In this episode, I reflect on my recent success finding high levels of happiness and self-confidence. I also discuss my new approach to dating and how I vet potential partners. Can people really be straightforward with their intentions? Do guys really know whether or not they want to date you as soon as they meet you? Setting boundaries and staying disciplined to your goals takes a level of focus that is not easy to maintain. It's actually tremendously uncomfortable to make difficult choices for yourself, especially when you care so much about other people.

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Oh boy do we have a great episode for you this week. Blast from the past! Nappi & Jay are back at it again with some heat! We discuss guys wearing makeup, how my sex game has plateaued, no-nonsense chicks sliding into my DMs, and our choice of foreplay. For the main course, Jay and I both took turns trying to unravel each other's toxic patterns in relationships and how they led to the demise of the Nappi & Jay podcast.

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 Random Topics

52:12 Toxic Patterns in Relationships

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Have you ever been sent home all riled up and ready to go? This week, we go inside the minds of men who have been pushed to their edge. Speaking of what's going on in his head, does a guy following girls mean the end of a relationship? Why does his instagram activity look like a warzone of hot chicks and booty-building workouts? Before we rub that out, I discuss the chokehold social media has on all of us, two day-in-the-life examples of a good day and a bad day for me, and whether I will ever prioritize a relationship over my work.

00:00 INTRO

07:43 Social Media Affecting My Behavior & Flow State

26:33 Will a relationship ever be priority 1?

36:02 Guys perspective on Instagram Likes and Follows

52:46 How do men feel when you leave them s**ually frustrated

1:00:51 She didn't want a label

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I got roasted for my actions on the previous podcast, 'Boys Lie.' This week's episode features my thoughts on the fallout of my relationship and some harsh but valid comments on my recent actions. It's fucking hard to close a chapter with someone you deeply care about, even when you know it's not right. I help provide some clarity on what a guy means when he tells you that he isn't ready and how to overcome the challenges of dating as a successful woman, especially as you start to move up in age.

00:00 INTRO AND REACTIONS TO THE LAST PODCAST

47:11 GUYS NOT WANTING TO TEXT DAILY

01:03:14 DATING AS A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN

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I've been struggling for the past few days with releasing this. A lot of people feel that some things are better left private. I have to think about the feelings of others (especially the girl I hurt + whom I care about the most); I also think about how others will perceive me. Something I have always stuck by is that I am going to tell my story as it is, in good and bad, no matter what, and set a standard that for better or for worse, I am going to give you my truth exactly how it happens. This week, I didn't show up honest in my truth, and I paid the price of hurting someone who means a lot to me. I can't go back, can't change it, but I can take accountability, and I can learn from it. Here is my manifesto to stop avoiding hard conversations and uncomfortable actions and learn to face uncomfortable truths.

No Chapters This Week

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A meeting with my therapist set off an inner conflict in me that pushed my long-distance situation to the edge. Can love in the talking stage really survive a cross-country distance? I also asked y'all the question "is he playing hard to get, or is he really not that into you?" A lot of people wondered can a man really be playing hard to get? Maybe it's more of determining if he's really into you, so I react to some of your situations such as sleeping with your boss, hanging out without going on dates, and if he asks for more time. Can you settle for something good if you know you want something great?

Chapters:

00:00 STRUGGLING WITH LONG DISTANCE

38:42 HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU

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I'm not going to lie (no pun intended); this week is a vulnerable look into a serious conflict that erupted over the past week with long-distance situation. How would you feel if you found out your partner deleted text messages? Would you leave the relationship? Are they really a bad person, or did they have a reason? I discuss a character trait that has destroyed a lot of my past relationships. I also answer, "How do I attract a stable man?" Bring your ice cubes because the tea is piping hot.

Chapters:

00:00 Long Distance Situation Deleted Texts Story

49:15 How to Find a Stable Man

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It's time to get down and dirty. This week, I will answer your questions: what is considered bad s*x from a man's perspective, how do I move on from or detach from them quickly (especially when I know it's not the right thing for me), and why do men are scared to make the first move. Before we get to that, I share a personal story about the tricky trials of the talking stage and posting your relationship on social media. It's time to shoot your shot, break free from their bullshit, and throw it down in the sheets.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro and Personal Update

26:14 Men Being Scared to Make First Move

41:24 What's Bad S*x from a Man's POV

55:18 How to Get Over Them Quick

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It's the week of Valentine's Day, which means I have an exciting announcement (listen for details). This week, I tackle where to find good men (or people in general), how to navigate the "how are you" guys on dating apps, and when is the appropriate time to go over a guy's house when you first start dating. I also share the top gift ideas for your man, did someone say BJ?? I also deliver the cold hard truth about expressing what you need, go over how men process their feelings, and let you know if good D is only reserved for the bad boys.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro and Personal Update

25:22 Valentine's Day What to Get Him

34:27 Navigating the "how are you" men on dating apps

40:36 When to Go to Guys House for First Time

51:33 Where to Find Good Men

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Ready to take your situationship and turn it into a relationship well here is the MF blueprint! We explore how a man thinks when it comes to Instagram dating and why he only likes and comments but never follows through. We also look at how to handle someone talking shit when things don't work out the way we want it to. This episode is jam-packed with so many dating nuggets you don't want to miss it.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro and Personal Update

20:26 Instagram Dating Question

34:22 Rejected By the Casual Dating Guy

43:39 How to Turn Your Situationship to a Relationship

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