Dear Dr. Tracy

Enneagram and Marriage with Christa Hardin


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As we approach the many gatherings that the holiday season brings, the need for teamwork and connection in our relationships is as relevant as ever. This week, Dr. Tracy is sitting down with Christa Hardin, host of the Enneagram and Marriage podcast, author, and founder of Reflections Counselling Centre, to explore the Enneagram assessment as a tool for building stronger connections in our partnerships. She shares her own personal experience with the Enneagram, the positive impact it’s had on her marriage, and the several benefits of this assessment when it comes to couples seeking to strengthen their relationships and better themselves. Christa takes us through the nine enneagram types, the concept of wings, the three conflict triads, and emphasizes the significance of self-care in maintaining healthy relationships. She also provides guidance on approaching relationships with compassion, focusing on individual self-improvement, and embracing each other's strengths and imperfections. It’s such an eye-opening discussion that goes beyond partnerships and into gaining a better understanding of ourselves to help us navigate and live more meaningful and connected lives. 


Today’s topics include: 

  • The benefits of the Enneagram vs. other assessments 
  • What to do if your partner isn’t interested in taking the Enneagram test 
  • A high-level overview of the nine Enneagram personality types 
  • How do Enneagram wings work? 
  • The 3 instincts of marriage 
  • Conflict triads and what they mean 
  • The importance of self-grounding and self-care in the midst of relationship struggles 
  • Why you should revisit your love story 
  • Leading with intention but leaving a necessary margin 
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    You can find Christa on Instagram, listen to her podcast and find her book on her website!  


     

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    You can now order my new book “I Didn’t Sign Up for This” here! 

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