Help Me Be Me

Episode 64: Trivial Couple Fights: For Getting Stuck in Battles of the Technicalities


Listen Later

How to stop trivial couple arguments that involve endless semantics debates – the ones usually started by faulty communication that are pointless and seem to last forever. This is a follow-up episode to last week’s episode which was about better loving - it’s all about a modern condition many couples are suffering in greater and greater numbers: the stupid arguments we get into with our awesome significant others – over stupid little things like corrections and blame. The couples’ court battle of technicalities. What does that mean? Endless arguments with your significant other argued with technicalities – who said what, who’s right, who’s wrong – what I meant when I said that thing, no YOU said that which is what made me say that. You always do this! Can we not? Please? Can we stop this stupid fight? You’re the reason this started! I’M the one who’s trying not to fight— etc. We’ve all been there, and we all don’t want to go there – ever! Because it’s a massive time and energy suck and it usually results in nothing positive or helpful. It’s just a way to ruin a nice night or make us ready to fight for the rest of a Saturday. So why does this happen to modern couples and how do we get out of it? That’s what this episode is all about. As in all of my blogs, there are three parts – the what, the why and the how – the tools. And I’ll put my references in the blog version of this post. Yay! This one’s for Matt. Hope you enjoy!

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Help Me Be MeBy Cloud10

  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8

4.8

1,798 ratings


More shows like Help Me Be Me

View all
Good Life Project by Jonathan Fields / Acast

Good Life Project

3,272 Listeners

The Overwhelmed Brain by Paul Colaianni

The Overwhelmed Brain

1,900 Listeners

The One You Feed by Eric Zimmer

The One You Feed

2,512 Listeners

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

805 Listeners

The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair by Michelle Chalfant

The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair

1,534 Listeners

The Terri Cole Show by Terri Cole

The Terri Cole Show

1,357 Listeners

Untangle by Untangle

Untangle

828 Listeners

10% Happier with Dan Harris by 10% Happier

10% Happier with Dan Harris

12,535 Listeners

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson by Rick Hanson, Ph.D., Forrest Hanson

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

2,428 Listeners

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone by Kara Loewentheil

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

5,091 Listeners

MURDERISH by Cloud10

MURDERISH

3,484 Listeners

The BrainFood Show by Cloud10

The BrainFood Show

1,367 Listeners

Emotional Badass by Nikki Eisenhauer

Emotional Badass

2,211 Listeners

Enneagram & Coffee by Cloud10

Enneagram & Coffee

1,048 Listeners

On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

26,973 Listeners

Advantage Connors by Cloud10

Advantage Connors

189 Listeners

Calm it Down by Chad Lawson

Calm it Down

702 Listeners

Black Girl Gone: A True Crime Podcast by Cloud10

Black Girl Gone: A True Crime Podcast

2,184 Listeners

Hungry for Conversation with Natalie Puche by Cloud10

Hungry for Conversation with Natalie Puche

1,672 Listeners

Forever Young by Cloud10

Forever Young

54 Listeners

The Codependent Podcast by Cloud10

The Codependent Podcast

930 Listeners

Scorched Justice by Cloud10

Scorched Justice

410 Listeners

Dirty Money Moves: Women in White Collar Crime by Cloud10

Dirty Money Moves: Women in White Collar Crime

335 Listeners

Raising and Rising by Cloud10

Raising and Rising

20 Listeners

On Attachment by Stephanie Rigg

On Attachment

970 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,539 Listeners

The Moderns by Cloud10

The Moderns

0 Listeners

CHRISTORY with Chris Manzo by Cloud10

CHRISTORY with Chris Manzo

96 Listeners

The Reality Informant by Cloud10

The Reality Informant

20 Listeners

The Bad Good Parent by Cloud10

The Bad Good Parent

20 Listeners

Fantasy Foes by Cloud10 and The Starting 5

Fantasy Foes

15 Listeners

Funny Energy by Cloud10

Funny Energy

73 Listeners

Untangling Toys by Cloud10 and Clamor

Untangling Toys

17 Listeners

Are You There Pod? It's Me, Dad by Cloud10

Are You There Pod? It's Me, Dad

21 Listeners