On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Do you believe in "right person, wrong time"?

Do you have realistic expectations about dating?

Today, Jay will discuss the popular notion of the "right person at the wrong time." He explains that this idea often stems from nostalgia, which can distort our memories by emphasizing the positive aspects of past experiences and minimizing the negatives. This romanticized view of the past can prevent us from addressing present realities and hinder our ability to form healthy relationships.

Jay also talks about the various factors that influence relationships, such as a person's relationship status, goals, and healing journey. He argues that a person's current circumstances, such as being newly single or single for a long time, significantly shape who they are and their readiness for a relationship. Furthermore, in a healthy relationship, partners should respect and support each other's goals rather than expecting complete alignment. He also highlights the importance of patience and mutual support in the ongoing process of healing from past traumas.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to align goals in a relationship

How to manage expectations

How to build a healthy relationship

How to embrace new possibilities

By letting go of romanticized notions of the past and embracing the present, we open ourselves to genuine connections. Be open, curious, and positive about dating, we can find meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:00 Right Person, Wrong Time

03:37 Nostalgia Overshadows the Negative Experiences

11:15 Relationship Status

13:34 Goals

15:50 Trauma

18:26 Potential

20:24 Standards

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Are you a perfectionist? 

Do you ever spend time alone in silence? 

Today, Jay sits down with Melinda French Gates, co-chair of the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation and founder of Pivotal Ventures to talk about her journey from studying computer science at Duke University to working at Microsoft, and eventually transitioning into philanthropy.

Melinda highlights the importance of goal setting and quiet reflection, practices instilled in her from a young age; the challenges women and people of color face in achieving equality, emphasizing the need for more inclusive policies and support systems; and the importance of diverse representation in leadership and decision-making roles.

Melinda shared insights into her parenting approach, emphasizing the importance of instilling values of kindness, responsibility, and giving back to society. She also shared her journey of grappling with the decision to publicly support contraceptive access, which conflicted with her Catholic faith. This decision involved deep reflection, discussions with family and friends, and a significant amount of time spent questioning and reconciling her beliefs. 

Later in the conversation, Melinda highlighted several key lessons she learned later in life, such as the realization that the world is not equally accessible to everyone, particularly women and people of color. This understanding fueled her advocacy for creating more inclusive environments and breaking down barriers that prevent these groups from reaching their full potential​. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to embrace change positively

How to spend time alone 

How to set and achieve goals

How to overcome imposter syndrome

How to teach children the value of service

How to build a culture of giving

How to foster kindness and gratitude

Take a moment to reflect, give yourself grace, and celebrate your authentic self. Let’s grow together, one imperfect step at a time.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:58 Takeaways From Dealing with Change

04:26 Positive Mindset on Change

06:54 Where Did Your Dream Start?

10:18 Spending Time in Silence

12:11 Cultivate Relationships with Trusted People

14:12 Lessons Learned as a Parent

16:05 Not Everyone is Given the Same Opportunity

18:20 Equality for All in the Community

20:24 The Demand of Contraceptives Worldwide

24:41 The Imposter Syndrome

27:20 The Beauty in the Imperfections

30:01 Spiritual Group of Different Religions

33:36 Wisdom from Different Age Group

34:59 Addiction to Perfection

37:05 Stop Judging Yourself and Others

40:56 Equating Grace to Guilt

42:53 Finding Grace After Divorce

46:48 Be Kind to Yourself While Processing Pain

48:36 You Will Find Happiness Again

51:13 Empowering Women and People of Color

54:12 Breaking Down Biased Excuses

59:29 Kindness, Talent, and Luck

01:00:54 Children of Famous Parents

01:04:24 Creating a Culture of Giving

01:12:45 Melinda on Final Five  

Episode Resources:

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Melinda French Gates | Facebook

Melinda French Gates | TikTok

Melinda French Gates | LinkedIn

Melinda French Gates | X

Melinda French Gates | YouTube

The Moment of Lift: How Empowering Women Changes the World 

Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation

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Have you been wanting to lose weight? 

Do you want to transform your body with your workouts?

Senada Greca is widely known as Kim Kardashian’s Personal Trainer as well as a renowned fitness and wellness expert. Senada shares her transformative journey from struggling with depression and anxiety to becoming a thought leader in fitness. She is the founder of We Rise, a female empowerment platform focused on health, wellness, and personal development, and Zen toa, a women's athletic apparel brand. Senada has trained high-profile clients such as Miranda Kerr, Bebe Rexha, and Kim Kardashian.

Senada's turning point came when she discovered the mental health benefits of strength training, shifting her focus from aesthetics to holistic well-being. Emphasizing the importance of building consistent fitness habits, she advocates starting small and integrating workouts into daily routines. Senada underscores the myriad benefits of strength training, particularly its role in enhancing bone density, muscle mass, and longevity, and preventing injuries, especially as one ages.

Together with Jay, Senada advises against relying on motivation alone and suggests finding ways to incorporate physical activity into busy schedules. Senada gives tips on the importance of a holistic approach to health, combining physical fitness with mental and emotional well-being practices like meditation, gratitude, and visualization. She also gives easy habits to implement in your daily nutrition. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to start a fitness routine

How to optimize your nutrition

How to use strength training for longevity

How to stay active every day

Remember, motivation isn't just about feeling pumped up every day; it's about building habits that become second nature. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:59 Do You Have a Fitness Goal?

06:06 What Can You Do in 5 Minutes?

09:29 Were You Always Fit?

12:01 The Dangers of Depleting Your Body

13:25 What Workout Works for You

15:03 How Strength Training Affect Longevity

18:20 What Most People Struggle With

23:50 The Right Reward System to Being Fit

25:14 Biggest Misconceptions About Strength Training

26:50 What Should You Eat Before Workout?

28:32 Genetics

30:12 Low Body Fat Percentage

31:13 Cardio

34:05 Practicing for a Marathon

35:17 Nutrition Plan

38:04 Muscle Loss

41:28 Anxiety and Depression

43:40 Do You Workout Everyday?

45:21 Working with Kim

47:13 Are You Serious About Working?

49:43 Managing Nutrition vs. Workout

50:51 Workout without a Trainer

52:26 The Power of the Mind

55:45 Senada on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Senada Greca | YouTube

Senada Greca | Instagram

Senada Greca | Facebook

Senada Greca | TikTok

WeRise

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Why do we always put things off until the last minute?

How can we stop the habit of procrastinating?

Today, let's welcome Rob Dial, host of the Mindset Mentor Podcast and author of "Level Up." Jay and Rob reminisce about their seven-year friendship, sharing how their mutual interests in mindset and Eastern spirituality brought them together. 

The conversation delves into the role of fear in holding people back, with Rob distinguishing between primal fears (like pain and death) and intellectual fears (like failure and rejection). He offers strategies to overcome these fears by focusing on positive outcomes instead of negative possibilities. They also explore the topic of procrastination, with Rob emphasizing the importance of having a strong "why" to drive motivation and action. 

Rob reflects on his spiritual journey and how silence and introspection have helped him find peace and purpose. He also shares the key lesson he has learned: what we seek externally is often something we need to find within ourselves.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to overcome fear

How to connect with your 'WHY'

How to overcome procrastination

How to change negative thought patterns

How to accept and love all part of yourself

Let's continue to seek deeper understanding and connection with themselves, emphasizing the value of inner peace and presence.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:53 Starting a Podcast

04:04 Why Do We Struggle to Focus?

09:17 Dealing with Intellectual Fear

14:44 What’s Your Most Repeated Thought?

18:20 What is Your WHY?

24:49 Overcoming the Fear of the Unknown

30:32 Going for the Things You Aspire

35:39 There Are Different Forms of Addiction

41:53 Our Truth is Always within Us

46:50 Take a Pause to Reconnect with Yourself

50:22 The Duality of What We Value

55:44 How Do You Pick Yourself Up?

59:40 What Life Lesson That Changed You?

01:04:41 Lesson Learned the Hard Way

01:07:48 Rob on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Rob Dial | Website

Rob Dial | Instagram

Rob Dial | Facebook

Rob Dial | TikTok

Rob Dial | LinkedIn

The Mindset Mentor Podcast

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Do you and your partner share values?

How do you support each other emotionally?

Today, Jay taps into the  idea that love alone is not sufficient to sustain a healthy relationship. While love is important, other elements such as shared values, emotional maturity, consistent patterns of behavior, and trust are crucial for long-lasting partnerships. Societal norms often romanticize love, leading people to overlook these essential factors.

Jay discusses the significance of understanding and respecting each other's values, as well as recognizing and addressing patterns of behavior. Emotional maturity, which involves managing and expressing emotions healthily, is highlighted as a key component of a stable relationship. Support and partnership are deemed more critical than love alone.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to communicate your value to your partner

How to develop emotional maturity

How to support your partner's emotional growth

How to build trust in your relationship

Remember, love is important, but building a relationship on trust, values, and emotional maturity is key.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:07 Do They Love Me?

04:42 #1: Love Makes Us Forget the Importance of Values

08:56 #2: Love Makes You Forget Patterns of Behaviour

16:09 #3: Love Makes You Forget How They Treat You

19:29 #4: Love Versus Support

21:46 #5: You Forget the Importance of Trust

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How are smartphones linked to anxiety?

What mental health issues are linked to excessive social media use?

Today, let's welcome Jonathan Haidt is a renowned social psychologist, professor at New York University’s Stern School of Business, and a widely published author. He is known for his research on morality, culture, and the psychology of happiness. Jonathan's influential books include "The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion" and "The Coddling of the American Mind." His latest work, "The Anxious Generation," examines the profound impact of social media on young people's mental health.

Jonathan highlights the unprecedented global collapse of mental health among youth, describing it as more significant than the COVID-19 pandemic, with girls being particularly affected by anxiety and depression, and boys showing significant social development issues.

The conversation also addresses the academic debate regarding the root causes of this mental health crisis, with Jonathan presenting compelling data and experimental evidence to support his view that social media is a primary driver. He offers actionable solutions, including delaying smartphone and social media use until later ages, implementing phone-free school policies, increasing outdoor play, and advocating for collective action by parents and communities. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to create a healthier digital environment for kids

How to implement age-appropriate tech usage

How to encourage outdoor play and physical activities

How to talk to children about the risks of social media

How to foster resilience and emotional strength in kids

How to create a supportive community for parents

Together, let's take a comprehensive look into the mental health crisis the youth is facing today and take note of the practical strategies for creating a healthier environment that supports their well-being.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:55 Global Synchronized Collapse of Mental Health

08:12 Social Media is for Adults to Network

10:20 The Science Behind Anxiety

14:51 Variation of Emotions is Necessary for Kids

17:45 Play Helps Kids Learn

19:12 How to Make Playtime More Effective?

22:59 The Effects of Technology on Different Genders

29:24 Going Through Puberty on Social Media

32:08 How Parenting Has Changed with Technology

34:27 Efforts to Regulate Smartphones Use for Children

44:21 Women Are Always Judged for Their Looks

49:26 Verified Social Media Account

56:58 Why Tap Into Our Spirituality

01:03:56 What is Happening to Us?

01:11:31 The Greatest Distraction of Human Value

01:16:23 Jonathan on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Jonathan Haidt | Website

Jonathan Haidt | Instagram

Jonathan Haidt | Facebook

Jonathan Haidt | X

Jonathan Haidt | YouTube

Jonathan Haidt | LinkedIn

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Do you often feel exhausted or burnt out?

Are you struggling to manage your stress levels?

Today, Jay talks about exhaustion, burnout, and stress, highlighting their prevalence with statistics showing that a significant portion of young adults and women report feeling drained. He introduces a practical approach to tackle these challenges, encapsulated in the "triple A" formula—Accept, Action, Attention—which encourages acknowledging negative feelings, taking actionable steps to address them, and paying mindful attention to one's mental state

Jay also introduces the concept of "reset periods," whether it's an hour, half-day, or full day, to allow for complete mental and physical rejuvenation. The importance of self-compassion is also emphasized, encouraging individuals to replace inner criticism with supportive self-talk, which can significantly improve overall well-being.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to break negative thought cycle

How to manage your energy levels

How to use stress strategically

How to practice self-compassion

How to get out of stressful situation

Don’t let exhaustion control your life—take action today and start feeling refreshed and empowered. Listen now and share with someone who needs a boost!

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:06 Do You Feel Drained?

03:10 #1: Learn to Break Repetitive Thoughts

06:27 #2: You Don’t Need to Be on Full Energy All the Time

10:20 #3: Learn to Say NO

14:05 #4: Be Strategic with Your Time

17:02 #5: Have a Reset Day

18:35 #6: Be Kind to Yourself

19:59 #7: Allow Yourself to Vent and Let It Out

21:24 #8: Get a Restful Sleep 

23:00 #9: Wash Your Mind the Night Before

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How does gratitude aid during emotional struggles?

How does focusing on positives improve our emotional well-being?

Today, let's welcome supermodel, content creator, actor, and philanthropist Taylor Hill. Discovered at the age of 14, Taylor has worked with fashion houses and luxury brands around the globe and has graced the covers of prestigious fashion magazines, including Vogue. Beyond her modeling career, Taylor is the founder of Tate and Taylor, a media content platform and community inspired by her late Labradoodle, Tate. 

Taylor speaks candidly about her emotional journey with her late Labradoodle, Tate and the profound bond she shared with him,  describing how he was more than just a pet – he was a soulmate and a source of unwavering support. She also opens up about the challenges and triumphs of starting her modeling career as a teenager, highlighting the pressures and responsibilities that came with her rapid rise to fame.

Inspired by her journey with Tate, Taylor founded Tate and Taylor, a media content platform and community for pets and their humans. She explains the mission behind this venture, which aims to support pet owners and raise awareness about animal welfare.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to handle emotional challenges

How to manage early career success

How to stay fit mentally and physically

How to manage grief and loss

How to pursue your purpose

How to find joy and gratitude everyday

Taylor's story is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the healing power of unconditional love, an inspiring message for anyone facing their own struggles and searching for meaning in their experiences. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:50 Earliest Childhood Memory

09:30 Modeling at 14 

12:52 Going to School Wasn’t For Me

15:26 Victoria Secret Model

18:18 Audition Process for Models

20:20 Having the Right Team

24:52 Discipline of a VS Model

33:32 VS Comeback

38:55 Experiencing Burnout

42:12 Losing Tate

51:33 The Signs and Symptoms

01:13:01 Healing From Losing Your Pet

01:19:40 Pregnancy and Miscarriage 

01:44:52 Alone Time While Grieving

01:53:02 Emotional Support From Your Partner

02:04:01 Everyone’s Journey is Different

02:10:39 Building the Tate and Taylor Brand

02:20:52 A Brand for a Cause

02:24:48 Taylor on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Taylor Hill | Instagram

Taylor Hill | Facebook

Taylor Hill | TikTok

Tate & Taylor

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Do you compare your relationship to others?

How can you identify and manage your triggers for comparison?

Today, Jay introduces the concept of social comparison theory, explaining the differences between upward - where we compare ourselves to those we perceive as better off, can lead to feelings of inadequacy if done with envy rather than a mindset of learning, and downward comparisons which involves comparing ourselves to those worse off, which can provide a temporary boost in self-esteem but is ultimately unproductive and unkind.

He shares practical strategies for reducing comparison, such as being mindful of social media usage, identifying personal triggers, and investing in self-improvement. Jay also stresses the importance of understanding the deeper, often hidden aspects of people's lives and why we usually compare our internal struggles with others' external successes, leading to a distorted and unfair self-assessment.

In the episode, you'll learn:

How to identify your goals

How to set mutual goals

How to be mindful of your triggers

How to invest in self-improvement

By seeking deeper connections and understanding the full context of others' lives, we can develop more empathy and reduce the impulse to compare and shift our focus from external comparisons to internal growth and relational strength, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and authentic life.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:28 Comparing Ourselves to Other People

04:32 Social Media Makes Unhealthy Comparison

05:27 The Two Social Comparison Theory

12:53 Everyone Has Different Values

14:26 Focus More on the Good You’re Doing

16:11 Focus on What It Take For You to Get There

17:39 Get to Know People Deeply

19:33 Be Conscious of Your Own Triggers

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Do you want to be able to detect the early warning signs of disease? 

Do you want to learn how to manage your stress effectively? 

Today, Jay welcomes Dr. Casey Means, a Stanford-trained physician, a leading voice in the field of metabolic health, and the co-founder of Levels, a company dedicated to improving health through continuous glucose monitoring. She is also an author, with her latest book, "Good Energy," focusing on metabolic health and its impact on overall well-being. Dr. Means has been featured in prominent publications such as The New York Times, The New Yorker, The Wall Street Journal, and Forbes. 

Dr. Casey Means highlights the alarming rise of chronic diseases, including diabetes, heart disease, and obesity, which she attributes to the modern lifestyle and its impact on our metabolic systems. She emphasizes the importance of understanding metabolic health, which she describes as the body's ability to efficiently convert food into energy at the cellular level and encourages us to take control of our health by becoming more attuned to our bodies and the signals it sends. 

Jay and Dr. Means focus on the importance of a balanced diet, adequate sleep, regular physical activity, stress management, and reducing exposure to environmental toxins. And the inspiring stories and scientific evidence to illustrate how simple lifestyle changes can lead to significant improvements in health. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to improve metabolic health

How to manage stress effectively

How to make dietary changes

How to optimize sleep

How to trust your own body

How to stay physically active

This compelling vision for a future where individuals are empowered with the knowledge and tools to take charge of their health, leading to happier, healthier, and more fulfilled lives is attainable. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:55 Who Do We Trust with Our Health?

12:12 Become the Healthiest Version of You

18:27 What is Metabolic Health?

25:39 2 Ways Your Body Communicates with You

34:56 The Concept of Inflammation within the Body

40:15 How Does the Health System Work?

51:33 Why Ban Pharmaceutical Company Ads?

56:42 How Banning Pharma Ads Will Affect the Economy

01:02:47 Academic Research Funded by Pharma

01:05:35 Eliminate Added Sugar in School Lunch

01:11:05 The 5 Essential Biomarkers

01:23:10 How You’re Eating Matters

01:24:37 The Benefits of 7000 Steps

01:29:37 What is Social Jetlag?

01:34:51 We Are a Process Not an Entity

01:44:57 Casey on Final Five

Episode Resources:

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Casey Means | Instagram

Casey Means | Twitter

Casey Means | Facebook

Casey Means | YouTube

Casey Means | TikTok

Casey Means | LinkedIn

Good Energy: The Surprising Connection Between Metabolism and Limitless Health

Levels

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