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By Heather Gray, LICSW
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The podcast currently has 72 episodes available.
This week, we dive into a painful and often unexpected aspect of dealing with a narcissistic mother: betrayal trauma. When your mom’s smear campaign turns family and friends against you, the emotional fallout can be overwhelming. It’s real and it’s another trauma. Listen in to learn how to reclaim your sense of self amidst the chaos.
If today’s topic resonates with you, remember that you don’t have to go through it alone. Join Tuesday Group, a supportive community where we navigate these challenges together. We meet every Tuesday at noon PST.
Mentioned in the credits: Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things, a resource I created to help you manage the difficult conversations in life, love, and work.
In the second part of this difficult and vulnerable conversation, we’re diving into two more of your most pressing parenting questions.
First, we’ll explore how to pull yourself out of a shame spiral when you’ve made your child feel bad. Then, we’ll tackle the challenge of managing your child’s big feelings when those emotions trigger you and make you want to shut down.
These are tough topics, but you don’t have to navigate them alone.
If today’s discussion resonates with you and you’re looking for a space to connect with other daughters facing similar challenges, I’d love to invite you to join Tuesday group.
It’s a welcoming drop-in group where we support each other through the ups and downs of recovery- including motherhood.
Here’s the link to join—we’d love to have you with us.
Mentioned in the credits: Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things, a resource I created to help you manage the difficult conversations in life, love, and work.
This week, with the vulnerability of one listener sharing her story and questions in her own voice, we’re tackling one of the most sensitive topics we can cover on the show—mothering when you are the daughter of an emotionally limited or narcissistic mother.
We’re talking about how the wounds from your own upbringing can impact your ability to nurture, set boundaries, and connect emotionally with your children.
This is generational curse-breaking stuff, ladies. You’ll gain insights and strategies to break the cycle and create healthy and loving environments for your kids.
And if you’re feeling the need for more support as you navigate these challenges, I invite you to join our Tuesday Group.
It’s a safe space where you can connect with other daughters, share your experiences, and find the support you need to continue healing.
JOIN HERE.
Join us as we begin this important two-part discussion.
Question for the show? Want my two cents on your parenting conundrum? [email protected]|
Today, we hear directly from a daughter, in her own words and in her own voice.
We’re diving into the challenges of grieving and healing from narcissistic abuse when going no contact isn’t an option. Learn strategies for managing ongoing emotional pain and abuse while being financially dependent and feeling trapped by a narcissistic mother.
Identify ways of healing, finding strength, and setting boundaries when your narcissistic mother is still in your life. This is a difficult path that requires you to meet yourselves with compassion. I hope you find some here, too.
If you're looking for a supportive community to help navigate these challenges, consider joining our Tuesday Group.
It's a space where you can connect with others who truly understand your journey and work together on building the strength and resilience needed to heal.
Learn more and sign up.
Have time for a quick chat? I wanted to talk to you about a confusing but important part of trauma work: Navigating the distinction between trauma brain and wise mind.
In this mini episode, I am walking you through how to identify when trauma brain is taking over and how to reconnect with your wise mind for better decision-making and coping.
If you’ve ever struggled with knowing which voice to trust, I’m offering practical strategies to help you navigate the maze.
Friendly neighborhood reminder: This is hard stuff and you don’t always have to figure it out alone.
Consider this your standing invitation to join us for Tuesday Group. This is the kind of thing we will be talking about and figuring out together every week.
Group is here to support you on your journey toward healing and self-trust.
Fawning is a common response for those who have experienced childhood narcissistic abuse. I’ll review what it is, how it can show up in relationships, and how to address it.
Then, we talk about how to stop attracting people who take advantage of your fawning tendencies.
Listen in for practical strategies you can use to stop fawning behaviors and how to replace fawning with healthy boundaries.
Learn to protect your mental health and emotional well-being.
With tools, insights, and new strategies, you can break free from patterns that have held you back and kept you down for your whole life.
If Mayhem has helped you in your narcissistic abuse recovery journey or if you appreciate the dedication and effort behind episodes like this one, consider becoming a sponsor. Support the show by purchasing Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things, a resource I created to help you navigate tough conversations in life, love, and work.
I'm excited to announce that registration is now open for Tuesday Group—a virtual peer support group specifically for daughters of narcissistic or emotionally limited mothers.
This group is designed to help you navigate challenges like low self-esteem, boundary-setting, people-pleasing, and decision-making in a safe and supportive community.
Important Details:
*** We will start with 8 sessions to gauge interest and need for a group such as this.
We'll focus on peer support, shared experiences, and practical strategies for healing, helping you feel more grounded, connected, and confident in your recovery journey.
If you're ready to join a community of women who truly understand what you're going through, JOIN HERE.
If you have any questions or concerns or need help deciding if group is for you, feel free to reach out to me directly at [email protected].
I look forward to seeing you in group!
In this important episode of Mayhem, we dive into a difficult topic that daughters of narcissistic and emotionally limited mothers may encounter: Borderline Personality Disorder.
There is a complex interplay between the trauma of narcissistic parenting and its impact on your mental health.
One daughter shares her BPD diagnosis. Listen in as I walk through the challenges, misconceptions, and stigma around this diagnosis and what it means for sufferers.
It’s my hope that you’ll also hear the hope for recovery because it is possible.
Every week, I say it: You're in a community of women around the world who are in this with you. I am, too.
Now, I am working to make this a little more true by building a group. I am hoping you'll come.
Listen in to learn more. Stick around as I also share a personal story and some tips for managing your inner critic.
WAITLIST CLOSED. Stay tuned for link to join group.
This week, we’re talking about the struggles of the invisible daughter whose childhood household was dominated by a narcissistic mother.
Many daughters of narcissistic mothers learn to play it safe, stay in their lane, and become “vanilla” to avoid criticism and conflict. But living in the shadows comes at a high cost.
Listen in for ways to reclaim your voice, take up space, and embrace being seen.
If you have felt overshadowed or silenced by a narcissistic mother, this episode is for you.
If you have gotten value from this show and have found that it has aided your own narcissistic abuse recovery, I invite you to become a sponsor of the show through your purchase of Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things, a resource I created to give you the words for the hard conversations in life, love, and work.
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