Beyond Success

Do you stay at the office later than others, or skip your favorite activities in pursuit of achieving more? Do you rely on your status to get attention from women?

If you do, the idea of loving yourself unconditionally might scare you. What if loving yourself for who you are, rather than what you achieve, takes away your drive?

But finding happiness doesn’t have to be an endless chase for achievement. Instead, you can find deeper happiness while working in a state of Flow. And when your happiness comes from within, you can achieve more at work and attract women with your sense of calm confidence.

Don’t let the struggle for status define your happiness.

Listen now to discover how to find your happiness within.

Show Highlights Include:

• Why you might prefer to work late instead of seeking out sex (8:47)
• The three markers of Flow and how identifying your passions can open you to loving relationships (9:45)
• Why making challenges too easy eats away at your happiness (10:28)
• How to get immediate feedback on a date to know if she’s into you (13:27)
• Why doing work you love improves your sex life (17:45)
• How to achieve flow and find happiness with any activity you choose (24:20)
• The shortcut to mastering any skill --including building a loving relationship-- so you can gain true happiness quicker (26:12)
• How finding Flow gives you a deep sense of gratitude that attracts the right women into your life (30:10)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

Men who use success to fuel their self-esteem are running on a never-ending treadmill. They are restless and insecure, worried they’re not enough. They feel they always have to achieve more to be worthy of love.

But true love doesn’t come from your accomplishments. True love is being loved just for being yourself.

When you love yourself as you are, you can fulfill your own emotional needs. This lack of neediness from others is attractive, and lets your relationship grow into true love.

Don't let your insecurities ruin your intimate relationships.

Listen now to discover how to decrease your neediness and increase your attractiveness.

Show Highlights Include:

• Why your parents’ push to see you succeed is destroying your relationships (6:26)
• How your idea of "earning love" creates conditional relationships that always blow up (7:14)
• Are you confusing love with work? (9:42)
• Why true love scares you (and how this vulnerability hides itself from you) (12:45)
• Why you are the only person that can fulfill your need for unconditional love (24:07)
• How to identify if you're needy (or just horny) (28:26)
• The secret to finding the unconditional love that brings you pure joy (33:47)
• Why unconditional love requires that you stop hiding from your dark, shameful, and vulnerable parts (37:37)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

Are you an achiever, working hard for success?

You may believe that your worth comes from the value you provide. As a kid, listen to mom to earn more hugs. As an adult, work harder to get paid more.

But in a long-term romantic relationship, you don’t want to compete with other men in a battle for "most value." That isn't love. That's a transaction based on fear.

When you stop proving your value and start being yourself, you attract the right women effortlessly.

Don't let the drive to be an MVP undercut your self worth and sabotage your chance at a loving relationship.

Listen now to discover how "being you" is the best way to find a loving relationship.

Show Highlights Include:

• Why 99.9% of Men's Dating Advice keeps you from finding true love (3:15)
• How your competitive drive bleeds into your emotional life and ruins your relationships (6:24)
• Is your self-talk sowing the seeds of conditional love? Here's why you need to love yourself first (10:45)
• Why always "climbing the ladder" leads to arguments in your love life (14:01)
• How the fear of a “BBD” makes you feel like you’re not good enough and how this fear keeps you from true love (16:55)
• Why pushing yourself to achieve only leads to toxic shame that drives the women you love away (21:08)
• How your desire to be the richest, smartest, or hottest guy always leads to a competition you can never win (26:10)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

You may have found dating tips that suggest manipulation and dishonesty will improve your dating life. Wear flashy clothes, put on an act, become Alpha.

But manipulation turns off healthy women. And when your dishonesty fails to bring you love, you might find yourself bitter and alone.

There are honest ways to attract women.

But nobody teaches you the healthy behaviors that build attraction. They are skills you can learn. And they’ll help you connect with the right woman.

Don't remain in the dark about how to become naturally attractive.

Listen now and increase your chances with attractive women.

Show Highlights Include:

• Unable to find a romantic partner? Start by looking in the mirror (3:47)
• The daily, 7 minute practice that instantly increases your attractiveness (6:50)
• How to use the 80/20 rule to attract beautiful women you can’t attract now (7:48)
• The secrets of an 85-year-old book that gets you dates effortlessly (10:30)
• Why scoring "10 out of 10" on conversation skills, flirting, or humor isn't enough to attract your ideal woman (15:03)
• How the emotional rules of dating are different from the analytical thinking you do at work (20:45)
• Why romance requires risk — and why trying to lower that risk kills your dating life (25:42)
• How these 3 types of foreplay bring more fun into your relationships (22:16)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

If you’re casually dating different women, waiting to find "the one" for a long term relationship, your approach may be working against you.

Success in a long term relationship has different requirements than casual dating. To find a relationship partner, you have to know what kind of partner you want.

This episode will help you define what you are looking for in a woman. And when you know what you're looking for, it becomes easier to attract the right women.

Don't get swept up by shallow, casual dating. Define what's important to you before making an emotional investment.

Listen now to find out how to identify a good intimate partner!

Show Highlights Include:

• Why casual dating success puts roadblocks in your path to finding true love (3:50)
• How the "Honeymoon Period" tricks you into believing your casual dates are "the one" (5:32)
• When is the right time to reject women who don’t fit your ideal partner? (7:30)
• Why you shouldn't feel ashamed to seek sexual attraction (9:40)
• The narcissistic trait that will doom your relationships (13:54)
• How your hyperfocus on being responsible drives women away (17:01)
• Why a macho attitude prevents you from creating a strong relationship (24:55)
• The three groups of qualities to look for when starting a long term relationship (29:20)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

Are you hoping to “play the field," find that special woman, and start a loving relationship? Players who try to score are focused on short-term wins. But the loving relationship you want is not a short-term win.

Chasing as many women as possible causes you to compromise your standards. And when you lower your standards, you unconsciously turn off the women you’d like to meet.

If you’re acting like a player, you repel women who can succeed in relationships. But you CAN have high-quality relationships when you focus on attracting the right women.

Stop lowering your dating standards. Find a passionate and loving long-term romance with these 4 relationship keys from David Tian.

Listen to The Masculine Psychology Podcast episode 10 now.

Show highlights include:

• Why casual dating advice merely teaches you how to attract women in general — and cause you to miss out on "the one" (4:09)
• How "turning off" women magnetically attracts a long-term romantic partner into your life.  (4:41)
• Why your search for a "CEO of Love" keeps pulling in "middle manager" applicants (11:55)
• Dating "low-standard women" today? Here's why they reduce your chances with the woman of your dreams (18:15)
• How being a player feeds your damaged, narcissistic insecurities (30:27)
• If you're a "bad boy" — will you ever find true love? (Here's why you need to be in touch with your emotions) (32:44)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

Everyone has "inner parts" that need love and acceptance. But most men don’t know how to handle their emotions when their needs aren't being met. As a result, these vulnerable "parts" make you feel unlovable.

When men feel unworthy of love, they often seek external validation to meet their needs. And when a relationship falls apart, a man's inability to meet his own needs comes out on full display.

You don't have to rely on others to meet your needs. When your Higher Self accepts all of your “inner parts,” you reduce your dependence on others and naturally become self-confident.

Don't let your unmet needs sabotage your romantic life. Gain clarity on the emotions swirling inside you, bring them into harmony, and experience a powerfully integrated you.

Find out how your "inner parts" hold the keys to effortless relationships. Listen to the The Masculine Psychology Podcast now.

Show Highlights Include:

• How to know if you're in an unstable or parasitic relationship (4:14)
• Why "get her to like me" sucks the passion out of your relationships (7:37)
• How to negotiate with your inner voices to find your sense of calm (13:41)
• The effective "Schwartz Step Back" method to release your anger and access your Higher Self (17:22)
• The meditation practice that makes your warring inner parts join hands in peace (22:40)
• The Negative and Positive actions you can use tonight to reduce your neediness (29:36)
• Three ways to "check in" with your vulnerable emotions that make you feel loved in under 10 minutes (30:38)
• How to create an effortless, lasting relationship without the hard work of “couples therapy” (34:54)
• Why you want to "step on landmines" with your partner — and how this scary step ends arguments (48:15)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

Have you ever bombarded a woman with text messages... offered to solve problems “so she will like you”... or found yourself reciting pick-up lines to conceal your nervousness? 

These behaviors hide your true self from the women you want to love you. Instead of appearing as a secure man and partner, you broadcast your insecurities and sabotage your attractiveness. You end up in the friendzone or come off creepy, and you don’t know why.

There is a better way to attract women. One that doesn't deceive women. When you can meet your own emotional needs, you naturally become self-confident — and magnetically attract the right women to you.

Don't continue repressing your needs. Discover how to love yourself in three steps, on this episode of The Masculine Psychology Podcast.

Show highlights include:

• Why advice about "what to text" increases your fear of being alone (2:15)
• How to cure your neediness and squash your fear of being unlovable (4:11)
• Why common pick-up tactics cause women to instinctively avoid your advances (6:01)
• The 10 Human Needs — which of these do you expect others to meet? (7:08)
• Your "One Need" that trumps all others (and why you could die penniless in a gutter and still have lived a happy life) (12:50)
• Why having "good enough" social skills today prevents you from creating a successful relationship (17:05)
• How to access your unconscious gifts so you can focus on what’s important in your life (22:17)
• Use the "TR" structure of rules to discover —and destroy— the deep sources of your needy behavior (23:58)
• The healthy, "10 out of 10" way to meet your own needs — it’s the “secret code” to a happier life (30:30)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

Most dating tips from the internet advise you on how to behave, look, or talk with women. But do these tips make you feel fake? You may be missing the largest factor that attracts women to men: Non-Neediness.

Instead of self-confidence, many men have an unattractive neediness that drives women away. Your insecurities infect your words and actions, even with any internet dating tips you might be trying to implement.

By hiding your insecurities behind these internet tips, you repress your true self. You attract the wrong women because you aren’t being authentic to yourself. But when you create self-confidence, you attract the right women into your life.

Don’t let your insecurities define you and your relationships. Find out how to spot neediness and replace it with self-confidence in this episode of The Masculine Psychology Podcast.

Show highlights include:

• Why using the “right” words and phrases ruins your chances with romantic partners (3:05)
• How your beliefs sabotage your success with women (3:46)
• Why sending her flowers every week will doom your relationship (5:05)
• What a fire-engine red Ferrari says to women (and why you might want a blue sedan instead) (7:52)
• Why trying to “demonstrate higher value” represses your true self (10:27)
• The addictive, short term “solution” that many men rely on — but it only ramps up your neediness (15:10)
• How to identify if your behavior comes from a place of neediness (18:11)
• Watching the clock before you text her back? Why this mistake destroys your success with women (21:13)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

Do you feel unworthy of love? Do you always try to be your best self? These painful struggles reflect repressed emotions, dulling your appeal to the world.

Many men don’t question these repressed emotions. They use the same coping methods in love that they use at work, trying to push past negative feelings.

These coping strategies may be all you know today, but there's a better way to handle your emotions. By opening up to your unconscious through therapy, you discover new ways to approach your feelings and build better relationships.

Listen to this episode of The Masculine Psychology Podcast to find out how your higher self can accept and heal your painful emotions.

Show highlights include:

• Why you can “grind” to success in business — but how the same approach sabotages your relationships (2:50)
• “Knowing” what to improve isn’t enough — here’s what it takes to boost your dating potential (4:24)
• How to deepen your romantic relationships by enjoying your shameful, painful emotions (5:08)
• Harness your masculine Warrior Energy to improve your emotional connections (even if you’ve used that same energy to bury your feelings in the past) (9:49)
• Your idea of “people who need therapy” is right — and why this stereotype is holding you back from loving relationships (11:25)
• How to transform your emotional “wilderness of discomfort” into a place of beauty and wonder (12:53)
• Why struggling to maintain an edge makes your efforts more difficult — and how therapy unlocks your ability to effortlessly succeed (26:01)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum