Lessons in Overthinking & Obsessing

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  • Lessons in Avoidant Attachment & How to Let Your Guard Down So You Can Make Room for Love with the Compatibility Coach

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    Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. 

    In this episode of Lessons in Love I am joined by my good friend and fellow coach Caitlin aka The Compatibility Coach. This is a juicy episode you don't want to miss if you are looking for love!

    Listen in as we chat about:

    • How to change the negative narrative around your love life
    • Avoidant Attachment and signs you are unavailable for love
    • How to let your guard down and open your heart to the love you say you want
    • Whether it is possible to change your attachment style - and out own personal experiences
    • How to surrender to being single and let go of the air of desperation 
    • The difference between boundaries and barriers 

    Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: @carly.ann_
    or go to
    www.carly-ann.co.uk


    Head to https://thehappinessplanner.com to check out all their journal and resources.  Use codes: LESSONSINLOVE (This entitles you to 10% off all products in our online stores) and code CARLYANN for 20% off our app subscription

    Audio production by Bethany Donkin.
    Music by Atch



    Support the show

    BOOK YOU 90 minute CLARITY CALL


    Other useful links:

    • Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
    • Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
    • Follow Carly Ann on Instagram
    • To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]



    55 min
  • Therapist Shares 6 Tips on How to Give Finding (Healthy) Love Your Best Shot | Ep 15

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    Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles.
    In this solo episode of Lessons in Love I am give you 6 tips you can use to give love your best shot.
    (It can feel tough to find and/or sustain love - and so I wanted to give you an inside scoop on how you can feel secure in the knowledge you are doing your part - because what more can you do?)
    Note - this is about finding a secure, healthy, extraordinary love - not just any relationship!
    Enjoy and let me know which tips speak to you most.

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    33 min
  • Lessons in Safe Communication, Not Losing Yourself to Love, & Releasing Shame with Rosie Rees

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    Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. 

    In this episode I am talking to the brilliant Rosie Reese. This is a juicy one! This week we discuss:
    ⁃            Our thoughts on Love at first sight - does it exist?
    ⁃            The trap of looking for love in sex
    ⁃            Feeling safe enough to communice - these are great tips for recognising a secure & healthy relationship
    ⁃            Following that niggle & whisper towards what and who is meant for you
    ⁃            The powerlessness of losing yourself in love
    ⁃            How to trust again
    ⁃            & Recovering from an anxious episode when you have been triggered
    ⁃            Tips for self love

    Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: @carly.ann_
    or go to
    www.carly-ann.co.uk

    Head to https://thehappinessplanner.com to check out all their journal and resources.
    Use codes: LESSONSINLOVE (This entitles you to 10% off all products in our online stores) and code CARLYANN for 20% off our app subscription

    Audio production by Bethany Donkin.
    Music by Atch

    Support the show

    BOOK YOU 90 minute CLARITY CALL


    Other useful links:

    • Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
    • Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
    • Follow Carly Ann on Instagram
    • To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]



    52 min
  • Lessons in Regulating Your Emotions, Soothing Your Anxiety, and Our Thoughts on Whether Love Can Come Back Around with Phoebe Greenacre

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    Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. 

    Welcome to a brand new series where we are kicking off with a BRILLIANT GUEST - Phoebe Greenacre.

    In this episode Phoebe and I are sharing lessons and guidance on

    • Choosing the right relationship for you and finding inner strength to walk away from people who do not serve you
    • Our thoughts about whether love can come back around
    • Letting go of "forever" as a way to enjoy your life and relationships today (to reduce the anxiety!)
    • Phoebe's helpful take on "the timeline" and biological clock
    • What to do when life & heartbreak hits you hard - and emotion takes over

    Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: @carly.ann_
    or go to
    www.carly-ann.co.uk

    Head to https://thehappinessplanner.com to check out all their journal and resources. 
    Use codes: LESSONSINLOVE (This entitles you to 10% off all products in our online stores) and code CARLYANN for 20% off our app subscription

    Audio production by Bethany Donkin.

    Music by Atch


    Support the show

    BOOK YOU 90 minute CLARITY CALL


    Other useful links:

    • Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
    • Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
    • Follow Carly Ann on Instagram
    • To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]



    54 min
  • Fleeting Loneliness: What Influences Those Deep Moments of Feeling so Alone in the World | Ep 14

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    Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. 

    In this episode I am talking to you about loneliness. This is for the person who mostly experiences meaning & fulfilment, and other times gets knocked down by feelings of loneliness and is unsure why it happens or how to move through it.

    I am sharing with you some factors that influence this loneliness and some ideas on how to manage those waves.

    Follow Carly Ann on Instagram:  @carly.ann_
    or go to
    www.carly-ann.co.uk

    Audio production by Bethany Donkin.

    Music by Atch



    Support the show

    BOOK YOU 90 minute CLARITY CALL


    Other useful links:

    • Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
    • Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
    • Follow Carly Ann on Instagram
    • To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]



    21 min
  • Receiving Love, Choosing Single Life Over Settling, & Overcoming Shame with Jon Toms

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    Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. 

    In this penultimate episode of series two, I am joined by Jon Toms

    In this episode you will hear our thoughts on:

    • Accepting praise & compliments and why this is SO important for you and your emotional health
    • How to strong in the face of the pressure that comes from "the timeline" - to be married & to have kids
    • We talk about our views on "settling" in relationships
    • Dealing with the “shoulds” and “shame” that we deal with most days
    • And not to mention - how to choose love again after pain and broken trust


    Watch the Free Masterclass today - How To Choose A Relationship That Meets Your Needs

    Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: @carly.ann_
    or go to
    www.carly-ann.co.uk

    Audio production by Bethany Donkin.

    Music by Atch



    Support the show

    BOOK YOU 90 minute CLARITY CALL


    Other useful links:

    • Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
    • Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
    • Follow Carly Ann on Instagram
    • To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]



    1 hr 6 min
  • You Are Not Your Past! Following Your Fire & Finding Your Voice with Marilyn Sarai | Ep 13

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    A podcast for anyone who has ever lost themselves in love and are searching for a sense of SELF
    In this special episode we talk about:
    - Listening to your "soul whispers" and "niggles" that are calling you for something different
    - Choosing to Level up & following fire despite the fear that has held you back so far
    - A personal journey moving from girl to woman 
    - No longer being defined by your past and finding full self-acceptance
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    Audio production by Bethany Donkin.

    Music by Atch


    52 min
  • A Journey from SELF blame & deception to SELF discovery and living life on your own terms with Elisa Kurylowicz | Ep 12

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    Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. 
    Welcome to a brand new episode of Lessons in Love. If you are on a path of SELF discovery, I just know you will adore this episode.
    In this conversation, I am talking to Elisa Kurylowicz.
    We hear Elisa's take on:
    - A very real account of the journey to SELf discovery
    - A history of self-blame and how to break free from that mind-set
    - Experiencing deception in relationships
    - How to make the move into becoming independent (in the purest way) & self-loving.
    - What it takes to discover who you are and begin to live life on your details
    - The rollercoasters of dating and feeling ready for love

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Work with Carly Ann⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Audio production by Bethany Donkin.

    Music by Atch


    1 hr 5 min
  • Healing Your "I am not enough" Wounds and Choosing Healthier, Safer, AVAILABLE Relationships with Amy Rushworth

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    Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. 


    In this episode, I am joined by Amy Rushworth and we discuss:

    - Feeling unlucky in love &  not enough
    - How to stop thinking you are the problem
    - The journey to attracting secure, healthy, and safe relationships
    - What we mean by "safe" (this is for you if safe sounds boring)
    - Training your attachment system to manage anxiety in dating & relationships
    - Choosing Yourself
    - Building wholeness through self-worth & inner child work


    Follow Carly Ann on Instagram:  @carly.ann_
    or go to
    www.carly-ann.co.uk

    Audio production by Bethany Donkin.

    Music by Atch



    Support the show

    BOOK YOU 90 minute CLARITY CALL


    Other useful links:

    • Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
    • Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
    • Follow Carly Ann on Instagram
    • To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]



    53 min
  • What Love is Not: Listen to Carly Ann's Love Story & Lessons in Love

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    A must listen if you experience anxiety, insecurity, and attachment struggles in your dating and love life.
    In this very unique episode I am answering the very questions I ask all my guests:

    * Tell us about your love story
    1. What does love mean to you?
    2. Love can be the most painful and the most amazing , how do you navigate life when love throws you off?
    3. You get to go back to any age and teach yourself a lesson in love, what would it be? (not allowed to say no regrets).

    In this episode I outline what love is NOT, they key practices that will help you come home to yourself when you are lost in love & someone else has all your attention, as well as outline the lesson we all have to remember as we try and navigate this crazy things called love

    Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: @carly.ann_
    or go to
    www.carly-ann.co.uk

    Audio production by Bethany Donkin.

    Music by Atch



    Support the show

    BOOK YOU 90 minute CLARITY CALL


    Other useful links:

    • Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
    • Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
    • Follow Carly Ann on Instagram
    • To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]



    40 min

About Lessons in Overthinking & Obsessing

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The podcast that explains why people obsess, overthink, attach too deeply, and lose themselves in relationships. If you struggle with obsessive thinking, overthinking, racing thoughts, self-critical…

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