Earn Your Happy

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

• Being in transition
• Turning unwanted criticism into compassion
• The importance of communication
• Having tough conversations
• Letting go of the mainstream idea of balance
• Talk to yourself as if you’re talking to a friend

Resources:

• Learn more: The Bliss Project

Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about transitions, communication, and work/life/everything else balance.

Review of the Week:

mandisueday

Lori’s heartfelt and motivating messages are top of her game! When her co-host Evans joined, the podcast gained a playful and witty spirit that I absolutely adore! While listening to this podcast, I gained my first client! I also gained more self-appreciation and a BIG ‘ol healthy dose of laughter. 😂This is my weekly bliss. Thank you Lori and Evans. You have truly blessed my life. I love you guys!

Question 1:

@magzszs

How do you transition from an old environment into your new environment without being rude?

Question 2:

@al.lanz

What are your struggles with communication and how have you moved on from those?

Question 3:

@cbello4410

How do you balance life, work, working on yourself and making sure you have time for others?

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course

-How Ali helps brands + influencers work together

-Growth mode + creating a company culture

-Celebrating employee milestones

-Keeping up with an ever-changing social media landscape

-Figuring out TikTok

-Moving past imposter syndrome

-Making mistakes + not getting bent up over them

-Having a strong why behind a product

-Creating authentic social media content

Resources:

-besocialpr.com

-Instagram: @besocialgroup

-Instagram: @aligrant

-Read: Radical Candor

-becomealigned.com

Show Notes:

Ali Grant is a leader who has built an extraordinary business. Her company, Be Social, helps influencers and corporations build powerhouse brands. Be Social is currently scaling and growing, so this conversation is a must-listen if you are interested in building a vision bigger than yourself and want to know how it’s done.

Question Highlights:

-How do you create a company culture if you're a small business?

-How do you show up as the leader and keep people excited about your vision?

-What gets you back into your creativity?

-How should influencers approach TikTok?

-What do you do to keep yourself really grounded every single day?

-What are three things that make people uber successful in business?

-What makes a product go viral?

Guest Bio:

Ali Grant launched Be Social in 2012 as one of the first agencies executing integrated influencer outreach and collaboration. Today, the communications group is headquartered in Los Angeles specializing in digital-forward campaigns for lifestyle, wellness and beauty brands and talent.

With Ali at the helm, Be Social has been named one of Inc.’s fastest growing businesses, spearheading digital campaigns across influencers, social, events and publicity.

Be Social is a member of the The Professional Beauty Association (PBA) and The PR Net. The firm supports and is partnered with the Freedom & Fashion non-profit, which uses the arts of fashion and beauty to empower youth overcoming trafficking, homelessness and other injustices.

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-Making every year better than your last even if it’s hard

-Making choices that don’t betray yourself

-Busting your ass but also taking time to rest + recover

-Creating a sense of urgency to get your message out

-Believing that you are loved + protected by God or the Universe

-The bravery involved in failing + the potential for failure to propel us into bigger arenas

Resources:

-Learn more: eventluv.com

-Learn more: The Bliss Project

-Read: A Tribe Called Bliss

Show Notes:

Before we really get stuck into 2020, I want you to take time here to be proud of the things that you've done. Think of a moment last year where you showed up when you didn't want to, and got results. We have to get really grateful for these moments. And I want to say welcome to 2020. Welcome to this epic opportunity where you get to create a year that is different from the last and you get to make choices in the direction that you want to go. This is truly time to create and rise up and put things out in the world in such a massive way. I want you to treat 2020 like it is your last year to play. Find the courage, energy and strength to do something big and different. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-The downside of gossip

-Creating a new position for yourself at work

-Taking the time to appreciate the little things

-What to read if you struggle to find the time

Resources:

-Learn more: The Bliss Project

-Learn more: eventluv.com

-Read: A Tribe Called Bliss

Show Notes:

Happy new year! Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about goals. We cover goal-setting at work, setting an intention to find joy in your life and how to meet your reading goals. 

Review of the Week:

MsLids

Another aha moment thanks to Lori and Evans! Whenever I need some inspiration, laughter or an aha moment, I tune into Earn Your Happy, and usually there is always something in an episode that is exactly what I need to hear. I was listening to Evans and Lori talk about pivots and Lori was sharing the story about baby sea turtles and it was the aha, calming advice I needed. You see I’m a mom to a 14 year old middle schooler that has really struggled this year and my momma bear has wanted to come in and “fix” it. Hearing that the turtles need to struggle on land so they can survive in the sea was a great analogy for parenting middle school girls. This struggle is part of her learning how to figure things out and my job is to provide her with the tools to help but not do it for her. Thanks as always for the motivation!!

Question 1:

Morgan

I took a job recently that feels like the right thing right now, but as soon as a better opportunity comes up I want to take it. How do I do that without feeling guilty about leaving my current job?

Question 2:

@aspengineer

How do you have time for reading? Reading more is a big goal!

Question 3:

@cailynprins

What are the little things you do every day to bring yourself joy?

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-Our Become Aligned course

-The experiential economy + EventLuv

-Our New Year’s Eve manifesting ritual

-Why Chris decided not to go to Justin Beiber’s party + P Diddy’s 50th birthday

-How Lori’s building a physical product business 

-Chris’ plan to write a book in 2020

-Mentally detaching from the desire to please people

-Saying no to things, even when you want to support people

-The need to keep growing + developing

-Having tough conversations with people because you want to love them more

-Facing reality about your physical health

-The fine line between giving yourself grace + holding yourself accountable

-Knowing your value + obeying the law of chemistry

Resources:

-fortheloveofmoney.com

-Instagram: @chriswharder

-becomealigned.com

-eventluv.com

Show Notes:

This episode is with my husband, Chris Harder. He interviewed me for our end-of-year wrap on his show, For The Love Of Money, and I liked it so much I decided to share it with you. It is all about the things that we are going to be doing - and not doing - to become the next version of ourselves. Tag us on Instagram and tell us what you’re going to start, stop, face and embrace in 2020. 

Question Highlights:

-What are you gonna start doing?

-What are you gonna stop doing? 

-What are you gonna face? 

-What are you going to embrace? 

Guest Bio:

After an 11-year career as an executive and partner in the banking industry, Chris experienced plenty of success, however he severely lacked fulfillment – and was completely burned out. Recognizing that a change needed to be made, he retired from banking in 2011 and partnered with his wife, Lori, and her brand, LoriHarder.com, along with their Isagenix network marketing business. Chris now handles most of the business affairs and business coaching for their two multimillion dollar brands, and has found exactly the fulfillment and happiness he was seeking in a career.

Chris is the host of the new hit podcast, “For the Love of Money”, aimed at helping people bust through their money mindset blocks to become unapologetic about their pursuit of wealth. It is through interviewing business moguls and celebrities and exposing their exciting stories of contribution and philanthropy that he helps prove that money is a tool for good in a world with many needs.

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-Getting clear on what’s important to you in 2020

-Checking in with your dreams every time you go to make plans

Resources:

-Learn more: eventluv.com

-Learn more: The Bliss Project

-Read: A Tribe Called Bliss

Show Notes:

It’s almost time for the new year, and we get to choose how we feel about it. There is so much beautiful energy around 2020 of manifesting what you want and getting rid of what you don't want. A lot of times I fail at reaching my goals because I’m prioritizing things that are less important or not important or things that I don't actually want, and I get stuck in the busy work. And the more and more clear that I've gotten about letting go of things, the more I’ve been able to focus on what matters. I want you to ask some simple questions:

-What needs to go? 

-Who do you need to say no to? 

-What do you need to stop doing? 

-What do you need to let go of in order to make room for what you want?

I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-Avoiding the rabbithole of worrying that you’re making the wrong decisions

-Digging yourself out of sad places as fast as possible

-Developing a sense of urgency around your goals

-Hiring an assistant or contractor before you’re ready

-How scrolling Instagram only delivers the picture-perfect aspect of someone’s life

Resources:

-Learn more: The Bliss Project

-Learn more: eventluv.com

-Read: A Tribe Called Bliss

Show Notes:

Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about goals. If you’re in a place where you’re consistently not reaching your goals, it’s time to get realistic about where you’re at energetically. Maybe you’re not doing the things to hold yourself accountable to your goals, like telling people or putting money down. Maybe you don’t have enough willpower left at the end of the day to focus on another thing and you need to prioritize self-care so that you can be the person who can achieve your goals. Wherever you’re at, we wish you a Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays. Just know that things are working even when they feel like they're not working and all you need to know is, you’ve got this. 

Review of the Week:

chandlerrae12

My Cup of Energy & Life in the Mornings! Good morning Lori and Evans (btw, love your name!)! Just wanted to start off by saying that you two are my pick-me-up for the rest of the day on Tuesdays and Thursdays as I am driving to class - especially in Phoenix traffic! I feel as though I am sitting right there with you, sipping on my iced matcha latte, laughing at the hilarious tangents and ideas that are thought of; you guys need someone to make a list of all your brilliant ideas, haha! Anyway, I love you both so much and appreciate your wisdom for this soon-to-be college grad! Everything is so relatable and so true. Keep on being your authentic selves and I will continue to do the same. Much Love, Chandler Derby

Question 1:

@empowermentwithelizabeth

Advice for when you invest in yourself, do the work, but feel like year after year you're not reaching goals/not much further than the previous year?

Question 2:

@tay_pelletier

How can you prioritize goals without losing work/life balance?

Question 3:

@mindset_michelle

How many goals at a time can you work on?

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course

-Hannah’s destination wedding in Paris

-Why she has zero regrets about her dress

-What Hannah does for fun

-Transitioning from music videos to more narrative projects

-Working collaboratively to bring an artist’s vision to life

-The rise of female directors

Resources:

-hannahluxdavis.com

-Instagram: @hannahluxdavis

-becomealigned.com

-eventluv.com

Show Notes:

Hannah Lux-Davis is an award-winning director who works with musicians like Ariana Grande, Miley Cyrus and Lana Del Ray. In this conversation we cover everything from how she started in filmmaking as a production assistant and make-up artist to why she avoids jumping on Instagram.

Question Highlights:

-How do you deal with lots of big personalities and potentially big egos?

-How do you stay focused on something when there is a lot of pressure?

-How do you avoid getting stuck when things aren’t going your way?

-What shows up in your body and mind when you're not in alignment with your work?

-How do you tap into your creativity? 

-What do wish people who would like to emulate your career would ask you?

Guest Bio:

Hannah Lux-Davis is an award-winning American filmmaker best known for her striking imagery and iconic vision. The industry's top artists consistently trust her to create boundary-pushing music videos that garner billions of views around the globe. With experience and design, directing and editing, she curates every detail on her projects from start to finish.

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-EventLuv - there’s only 11 spots left!

-Why having the right perspective is everything

-How changing your perspective when things are tough is the real work

-How to flip your perspective

Resources:

-Learn more: eventluv.com

-Learn more: The Bliss Project

-Read: A Tribe Called Bliss

Show Notes:

Perspective is a beautiful thing that can turn something negative into something that is actually life changing and positive. I practice flipping my perspective all the time because the most successful and happy people that I know all have this power. What is something you can change your mind about? For example maybe you’re going to the gym and feel like you hate it and you’re not seeing results. Thank yourself for showing up and doing something hard because you are building that muscle of showing up even when you don’t feel like it’s worth it. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-Feeling overwhelmed during the holiday season

-How sorrow and contrast prepare you for joy

-Self-care assessments

-How in order to be great, you have to be willing to bomb

-Knowing when you need to ask for help 

-Refusing to be responsible for other people’s happiness

-Not rewarding shitty behavior

Resources:

-Learn more: The Bliss Project

-Learn more: eventluv.com

-Read: A Tribe Called Bliss

Show Notes:

Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about joy. Happy holidays! And don’t worry if you’re a little out of routine - we're gonna get back to our normal feelings and pant sizes soon. 

Review of the Week:

KarlBird18 ★★★★★ "

The Earn Your Happy podcast is the fuel for my fire and never fails to bring a spark of joy into my life (a big spark!). Every Wednesday morning, Lori and Evans join me for my morning workout, motivating me to keep working on my dreams in their fun and silly ways. On more than one occasion, people stop to ask me why I’m smiling and giggling so much during my workout and I love to recommend the podcast to them. My friends and I have inside jokes inspired by Lori and Evan’s witty conversations (Jugernut 😂) and I feel like we’re all one big tribe cheering on each other’s dreams and celebrating our authenticity. Whenever I’m feeling anxious or down on myself, I’ll re-visit Lori’s quickies for an instant dose of motivation or the Questionably Awesome episodes to remind me that life is meant to be enjoyed! I have it on my vision board to one day meet Lori and Evans and to attend the Bliss Project! Thank you both for shining and sharing your irreplaceable awesomeness! Chelsey Bird

Question 1:@al.lanz

What do you do when you feel like nothing is joyful?

Question 2:

@brittgalipeau

How do you help people find joy within themselves and stop relying on you for their joy?