Heal from Infidelity: Reclaiming Your Peace, Power, and Self-Trust After Betrayal

Do you struggle with intrusive thoughts? These are the ones that pop up, seemingly out of nowhere, and can derail your whole day.

In this episode, I cover where these thoughts come from, and how to process them so they no longer have a hold on you.

You will learn a strategy that will:

1. Help you bring more awareness to the thought
2. Give you direction as to what to do with it (so you are in charge of the thought rather than it being in charge of you).

If you are like every client I have ever worked with, you have unwanted thoughts, and are tired of the hold they have on you. Don't miss this episode to learn how to get a hold on the thoughts that can disturb your peace.

Want to work with me? Schedule a free call to join my new group, "Get Your Life Back After Infidelity."

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What happens when something you believed as true is challenged? Or when you make up your mind about something and immediately doubt it? Does it mean you made the wrong decision, or is something else happening?

In this episode, you'll learn all about cognitive dissonance and how it is an indication that something is out of alignment for you. It may be that your beliefs need to be reevaluated or expanded. It may be that you are being led into deeper self-trust and wisdom.

While cognitive dissonance can be quite uncomfortable, it can lead you into a place of deep peace, knowing that your internal values match your external actions.

How to work with me: https://calendly.com/andreagilescoaching/get-your-life-back

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After infidelity, the decision needs to be made whether to stay or go. But for most people, that is only half the decision.

Many people go through life being physically in a relationship but emotionally out. Some leave marriages physically but cannot separate themselves emotionally from their spouse, so they don't really move on.

In this episode, I help you identify exactly where you are in your process forward. I help you know how to more fully commit to getting where you want to go so you can have real peace.

This is deep emotional work, and this episode can help you understand not only why it has been so difficult to go all in, but how you can help yourself get there.

Join me for my free webinar, HOW TO GET YOUR LIFE BACK AFTER INFIDELITY, on August 26th at 2 pm MST. You can register here.

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When you think of yourself, do you identify more with being someone who has been traumatized, or as someone who is incredibly resilient, despite your trauma?

Humans all experience trauma. It is inescapable. But what we forget is that as humans we are built to be resilient, and to rise above our trauma- not get stuck in it.

In this episode, you'll learn how to create more resiliency as you navigate the choppy waters of infidelity. You will understand how you are getting yourself stuck in the story of your trauma, and leave with a clear path of how to grow stronger, despite your challenges.

Interested in my coaching program? Schedule a free 1-1 call with me below to see if it would be a good fit for you.

https://calendly.com/andreagilescoaching/know-in-90

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Most of us understand the importance and significance of courage. It is an emotion that can help us to look at hard things in our lives. But if we are unwilling to take action based on our feeling of courage, we end up right where we started.

In this episode, I share some ideas pertaining to infidelity about some of the ways we need to not only have courage, but to turn that courage into action to ultimately have what we want.

I use specific stories and analogies to help my listeners know how this applies to them, and things they can start doing today.

Ways to work with me:

Want to know how to decide to stay or go after infidelity? Join my free class here.

Interested in my coaching program? Schedule a free 1-1 call with me below to see if it would be a good fit for you. https://andreagiles.com/know-in-90/

To learn more from me, be sure to join my email list at: https://andreagiles.com/lies-about-infidelity/

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How much pressure do you put on yourself to "Keep the Peace"? Maybe there are things you don't say because you don't want to create conflict. Maybe you just stuff things down rather than speak up and make others uncomfortable.

In this episode, I discuss the concept of keeping the peace and where it often backfires. What if there is something better than keeping the peace? What if protecting your own peace over others' is the best work you can do?

If you want to understand areas you are hiding to maintain peace, listen to this episode. You will grow in your courage and strength to stand up for what you want most, even if it means temporarily rocking the boat in the name of creating long-term peace.

Ways to work with me:

Want to know how to decide to stay or go after infidelity? Join my free class here.

Interested in my coaching program? Schedule a free 1-1 call with me to see if it would be a good fit for you. https://andreagiles.com/know-in-90/

To learn more from me, be sure to join my email list at: https://andreagiles.com/lies-about-infidelity/

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In the aftermath of infidelity, it can feel like your life has been blown up, and our spouse sometimes does not seem to understand how much their choices impacted us.

This episode discusses the importance of knowing that our spouse "gets it" in order to really move forward and build trust. I also discuss growing our capacity to look at ourselves and how the things we say and do affect others.

Solid relationships are built on both people taking responsibility for how we each impact each other.

Want to work with me? Apply to join my group coaching program at: https://andreagiles.com/know-in-90/

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In this episode, I welcome guest and self-advocacy expert, Samantha Nielsen to the show. If you have ever struggled in knowing how to speak up for yourself, this episode is for you.

Samantha shares her own experience with watching herself shrink and be miserable until it became unbearable. She had an amazing transformation and completely changed her life. More about Samantha:

Samantha is the happiest divorced woman on the planet! She believes that divorce is a necessary resource, gift and tool. Divorce, while difficult, allows people to move beyond hopeless situation and create new and better outcomes. While finding the courage to leave a difficult relationship can be one of the most difficult decisions, it is also incredibly empowering. Samantha holds a degree in Interpersonal Communications. She's also a Certified Life & Divorce Coach. Samantha offers private coaching to both men and women in all stages of the divorcing process. Connect with Samantha at www.moderndaydivorce.com or on Instagram at: @modern.day.divorce.

Want to work with me? Apply to join my group coaching program at: https://andreagiles.com/know-in-90/

To learn more from me, be sure to join my email list at: https://andreagiles.com/lies-about-infidelity/

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Do you often wonder how you'll know the difference between a truth and a lie? It is a common question after infidelity, since the very nature of infidelity includes deceit.

In this episode, I share a powerful analogy that will help you discern for yourself between truth and error. You will come away from this episode wiser, more in tune with your own truth, and with a higher commitment to seeking truth, at all cost.

Want to work with me? Apply to join my group coaching program at: https://andreagiles.com/know-in-90/

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© 2020 - 2023 Andrea Giles

In this lost and found episode, I share a story of recently losing my child in Disneyland and some profound lessons that came from that.

I came away from that experience recognizing clearer than ever that we are not meant to do life alone, especially the hard part.

In an intense situation, helpers came. Kindness was shown.

I want this for you, too, as you navigate feeling lost in infidelity.

Want to work with me? Apply to join my group coaching program at: https://andreagiles.com/know-in-90/

To learn more from me, be sure to join my email list at: https://andreagiles.com/lies-about-infidelity/

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© 2020 - 2023 Andrea Giles