You want bigger glutes, rounder shoulders, and a more muscular physique—but you don’t want the scale to increase, your waist to grow, or your abs to disappear.At some point, you have to decide which goal you’re actually pursuing.In this episode, I explain why body recomposition is real but isn’t always the most effective strategy, especially for experienced lifters. We’ll talk about what a productive growth phase looks like, why stage-lean is a temporary performance state rather than a sustainable lifestyle, and why gaining weight does not automatically mean gaining the same amount of body fat.I also break down training performance, progressive overload, deloads, mini-cuts, and the metrics you should use to determine whether your growth phase is working.But the hardest part of building muscle often isn’t the food or training—it’s tolerating the identity shift of no longer being at your leanest while you’re still building the physique you want.There is a season for revealing your physique and a season for building it. If you constantly interrupt the building phase because you miss seeing the finished product, you’ll keep revealing the same physique.

You want bigger glutes, rounder shoulders, and a more muscular physique—but you don’t want the scale to increase, your waist to grow, or your abs to disappear. At some point, you have to decide which goal you’re actually pursuing. In this episode, I explain why body recomposition is real but isn’t always the most effective strategy, especially for experienced lifters. We’ll talk about what a productive growth phase looks like, why stage-lean is a temporary performance state rather than a sustainable lifestyle, and why gaining weight does not automatically mean gaining the same amount of body fat. I also break down training performance, progressive overload, deloads, mini-cuts, and the metrics you should use to determine whether your growth phase is working. But the hardest part of building muscle often isn’t the food or training—it’s tolerating the identity shift of no longer being at your leanest while you’re still building the physique you want. There is a season for revealing your physique and a season for building it. If you constantly interrupt the building phase because you miss seeing the finished product, you’ll keep revealing the same physique.

You Want to Build Muscle- But You’re Afraid to Gain Weight

If you want to feel strong, lean, confident, and in control of your health without your life revolving around food, macros, the scale, or constantly “starting over,” this is exactly what I help women do inside my 1:1 coaching. Apply for 1:1 coaching here → https://calendly.com/elenoa-mccabe/30min

If you want to feel strong, lean, confident, and in control of your health without your life revolving around food, macros, the scale, or constantly “starting over,” this is exactly what I help women do inside my 1:1 coaching. Apply for 1:1 coaching here → https://calendly.com/elenoa-mccabe/30min

Q&A: weight loss, your cycle, and more

Skinny is “in” again. But give it another decade and the ideal female body will probably change all over again.In the early 2000s, women were chasing size zero and thigh gaps.Then came the BBL era: tiny waists, bigger glutes, curves.Now, with the rise of GLP-1s, “skinny” is becoming aspirational again.And I think we need to talk about what happens to women when our bodies are treated like trends we're supposed to keep up with.In this episode, I’m unpacking the constantly changing female beauty standard, why building your identity around your appearance can become such a dangerous game, and the difference between wanting to change your body and needing your body to validate you.Because I'm not here to tell women they shouldn't want to lose body fat, build muscle, or look a certain way.I’m a fitness coach. I care about building muscle. I care about health. And yes, I think you're allowed to have aesthetic goals.But I also believe your physique should serve your life — not become your life.We get into questions like:<ul><li>If social media disappeared tomorrow, what body would you actually want?</li><li>Would you still want to be smaller if nobody could see you?</li><li>Are you pursuing health, or approval?</li><li>What happens when your body becomes part of your identity?</li><li>And who benefits when women constantly feel like they aren't enough?</li></ul>Because maybe the goal was never to have the trendiest body.Maybe the goal is to have the healthiest relationship with the body you're building.If you want to feel strong, lean, confident, and in control of your health without your life revolving around food, macros, the scale, or constantly “starting over,” this is exactly what I help women do inside my 1:1 coaching. Apply for 1:1 coaching here → [LINK]Don't make the CTA just the final paragraph.Put this near the very top of the Spotify description:Ready to stop starting over with your fitness? Apply for 1:1 coaching → https://calendly.com/elenoa-mccabe/30min

Skinny is “in” again. But give it another decade and the ideal female body will probably change all over again. In the early 2000s, women were chasing size zero and thigh gaps. Then came the BBL era: tiny waists, bigger glutes, curves. Now, with the rise of GLP-1s, “skinny” is becoming aspirational again. And I think we need to talk about what happens to women when our bodies are treated like trends we're supposed to keep up with. In this episode, I’m unpacking the constantly changing female beauty standard, why building your identity around your appearance can become such a dangerous game, and the difference between wanting to change your body and needing your body to validate you. Because I'm not here to tell women they shouldn't want to lose body fat, build muscle, or look a certain way. I’m a fitness coach. I care about building muscle. I care about health. And yes, I think you're allowed to have aesthetic goals. But I also believe your physique should serve your life — not become your life. We get into questions like:If social media disappeared tomorrow, what body would you actually want?Would you still want to be smaller if nobody could see you?Are you pursuing health, or approval?What happens when your body becomes part of your identity?And who benefits when women constantly feel like they aren't enough?Because maybe the goal was never to have the trendiest body. Maybe the goal is to have the healthiest relationship with the body you're building. If you want to feel strong, lean, confident, and in control of your health without your life revolving around food, macros, the scale, or constantly “starting over,” this is exactly what I help women do inside my 1:1 coaching. Apply for 1:1 coaching here → [LINK] Don't make the CTA just the final paragraph. Put this near the very top of the Spotify description: Ready to stop starting over with your fitness? Apply for 1:1 coaching → https://calendly.com/elenoa-mccabe/30min

Skinny Is “In” Again. Here’s the Problem

We chat about all the things we wish we knew before getting into bodybuilding!

We chat about all the things we wish we knew before getting into bodybuilding!

Ep 23: What We Wish We Knew Before Competing

What's the difference between impacting vs influencing? What's our purpose and which one do we act upon?

What's the difference between impacting vs influencing? What's our purpose and which one do we act upon?

EP22: IMPACT > INFLUENCE

Girl chat, our turn on's and turn off's, what we want in relationships, past dates, we share it all.

Girl chat, our turn on's and turn off's, what we want in relationships, past dates, we share it all.

Ep 21: Our turn on's and turn off's

How did the wonderful Stacy build a deeper mentality that is so powerful? How does she take this mentality and use it in every area of her life?

How did the wonderful Stacy build a deeper mentality that is so powerful? How does she take this mentality and use it in every area of her life?

Ep 20: Diving Deeper with Stacy Burr

How do we deal with negativity, opinions, and hate? Tune in and find out!

How do we deal with negativity, opinions, and hate? Tune in and find out!

Ep 19: How to Deal with Negative Opinions from Outsiders

Tearing apart the most common fitness myths

Tearing apart the most common fitness myths

Ep 18: Debunking Fitness Myths

What is on the other side of failure? Why is is so scary to give 100% of ourselves to our goals?

What is on the other side of failure? Why is is so scary to give 100% of ourselves to our goals?

Ep 17: What is on the Other Side of Failure?

We share our thoughts on intuitive eating and tools we use to face these days.

We share our thoughts on intuitive eating and tools we use to face these days.

Ep 16: Deep Dive into Intuitive Eating

Today we chat about 3 things that are overlooked in fitness along with a deep dive into  our "why".

Today we chat about 3 things that are overlooked in fitness along with a deep dive into our "why".

Today we chat about 3 things that are overlooked in fitness along with a deep dive into &nbsp;our "why".

EP15: 3 Things that are Often Overlooked in Fitness

Peri workout nutrition. What is it, how important nutrition is around your workout and what percentages should you eat of protein, carbs, and fats.

Peri workout nutrition. What is it, how important nutrition is around your workout and what percentages should you eat of protein, carbs, and fats.

EP14: Peri-Workout Nutrition

Becoming Relentless is a fitness &amp; bodybuilding podcast designed for individuals looking to enhance both their physique, well-being, mindset, and more. I cover key topics such as training, nutrition, and lifestyle habits. I offer practical tips and deep insights into achieving fitness goals both inside and outside the gym. My podcast is here to empower listeners to not only achieve their desired results, but also understand the physiological and mental changes that come with personal transformation! Welcome fam! #BEcomingRelentless

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Becoming Relentless is a fitness & bodybuilding podcast designed for individuals looking to enhance both their physique, well-being, mindset, and more. I cover key topics such as training, nutrition, and lifestyle habits. I offer practical tips and deep insights into achieving fitness goals both inside and outside the gym. My podcast is here to empower listeners to not only achieve their desired results, but also understand the physiological and mental changes that come with personal transformation! Welcome fam! #BEcomingRelentless

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