信：iflyclub

Helpful things to say to hurting people… 給受傷的人說的有用的話語...#1

I realize nothing I say can ease the pain, but I want you to know that I’m here for you. 我理解我說什麼都無法減輕痛苦，但是我想要你知道，只要你需要我，我在這裡。

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Helpful things to say to hurting people… 给受伤的人说的有用的话语...#1I realize nothing I say can ease the pain, but I want you to know that I’m here for you. 我理解我说什么都无法减轻痛苦，但是我想要你知道，只要你需要我，我在这里。加入我们的晨间女子俱乐部iflyclub，用旅行的方式来学习英语和丰盛人生的秘诀flywithlily.com/join公众微信：iflyclub

本集講到的 Journal Prompts 日記寫作提示

I'm grieving the loss of … 我正在哀悼...離世

The most difficult time of day is… 一天最痛苦的時間就是...

I especially miss… 我特別想念...

My favorite memory is… 我最喜歡的回憶就是...

My support system includes…最能支持我的...

I wish my friends would say or do…我希望我的朋友會說或作...

It is hurtful when people… 當別人這麼做很傷人...

It is helpful when people…當別人這麼做很有幫助...

The things that help me most right now… 現在最能幫助我的事情...

When I’m alone, I…當我一個人的時候，我...

I will lean on… 我會依靠...

In April, I was grieving the loss of my dad. He passed away very suddenly in March during a hospital foot surgery. I stayed with my dad for two weeks and helped with his memorial service with my sister in Kaohsiung. The most difficult time of day was before I went to bed: I couldn’t stop thinking about him. I especially missed the time we ate and chatted together. My support system back then included hanging out with my best friends and reading a lot of books. I wish my friends would just spend more time with me, because after the funeral I was actually sadder. It was hurtful when people didn't know what to say. I think it was because most of them have not lost a parent yet. I can understand better now. It was really helpful when people showed how much they cared when I reached out. The thing that helps me most right now is getting back to my normal routine. I work hard and look forward to traveling again. Since both of my parents are gone, I will lean on some of my good friends and be strong for myself.

四月的時候，為我爸爸的離世而哀慟。 他在醫院裡因為一個腳的手術中去世了。我在高雄和我姐姐陪著爸爸準備告別式。一天最難過的時刻是當我睡覺前：我總是停止不了去想他。我特別想念我們一起吃飯聊天的時光。那個時候我的支持系統包含了和我的朋友在一起還有讀很多的書。我希望我的朋友會多花點時間在我身上，因為事實上在告別式之後我變得更加傷心了。當別人不知道怎麼說的時候真的讓我滿受傷的。但是我想是因為大多數的人沒有經歷過父母死亡。我現在可以比較理解了。當我尋求幫助的時候，有人展示他們真正關心的時候對我真的很有幫助。現在最能幫助我的就是回到正常的生活。我努力工作也期待再次旅行。既然我的父母都不在了，我會依靠我的好朋友們，也會為自己堅強一點。

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本集讲到的 Journal Prompts 日记写作提示I'm grieving the loss of … 我正在哀悼...离世The most difficult time of day is… 一天最痛苦的时间就是...I especially miss… 我特别想念...My favorite memory is… 我最喜欢的回忆就是...My support system includes…最能支持我的...I wish my friends would say or do…我希望我的朋友会说或作...It is hurtful when people… 当别人这么做很伤人...It is helpful when people…当别人这么做很有帮助...The things that help me most right now… 现在最能帮助我的事情...When I’m alone, I…当我一个人的时候，我...I will lean on… 我会依靠...In April, I was grieving the loss of my dad. He passed away very suddenly in March during a hospital foot surgery. I stayed with my dad for two weeks and helped with his memorial service with my sister in Kaohsiung. The most difficult time of day was before I went to bed: I couldn’t stop thinking about him. I especially missed the time we ate and chatted together. My support system back then included hanging out with my best friends and reading a lot of books. I wish my friends would just spend more time with me, because after the funeral I was actually sadder. It was hurtful when people didn't know what to say. I think it was because most of them have not lost a parent yet. I can understand better now. It was really helpful when people showed how much they cared when I reached out. The thing that helps me most right now is getting back to my normal routine. I work hard and look forward to traveling again. Since both of my parents are gone, I will lean on some of my good friends and be strong for myself. 四月的时候，为我爸爸的离世而哀恸。 他在医院里因为一个脚的手术中去世了。我在高雄和我姐姐陪着爸爸准备告别式。一天最难过的时刻是当我睡觉前：我总是停止不了去想他。我特别想念我们一起吃饭聊天的时光。那个时候我的支持系统包含了和我的朋友在一起还有读很多的书。我希望我的朋友会多花点时间在我身上，因为事实上在告别式之后我变得更加伤心了。当别人不知道怎么说的时候真的让我满受伤的。但是我想是因为大多数的人没有经历过父母死亡。我现在可以比较理解了。当我寻求帮助的时候，有人展示他们真正关心的时候对我真的很有帮助。现在最能帮助我的就是回到正常的生活。我努力工作也期待再次旅行。既然我的父母都不在了，我会依靠我的好朋友们，也会为自己坚强一点。公众微信：iflyclub

Your wings already exist. All you have to do is fly. 你的翅膀已經存在，你要做的就是飛翔。

I had a new couchsurfing host since I hadn’t been able to contact my original host in Hamburg. I arrived at Himanshu’s apartment and he greeted me warmly at his door. Then I learnt that Himanshu himself had just arrived in this apartment a few hours ago from India, and that this was actually his first day in the apartment! He said he had just relocated to Hamburg because of work and that his company had arranged everything for his stay. He was happy to share with travelers like me and he could use some company. His apartment was spacious and really modern, and I felt really lucky to be the first guest he received at his house. He was really welcoming and nice too.

因為無法聯繫上漢堡原先的沙發主，所以我找了另外一個沙發主來借宿給我。當我抵達了Himanshu的家他很熱情的在家門口招呼我。然後我才發現原來Himanshu幾個小時前才從印度抵達了自己在德國漢堡的公寓，而且這是他在這個公寓的第一天。他說，他剛剛才因為工作搬到漢堡，然後他的公司為他安排了所有住宿的細節。他非常開心可以和像我一樣的旅行者分享，因為他覺得或許他也會需要有伴。他的公寓好寬敞又時髦，對於成為他在這個家第一個被接待的客人，我感到十分地幸運。他也非常的好客和親切。

I finally got in touch with my original host, Sam, who was really apologetic because he had given me the wrong number and wanted to make up by showing me around Hamburg before I left for Copenhagen. It turned out that he was really witty, fun and lovely to talk to as well, so I quickly forgave him for what happened. He was very knowledgeable about Hamburg and took me to many beautiful places and areas to visit.  That day was also a clear and nice day unlike the gloomy weather the day before. Hamburg had many bridges and water around it so it felt really beautiful to walk around.

另外，我終於聯繫到我原本在漢堡的沙發主Sam，充滿歉意的他告訴我原來無法聯繫上他的原因是因為他不小心給了錯誤的號碼，他想要在我前往哥本哈根之前，帶我在漢堡逛逛來彌補我。見到他本人後，我感覺他真的很聰明、有趣又好笑，所以我很快的就原諒他了。他對於漢堡也是非常的熟知，帶我去好多美麗的地方和地區去逛逛。那天天氣晴朗不像前一天的天氣那樣陰鬱濕冷。漢堡市裡有好多小橋和水域，所以到處走走是非常美麗的經驗。

The nine people I met in Germany were so amazing and that reminded me of something I often shared in my podcast. There are no strangers; only friends you haven’t met. They were so kind and sweet, and the hustle and bustle of Germany didn’t bother me anymore. Due to the friendly people I met there and the beautiful scenery, I left with a very good impression of Germany!

所以在德國遇到的九個人都好棒，而且真的提醒了我常常在播客分享的一句格言：陌生人只是你尚未認識的朋友。他們都好善良和貼心，所以原先德國市區繁忙的景象已經不再讓我煩心。也由於這些友善的人和美麗的景色，讓我對德國的印象真的好好！

 

Stay tuned...there’s much more to come!

In the next episode I’ll be sharing interesting stories that occured in Copenhagen, Denmark.

敬請期待，還有好多故事呢！

下一集我會和你分享我在北歐哥本哈根旅行的有趣故事。

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I think we are lost. What should we do?

我覺得我們迷路了，我們該怎麼辦？

We should ask for directions! 我們應該問路！

Maybe we should have hired a guide. 也許我們應該請一位導遊。

There is no need to worry. Let's just take a taxi. 沒什麽好緊張的。我們搭計程車就好了。

 

 

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