Making dinner for my family is…not my favorite. If you've been listening to the podcast for very long, you've probably heard me talk about this. It is a constant work in progress for me to figure out how to get dinner on the table, and one of the resources that has been helping me a lot in the last year is the podcast Didn't I Just Feed You. Stacie and Meghan, the hosts of Didn’t I Just Feed You, invited me on their podcast to talk about my journey with feeding my family and how I am learning to declutter the guilt and stress that I feel around this task. I had so much fun being a guest on their podcast, and they graciously agreed to let me air the audio of that conversation today on 3 in 30. 

-Meal Planning for Everyone audio course

-Didn't I Just Feed You Podcast

Announcement:

Declutter Your Motherhood - Rachel’s audio course

Handout to walk you through the three-step process on your own. Text the word dinner to 33777 or click here

Episode sponsors:

BetterHelp: Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy!

Kneaders: Download the Kneaders app, and use promo code 3in30 to get $2 off a whole pie now through March 30th.

 "For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/347-making-dinner"

We've spent the last month talking on this podcast all about nurturing our romantic relationships and learning skills for navigating conflicts, building emotionally mature connections, and communicating about vulnerable topics such as intimacy, sex, and desire. This week's episode is, in a way, a continuation of that same theme…because how much more equipped will our children be for their future romantic relationships if we start talking to them now, in age-appropriate ways, about their bodies, their relationships, and their impact on other people? Conversations about puberty, sexuality, and everything in between can be extremely intimidating for parents, so thankfully, there are people like Rowena in the world to help us with these tricky conversations!

For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/346-the-talk

Episode sponsors:

BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy!

Fabric: Life insurance designed by parents for parents to help you get a high quality surprisingly affordable term life insurance policy in less than 10 minutes.

***

The episode you're about to listen to is a fan favorite that we pulled from the archives. Do you feel frustrated with your partner when they don’t parent the same way you do?  This episode is going to free you from carrying the burden of that dynamic in your home. Enjoy these three takeaways to help you thrive in your parenting and your partnership, even if you don't do everything the same way. 

For full show notes, including the three takeaways, click here.

Announcement:

I also wanted to remind you that as a special February treat, I put together a playlist for you of all of the relationship-focused episodes from the past 6 1/2 years of 3in30. When you sign up, this will be delivered to you as a private podcast feed. Click here to sign up! 

Episode sponsors:

Vionic Shoes: Go to vionicshoes.com and use code 3IN30 for 15% off your order!

BetterHelp: Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy!

KiwiCo: Use code 3in30 for 50% off your first month on any crate line!

***

In this brief bonus episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife answers a listener question: What should I do if I need to take an SSRI for my anxiety, but it is dramatically decreasing my libido?

Listen in for Dr. Jennifer's answer!

Announcement:

To hear Dr. Jennifer's first episode on 3 in 30, sign up for our relationships playlist! It's an archive of every relationships-focused episode we've ever had on 3 in 30, delivered to you via an easy private podcast feed. Go to 3and30podcasts.com/playlist to sign up. 

Get in touch with our Guest! 

Instagram: @finlaysonfife

Website: www.finlayson-fife.com 

Courses: https://www.finlayson-fife.com/courses

***

Have you ever wished for some concrete things you could do to improve your marriage? I know I have. Well, in today's episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife gives us three actionable things that we can do to become better partners and improve our marriages. I know you’ll love this amazing episode. 

For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/343-become-a-better-partner

Episode Sponsors:

Vionic Shoes: Go to vionicshoes.com and use code 3IN30 for 15% off your order

PrepDish: Visit prepdish.com/3in30 for a FREE two-week trial!!

OneSkin: The world’s first skin longevity company. Get started today with 15% off using code 3in30 at oneskin.co.

***

This episode is a continuation of the discussion we had last week with therapist Eli Harwood. Eli and I dive deeper into what to do when there's trouble in your relationship when you desperately want a secure attachment, but it feels like it's a long way off for you and your partner. How do you work to build your connection with them while also holding onto your connection with yourself?

For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/ 342-communicating-to-partner

Episode Sponsors:

Vionic Shoes: Go to vionicshoes.com and use code 3IN30 for 15% off your order

BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy!

Fabric: Life insurance designed by parents for parents to help you get a high quality surprisingly affordable term life insurance policy in less than 10 minutes.

In Monday's episode, we talked with therapist Eli Harwood about How to Be a Safe Place for Your Spouse, and one of her takeaways was that it's important to light up about the things that our partner lights up about. Sometimes our spouse’s differences don't feel very loveable to us, and their interests might even feel scary or threatening to us. I loved Eli’s response to my question about this, and I know you will, too.

Episode Sponsors:

BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy!

Are you in a secure relationship? We all yearn for secure relationships. We want to be a safe place for our partner and for them to be a safe place for us. Sometimes, though, it can be hard to know how to do this. How can I be that safe person for my sweetheart? How can I encourage him to be that safe person for me? As part of our February celebration of love, I’m interviewing Eli Harwood, a licensed therapist, who gives insightful ideas to help us increase the security of our relationships. I know you’re going to find this conversation incredibly helpful. 

For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/340-secure-relationships

More Episodes Like This One:

021: Three Easy but Impactful Ways to Deepen Relationships with Others

095: 3 Simple Rituals of Connection for your Marriage // Nate Bagley

221: Making your Marriage a Priority, Even in the Busiest Seasons // Rachel Fordham

106: 3 Ways to Improve Your Marriage TODAY: My Takeaways From a Night with the Gottmans

Episode Sponsors:

Green Chef: Go to greenchef.com/603in30, and use code 603in30 to get 60% off, plus 20% off your next two months.

DockATot: Get 15% off the DockATot Mini Mat with promo code 3in30.

***

What if I told you that in this episode you will learn one secret that can completely change many of the misbehaviors in your home? Would you believe me? I hope so because that is what this conversation with Wendy Bertagnole did for me. Wendy is a special education teacher who is also a mother of three, and she's here to teach us about sensory preferences.

For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/339-reason-for-misbehavior

Announcement:

Wendy put together a guided workbook to help you figure out what works best for your kids. You can find that workbook here.

Episode sponsors:

BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy!

KiwiCo: Redefine learning with play and explore projects that build confidence and problem-solving skills with Kiwi Co. Use my promo code 3in30 to get 50% off your first month on any great line!

Today's episode is a special one in honor of Martin Luther King Day, which just passed last week, and Black History Month, which is about to begin in February. This episode is a conversation I had with my dear friend Jasmine Bradshaw on her podcast, First Name Basis.  I think you’re going to love it.

For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/338-racism 

Episode sponsors:

Fabric by Gerber Life: Life insurance designed by parents for parents to help you get a high quality surprisingly affordable term life insurance policy in less than 10 minutes.

Vionic Shoes: Go to vionicshoes.com and use code 3IN30 for 15% off your order.

Lume: New customers GET $5 OFF a Lume Starter Pack. That equates to over 40% off your Starter Pack when you visit LumeDeodorant.com and use code 3in30

***