Hot Mess Habits

WELCOME to the three episode series all about getting your life together before the fall! Make sure you sign up to join us for the FREE get your life together challenge here: ⁠https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n⁠

today we unpack some actual *REALISTIC* habits + systems that keep me sane as a chaotic-leaning, adhd, type b girly.

other videos to WATCH NEXT: 

how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s

wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s

why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s

🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:

DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy

MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva

ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023

ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo

BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372

💫 DISCOUNTS:

ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo

10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372

FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361

CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36

🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:

FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60

MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva

BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide

🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:

microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp

taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356

slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180

🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL

hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸

💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS

website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/

substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo

instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo

tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo

music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9

WELCOME to the three episode series all about getting your life together before the fall! Make sure you sign up to join us for the FREE get your life together challenge here: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n

today we unpack WHY you struggle so much to be consistent, and more importantly, how we can *realistically* push through to come out on the other side

today we unpack WHY you struggle so much to be consistent, and more importantly, how we can *realistically* push through to come out on the other sideother videos to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxomusic license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9

PLS tell me you like this format of episode!!

This is week 5 (?) of being consistent posting the podcast + also switching up some of my episode types: I am trying to be more unfiltered and CONSISTENT! lmk how you like!

today we chat all about everything I was obsessing about in July

make sure you sign up for the "get your life together challenge" happening this month: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n

other realistic episodes to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxomusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT

this is the year we end our phone addiction!!!

GET YOUR BRICK NOW (not sponsored, just listen to the episode to hear why I love it): https://getbrick.app/VICTORIA84372 

GET THE FULL DIGITAL DETOX GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/how-to-get-unaddicted-to-your-phone

if you’re tired of feeling anxious, overstimulated, distracted and constantly pulled toward your phone, this episode is for you. 

we are covering:

- realistic and attainable ways to actually break our phone addiction

- why it is so important WHEN we scroll

- the best iphone feature for phone addiction

- why i love the brick so much (and my fave new feature!)

- the thing that can be missing from the screen time conversation

TIMESTAMPS:

0:53 guilt isn't a strong enough motivator, but it is telling you something

11:06 why it is so important WHEN you scroll

12:40 the BEST new brick feature

14:24 not giving into excuses 

16:17 fave iphone feature: greyscale

17:40 practice leaving phone in other room

18:46 self awareness of when your phone becomes a coping mechanism 

21:19 no phone policy at the table

22:33 guide to detoxing

other realistic productivity episodes to WATCH NEXT: 

how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s

wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s

why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s

🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:

DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy

MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva

ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023

ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo

BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372

💫 DISCOUNTS:

ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo

10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372

FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361

CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36

🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:

FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60

MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva

BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide

🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:

microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp

taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356

slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180

🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL

hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸

💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS

website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/

substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo

instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo

tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo

music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT

sub count: 7180

we still have SO MUCH TIME! if you haven't looked at your goals, habits + routines in a while, this is your motivation!

today we cover:

- why we need to take the time to check in (especially if you have adhd)

- why we need to shift our view of productivity

- HOW to actually accomplish our goals

- redefining our schedule + taking action

this episode is for:

🤎 for the type b moms

💻 for the work-from-home girlies

🧠 for the adhd brains

✨ for the recovering perfectionist / eldest daughter 

TIMESTAMPS:

1:46: life updates: odyssey + family vacay

8:40: why does a mid-year reset even matter

13:10: does every goal needs to be productive?? 

15:05: check in with your goals

17:19: my examples of goals I had to shift

22:50: start with HIGH IMPACT low effort

26:44: hosting free challenge!! outro

other realistic productivity episodes to WATCH NEXT: 

how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s

wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s

why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s

🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:

DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy

MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva

ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023

ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo

BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372

💫 DISCOUNTS:

ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo

10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372

FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361

CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36

🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:

FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60

MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva

BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide

🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:

microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp

taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356

slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180

🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL

hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸

💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS

website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/

substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo

instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo

tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo

my ultimate list of things I find incredibly chic as a type b mom!! lmk if you can relate or have any to add!

TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 PODCAST UPDATES

15:30 having a cute diaper bag

17:20 grocery pick up

19:20 pouches to organize 

22:35 having a key attachment on bag

23:22 having nice claw clip

24:16 hot beverage early morning

25:33 baby wearing

26:04 no shame over restarting and picking back up

27:30 having pedicure 

30:20 drink hot tea

31:27 vibey evening routine

34:27 car stocked with must haves 

36:00 being a chugger not sipper

🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!!💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSThe blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoInstagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxosubstack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreativemusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOTsub count: 7160

OKAY if you are ready for a butter mom summer, this episode is for you 🧈 

we're breaking down how to be present, intentional, and have the most wholesome + whimsical summer with your kids (and yourself) — how to get off your phone, document more, and actually make a plan so you're not looking back in september wondering where the summer went. grab a coffee and let's get into it 🌸

🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO

🧈 butter mom summer guide (paid playbook): https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide⁠

📵 the brick (my phone detox device) — https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372

🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL

hi i'm victoria, host of hot mess habits 🍓 this is a space for type b moms who want realistic habits + routines without the pressure of doing it perfectly. we talk motherhood, food + fun drinks, dream lifestyle, productivity + just generally trying to get our lives together!! 

new episodes weekly 🩰

💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS

instagram: @hotmesshabits + @victoriaharderxo

tiktok: @victoriaharderxo

substack: victoriaharderxo.substack.com

podcast: hot mess habits on apple + spotify

blog: victoriaharderxo.com

shop: victoriaharderxo.com/shop

shopmy: shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo

amazon (ca): amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative

music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT

this video is NOT sponsored but I do love & highly recommend brick: https://www.getbrick.com/VICTORIA84372

if you are feeling like you cannot stop scrolling, are getting iriratated with your kids, are constantly anxious, it might be time to do a social media reset

today I chat all about my 21 day challenge and the impact it had on me!

🌸 RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BE LESS ADDICTED

get a brick → https://www.getbrick.com/VICTORIA84372

more ideas on breaking your addiction → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=194s

🤎 ABOUT THE PODCAST

hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!!

💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS

The blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/

Substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo

Instagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/

Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/

TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo

substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?

SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo

Amazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative

music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT

in this video i'm de-influencing you from feeling the need to spend money in order to take care of yourself!! it costs $0 to work on your habits + routines

🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO

morning menu → https://bodegoods.co/products/morning-menu-routine-template-for-canva-2

🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL

hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!!

💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS

The blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/

Substack →https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo

Instagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/

Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/

TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo

substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?

SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo

Amazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative

music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT

realistic spring reset: goals, home, food, movement + hobbies

in this episode i'm walking you through my realistic spring reset across every area of life — we're talking goals, home refresh, food and drinks, movement, and hobbies. no overwhelm, no pressure, just simple intentional things that actually fit into real life

🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEOseasonal goal setting template → https://bodegoods.co/products/fall-go...chatbooks photo books → https://rstr.co/chatbookers/12968quince linen bedding → https://goto.quince.com/vD40yN🤎 ABOUT THE PODCASThi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood, food and drinks, and all the little things that make ordinary days feel good. 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → victoriaharderxo.comsubstack → substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → instagram.com/victoriaharderxopodcast → instagram.com/hotmesshabitstiktok → tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo