Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers | Mother Wound Healing

Over my 15 years working with women, and indeed in my own personal experience, I’ve observed how despite all that we go through, despite the pain we feel daily, despite life not going our way at all, despite all the suffering and unhappiness, we still hesitate when it comes to do something for ourselves. 

Do you feel that way? Does that ever happen to you? To know something would truly benefit you and be there anxious and worried it’s not the right decision and so on??

Why do we do that?

There’s a deep wound at the root of it. One that we've carried in our DNA for generations and that it's reopened and reinforced by having grown up with a narcissistic mother...

The wound of "Not Deserving"

In this episode we go deep into the origin of this wound and the impact it has on our lives, as well as the best way to gently shift the pattern. 

For any questions and to be on the waiting list for the next wave of The 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme email Matilde at: 

[email protected]

Access the Free Self Love Guided Practice here:

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

With Love!

Do you feel comfortable among people?
Or does interacting with others leave you drained and exhausted??

Would you describe yourself as introverted, shy, not a people person??
Or are you the soul of the party, yet somehow still feeling lonely on the inside??

Growing up with a narcissistic mother truly impacts the way we relate to others, leaving us with the biggest pain yet... The pain of trying to be someone we are not!

In this episode you get to understand what is behind all that pain, and how to shift it, getting to know the real you behind the mask.

Access the Free Self Love Guided Practice here:

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

For questions contact Matilde at:

[email protected]

With love!

A narcissistic mother imposes her own truths and beliefs, and not empowering ones of course, on her children, as a very effective way to keep them in her control and fill her tank. 

By controlling your beliefs, a narcissistic mother controls you. 

My mother didn’t miss a chance to box me and define me, so I could be more manageable for her, and manageable means easier to control.

Let's look at how that happens and what you can do to break free of those limiting beliefs!

Important!
Registration for the 1:1 10 weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme are open now till Friday October 20th. this is the last opening for 2023.

Email at [email protected] for more information.

For the Free Self Love Guided Practice click here

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

For the women circles click here

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/

With love!

Have you tried everything to keep a relationship with your narcissistic mother but the pain is too much?

Are you thinking about going no contact but you don't know where to start?

Are you no contact already and finding it truly challenging?

In this episode I speak to my experience being no contact with my mother for the past 2 years, all the challenges of this decision and how to go about it in the most effective way.

IMPORTANT:

New spaces opening to join 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme. Registration will open October 16th till the 20th. Limited spaces available. You can email now to be on the waiting list for this wave. There will be no more opening for 2023.
Email at [email protected]

To access the Free Self Love Guided Practice click the link below:

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

To contact Matilde with your questions email at

[email protected]

With Love!

Do you find yourself procrastinating?
 
 Do you find yourself avoiding those actions that you know would be good for you or important to achieve your dreams?
 
 Do you severely judge yourself for that?
 
 In this episode you gain clarity on what procrastination means, how it can be linked to maternal narcissism, and most importantly 8 steps you can implement form now to support you.
 
 To know more about Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circle
 
https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/

To access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/
 
For any questions
 
[email protected]
 
With Love!

Have you heard the say "It didn't start with you"?
So when did it all start??
In this special episode with Debra you get to gain clarity on how far in the past the patterns started,
on how to break the cycle of family trauma and wounding, 
and what is necessary when you decide to give birth to a child or a project that is close to your heart.
You will also gain some wonderful insights on how to reconnect with the sweet, nourishing mother energy that is indeed inside of you.

So let's dive in!

Our gust Debra Kilby is an intuitive energy healer,  channel,  spirit baby medium,  soul plan reader and spiritual guide. 
She is the author of "Rosa’s Choice: Healing the Wounds of the Mother". A Journey into the world of the Spirit Baby and how we can build a New Earth, together. 
Debra supports women on their journey to motherhood, whether they are struggling to conceive, have experienced baby loss or a traumatic birth.  
She also supports women who are not in conception, to heal their own mother wounds, understand themselves on a deeper level,  birth more of themselves  and their own truth by opening up their natural intuitive gifts.

To get in contact with Debra you can visit her website:

https://debrakilby.com

You can also find her on:

Facebook
https://www.facebook.com/debrakilbyhealingandchanneling

Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/debrakilbyhealing

Linkedin
https://www.linkedin.com/in/debrakilbyhealingandchanneling

Here is the link to access the FREE Self Love Practice I mentioned in the episode:

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

For any questions and to work with Matilde email at:

[email protected]

And if you want to have fun and travel back in time to the first time myself and Debar got together to create an amazing conversation you can have a look at our episode from 4 years ago

https://youtu.be/a8WjsTDCTuU

With love!

If all that has happened to you is not your fault, then who's fault is it??
Being a podcast about maternal narcissism, it is easy to assume that the fault falls on our mothers. 

Who here has not blamed their mother for something or another?!
And yet, this can lead us into a trap... Right into a very disempowering place, where we keep the cycle of pain going on and on...

Today we look into Blame, and how not to fall into this trap, coming instead to a place within where we feel grounded, empowered and more able to navigate difficult relationships. 

SPECIAL EPISODE ALERT! Stay tuned as this Thursday I'm releasing a special episode with an amazing guest, Debra Kilby. A truly potent conversation on the ancestral trauma we carry, how it affects not only us birthing children, but birthing any idea or project or dream we have, and more!

If you would like to know more about the RYF Women Circles check here:

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/

If you have any questions you can contact me at [email protected]

And also the FREE Self Love Guided Practice is still available on the website, go check it out:

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

Do you find friendship with women to be challenging?
Is it easier for you to make friends with men?

As daughters of narcissistic mothers there are a few factors at play when it comes to opening up and be truly safe in trusting women, and it is important to be aware of all that before jumping to judgement both of yourself and others. 

In this episode we explore all that in depth offering a different way to approach the entire topic, allowing you to navigate this challenge with a new perspective. 

If you are interested in RYF Women Circles check the link below

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/

If you would like to know more about the 10 weeks 1:1 Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme send an email at

[email protected]

Registration for the programme ends September 22nd!

With love!

A provocative title for a provocative episode today!
Don't you have enough of proving you narcissistic mother right?!
I certainly do!!
To know more about what I mean by proving her right, listen to the full episode!

To know more or to apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circle here is the link:

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/

To know more about the offer of a 10 weeks Inner Transformation 1:1 Programme Healing from maternal narcissism contact me at [email protected]

Please note: Only 4 spaces available for the 1:1 programme, registration closes Friday 22nd of September!

With love!

When you hear a woman speaking about her mother like she is her best friend, how do you feel?

When you scroll on social media and see women that made it, that healed everything, that have the perfect everything, how do you feel?

Do you feel truly inspired, or maybe happy for them??

Or do you use their success as a measure for your failures?

When the result of meeting a woman that is doing very good at something is that we feel a bitter taste in the mouth, it means we are doing something it would be best not to.... What is it? Let's talk about this in the episode!

Here is the link to check the Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles

https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

And here is the email address should you have any queries about it

[email protected]

With Love!