On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Do you often feel unappreciated by your partner?

Do you avoid addressing issues to keep the peace?

Today, Jay tackles a common yet often overlooked issue in relationships: subtle settling. He begins by acknowledging the pervasive uncertainty many people face about their partners and the fear of being alone that often drives them to stay in unfulfilling relationships. Is it true that the lack of current excitement or passion necessarily indicates settling.

One of the key questions Jay poses is whether individuals feel they can be their true selves with their partners. He highlights the importance of authenticity in relationships, sharing anecdotes about how people often hide or underplay parts of themselves to be more likable, which ultimately leads to losing their true identity.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to foster emotional availability

How to deal with unrealistic expectations

How to ensure mutual respect in your relationship

How to discuss important issues in a healthy way

Healthy communication is another crucial aspect in all relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to ensure they are not compromising their happiness and well-being in their relationships.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:24 Subtle Settling

02:26 #1: Do You Feel Like You Can Truly Be Yourself?

07:18 #2: Do You Discuss Important Things In A Healthy Way?

13:19 #3: Do You Feel A Sense Of Respect?

15:36 #4: Are You Scared Of Being Lonely?

20:58 #5: Do You Compare Your Partner To Other People?

22:23 #6: Do They Understand Why You Are The Way You Are?

23:53 #7: Can They Tolerate Your Weaknesses And Can You Tolerate Theirs?

24:53 #8: You're Subtle Settling If It's A Financial Decision

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What does healing your inner child mean?

How can you heal from past trauma?

Today, let's welcome Grammy-nominated global superstar, Anitta, who has become a leading artist of a new generation of Latin American music. Her album "Versions of Me" surpassed 1 billion streams on Spotify, and she earned a Grammy nomination for Best New Artist in 2023. Known for her energetic performances and bold personality, Anitta is also deeply spiritual, integrating various practices to maintain her well-being and authenticity.

A significant part of the episode focuses on the duality of Anitta's identity. She explains how she balances her stage persona with her true self, Larissa, and the importance of nurturing both. Anitta shares the struggles she faced with comparisons, societal expectations, and the pressure to maintain a certain image. Her journey towards self-acceptance and self-love is a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit. 

Jay and Anitta also talk about the importance of staying grounded amidst success, sharing her daily routines that include meditation, energy cleansing, and connecting with nature. Despite facing criticism and backlash, she remains committed to expressing and celebrating her culture through her music and public appearances.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to stay grounded amidst success

How to overcome comparisons

How to heal from past trauma

How to manage your health

How to cultivate self-love

How to handle criticisms

Anitta's story is a reminder that true success is not just about external achievements but also about inner peace, self-love, and staying connected to one's roots.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:39 How Do You Prepare for a Performance?

05:05 Meditation Practice

08:17 How Elevate Your Energy

11:06 Comparison is Making Us Unhappy

16:04 Successful But Unhappy

29:24 Doing Things for Your Happiness

37:04 Health Scare

38:10 Healing Emotional Trauma

42:46 What Are You Here For?

45:19 Getting Off Birth Control

51:12 Two Energy in One Body

58:32 Society’s Double Standard in Dating

01:01:38 Different Religion and Faith

01:11:30 We All Have a Choice

01:16:10 Challenges and Hardships Along the Way 

01:24:22 Dealing with Conflicts

01:29:14 Opportunities for Better Exposure

01:34:14 Finding Balance in Life

01:35:21 Anitta on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Anitta | Instagram

Anitta | Twitter

Anitta | Facebook

Anitta | YouTube

Anitta | TikTok

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How can you recognize when you need to slow down?

And what are the benefits of slowing down in everyday life?

Today, Jay addresses the growing concern about how to slow down in our fast-paced world. Many of us feel like time is flying by, and Jay offers practical tips to help us feel more present and in control. 

Jay recommends connecting with ourselves, looking at our schedule, and reaching out to loved ones. By waking up 20 minutes earlier than needed, this small change can set a calm tone for the day. And there is power in silence and spending time in nature. Silence helps reduce our brain's cognitive load, and being in nature makes us feel more present and less rushed.

Throughout the episode, Jay provides easy-to-follow advice to help us slow down and enjoy life more fully, reminding us that slowing down is about being more present, not doing less.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to slow down time

How to change your daily habits

How to plan for your day

These small changes can make a big difference in how you experience time. Remember, there's more to life than increasing its speed. Let's slow down together and savor every moment.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:31 Time Flies By So Fast

04:21 #1: Wake Up 20 Minutes Before You Actually Have To

08:40 #2: One Device At A Time

11:35 #3: Take 30 Seconds To Engage All Five Senses

13:44 #4: Obey Speed The Limit

16:32 #5: Being Present With Your Breath To Align Your Body And Mind

18:25 #6: Find And Create Moments Of Silence Everyday

21:19 #7: Observe And Be Present In Nature

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How can changing your mindset help you learn from mistakes?

And what are the benefits of viewing challenges as learning opportunities?

Today, let's welcome Charles Leclerc. Charles is Formula One racing driver who competes for Scuderia Ferrari in the FIA Formula One World Championship. Charles gained attention for his impressive performances in junior categories, winning titles in series such as GP3 Series and FIA Formula 2 Championship. He made his Formula One debut with Alfa Romeo Sauber F1 Team in 2018 before joining Ferrari as their lead driver in 2019.

Charles offers a behind-the-scenes glimpse into the life of a professional race car driver. He narrates through the twists and turns of the race track, uncovering the passion, dedication, and relentless drive that propel them forward. And the secrets behind preparing and training for the race, with sleep emerging as the ultimate priority for peak performance.

Jay and Charles talk about the invaluable lessons learned from mistakes, emphasizing the importance of humility, gratitude, and resilience in the face of challenges. We gain insights into the profound impact of family, mentors, and teammates, and the pivotal role they play in navigating the highs and lows of the racing journey. From confronting fears to embracing growth, from channeling grief into fuel for success to staying grounded amidst soaring achievements, this conversation offers a masterclass in determination and perseverance. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to never lose focus

How to become number one

The importance of family time

The strength of an efficient team

How to practice teamwork

Together, let's hear the untold stories and hidden truths behind the glitz and glamor of the race track. Tune in and prepare to be inspired by the unstoppable spirit of a true racing champion. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:12 Get to Know the Person Behind the Wheels

03:09 If You Weren’t a Race Car Driver, What Would You Have Been?

04:28 When Was the First Time You’ve Driven a Car?

06:23 How Do You Prepare and Train for a Race

09:21 Sleep is the Number One Priority

13:40 How You React to Mistakes is Super Important

14:47 Losing Focus Will Cost You a Lot

17:34 Gratitude for the Team You Work with

19:08 What Scares You Off Track?

20:25 Channeling Grief into Growth

22:19 “What Would My Father Want Me to Do?”

23:19 Keep Important People Close Especially in Difficult Moments

25:03 Always Stay Humble and Grateful

26:08 In the Midst of Success, How Do You Stay Humble?

28:23 What Criticism Hurts the Most?

31:39 Car Racing Remains a Dangerous Sport

32:55 Speed Isn’t the Only Important Part of F1 Racing

34:19 Training is Different for F1 Drivers

37:09 Have You Seen the Movie “The Rush”?

39:07 Different Driving Experiences

40:15 I Love Playing the Piano

42:52 How Much Time Do You Spend with Family?

44:47 The Incredible Racing Track of Ayrton Senna

46:10 The Pros and Cons of an F1 Simulator

48:19 On Lying About Signing the F1 Contract

51:37 Is Driving a Lonely Sport?

53:40 How Important Is It to Win the Championship?

55:02 What Would You Say to Your Future Self?

56:51 How Often Do You Work with Younger Drivers?

58:56 “I Love What I Do But I Want to Be the Best.”

01:00:27 Charles on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Charles Leclerc | Website

Charles Leclerc | Instagram

Charles Leclerc | Twitter

Charles Leclerc | Facebook

Charles Leclerc | YouTube

Charles Leclerc | TikTok

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Are you struggling with finding someone to talk to?

What can you do during a mental health crisis?

Today, Jay offers a wealth of practical advice aimed at enhancing mental health through simple, actionable changes. Drawing on his partnership with the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), Jay emphasizes the importance of recognizing Mental Health Awareness Month and the critical need for accessible mental health support.

Jay provides a blend of personal anecdotes, research-backed insights, and practical advice, making it a must-listen for anyone looking to improve their mental well-being. He wraps up the episode with a heartfelt message of support, reminding listeners that he is always in their corner, rooting for their success and happiness.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How small changes create big impact

How to improve at something you like to do

How to take care of your mental health

The simple practices to change your routine

If you or someone you know is struggling, remember that there is help available. Let's work together to promote mental health awareness and support each other in our journey towards better mental well-being.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:20 #1: Practice A Good Evening Routine

09:24 #2: Plan Something For Yourself And Someone Else

14:31 #3: Get Better At The Things You’re Good At

17:13 #4: Coloring Books Helps Your Mind Relax

20:13 #5: Spending Time Outdoors Helps Reduce Stress

22:05 #6: Sugary Foods Weakens the Body’s Response to Stress

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What motivates your weight loss journey?

How do you stay motivated when progress is slow?

Today, Jay welcomes Johan Hari. Johan is an acclaimed writer and journalist known for his deep investigative work on topics ranging from addiction to depression. He is the author of best-selling books like "Chasing the Scream" and "Lost Connections," which explore the root causes of addiction and depression, respectively. His latest book, "The Magic Pill," investigates the new generation of weight loss drugs and their impact on individuals and society. 

Johan shares the story of how he first learned about these drugs at a Hollywood party and his subsequent journey to understand their true effects. This journey took him across the globe, interviewing leading experts and individuals who have experienced the drugs’ effects firsthand. He candidly shares his own experiences with Ozempic, including the unexpected emotional challenges he faced as his long-standing relationship with food was disrupted.

The conversation also explores the broader societal implications of widespread use of weight loss drugs. Johan and Jay discuss the potential for these drugs to change cultural attitudes towards body image and obesity, for better or worse. They consider the economic ramifications, such as the declining market for fast food and medical procedures related to obesity, and what this might mean for the future of public health.  

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to evaluate benefits versus risks

How to navigate social stigmas

How to deal with obesity

How weight loss drugs could shape future societal norms

The psychological reasons behind overeating

This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the complexities of modern weight loss solutions, offering a balanced view that considers both the remarkable benefits and the significant risks.

This interview took place at Soho Home at Soho Works 55 Water. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:30 Is the British Accent Authoritative?

04:16 Biggest Misconceptions About Ozempic

08:20 Three Ways to Treat the Magic Pill

11:35 How Obesity Became a Health Crisis

19:42 ‘I Don’t Feel Hungry’

28:17 The Benefits and Risks of Weight Loss Drugs

34:36 Shame and Cruelty Against Obesity

47:09 Advocating for Body Positivity

54:14 Is the Fast Food Industry Shrinking?

57:26 Big Risks When Taking Ozempic

01:06:34 Varying Clinical Results

01:14:18 The Most Horrific Side Effect Recorded

01:16:11 Is Ozempic Safe for Kids?

01:19:22 Oprah’s Ozempic Challenge

01:22:50 Is It Cheating?

01:26:41 Investing in Weight Loss Drugs Research

01:27:30 How Japan Is Able to Control Obesity

01:37:01 The Cultural Models We Can Learn from Japan

01:40:23 Better Eating Habits is Still Necessary

01:42:52 Johan in Final Five  

Episode Resources:

Johann Hari | Website

Johann Hari | TikTok

Johann Hari | Instagram

Johann Hari | Facebook

Johann Hari | YouTube

Johann Hari | Twitter

Magic Pill: The Extraordinary Benefits and Disturbing Risks of the New Weight-Loss Drugs

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Why is it challenging to acknowledge when you're lying to yourself?

How can one maintain a habit of honesty in daily life?

Today, let's welcome The Breakfast Club co-host Charlamagne tha God. He is a prominent media personality and New York Times bestselling author, best known for his candid approach to celebrity interviews and his advocacy for mental health. His latest book, "Get Honest or Die Lying," challenges readers to forego the superficial and engage in meaningful, transformative dialogue.

Charlamagne shares his insights on the societal detriments of small talk and why  superficial conversations are not only a waste of time but also a significant barrier to meaningful human connection and understanding. He argues that the small, meaningless exchanges that fill our daily interactions should be replaced with deeper, more substantial dialogues that challenge, enlighten, and engage us on multiple levels.

With Jay, Charlamagne explores the psychological and social impacts of engaging in—or avoiding—small talk. He illustrates his points with personal anecdotes and experiences, including his own struggles and breakthroughs in striving for more genuine interactions in both his personal life and professional endeavors. He stresses the importance of being present in conversations, listening actively, and expressing one’s true thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to initiate deeper discussions

How to be honest in conversations

How to set personal boundaries

How to reflect on personal growth

How to encourage others to engage

This episode not only challenges listeners to evaluate the quality of their own conversations but also inspires them to make every word count in the quest for deeper understanding and genuine relationships.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

You can pre-order Charlamagne’s latest book, Get Honest or Die Lying here: https://www.simonandschuster.com/p/get-honest-or-die-lying-preorder

This interview was held at Soho Home at Soho Works 55 Water.

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:01 Why Small Talk Doesn’ Work

05:15 Be Honest About Your Feelings

08:00 How Do You Stop Being Offended?

09:27 Realizations During Therapy

12:14 Not Setting Proper Boundaries

13:32 Stop Being a People Pleaser

16:50 Online Oversharing

18:13 Detaching from Your Ego

20:23 Getting Caught Up in Lies

23:33 Passing Judgment on People We Don’t Know 

29:09 Confronting a Cheating Father

34:48 In-Tune with Your Visions

39:21 Why Some Things Don’t Work

42:36 Successful But Unhappy

01:03:10 Don’t Make a Decision Based on Emotion

01:06:32 Don’t Confine Yourself In Small Boxes

01:13:24 Honest Conversations with Your Kids

Episode Resources:

Charlamagne tha God | Website

Charlamagne tha God | TikTok

Charlamagne tha God | Instagram

Charlamagne tha God | Facebook

Charlamagne tha God | YouTube

Pre-order Get Honest or Die Lying

Black Privilege: Opportunity Comes to Those Who Create It

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Why is it important to listen to your inner voice?

How can you cultivate a stronger connection with your inner voice?

In this episode, let's welcome Laura Lynne Jackson, a renowned psychic medium, author, and spiritual teacher, celebrated for her profound ability to bridge the physical and spiritual worlds. She has authored several influential books, including "The Light Between Us" and "Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe," which delve into the ways we can connect with the afterlife and harness our own psychic abilities.  She is widely respected for her compassionate approach and her commitment to helping others discover the transformative power of their own inner voices. 

Laura shares personal stories and professional experiences that illustrate the transformative power of tuning into the inner wisdom. She outlines practical steps anyone can take to cultivate a stronger connection with their inner voice, such as meditation, reflective practices, and journaling. These activities help clear the mental clutter, allowing the inner voice to emerge more clearly and influentially.

Jay and Laura also explore common challenges people face, like doubts and confusion about following this inner guidance, and provide reassuring advice on how to overcome these obstacles. Laura also stresses the value of trusting and acting on the insights provided by the inner voice, highlighting how this trust can lead to a more authentic, fulfilling life.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to identify your inner voice

How to cultivate genuine connection

How to interpret your feelings

How to trust your intuition

How to apply insights to everyday life

As you become more attuned to this powerful guide, you'll find clarity and direction in areas of life where you need it most. Don’t ignore it; embrace it and let it lead you to a more connected and fulfilling life.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:05 The Difference Between a Psychic and a Medium

06:59 We All Have Psychic Abilities

09:50 Discovering Your Own Ability

17:31 My Brainwave Patterns Are Different

22:04 The Psychic Abilities We Aren’t Aware Of

32:17 Weakened Disconnection to Our Inner Voice

35:50 Standing Firm with Your Moments of Knowing

40:41 How to Reconnect with Disconnected Relationships?

49:32 What Does Infatuation Mean?

55:27 Vibrations of Love

01:04:44 Living in the Present

01:10:26 How Important Are Tangible Signs

01:17:02 The Answers is Within Us

01:23:14 Being Still Within Yourself

01:25:19 Death Is Not A Dead End

01:35:02 How to Connect with Your Soul?

01:39:20 Getting Into Your Light Energy

01:42:44 Laura on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Laura Lynne Jackson | Website

Laura Lynne Jackson | TikTok

Laura Lynne Jackson | Instagram

Laura Lynne Jackson | Facebook

Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe

The Light Between Us: Stories From Heaven. Lessons for the Living

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Are you struggling with setting your boundaries?

Do you want to know how to respectfully tell others about your boundaries?

Today, Jay questions the traditional notion that a "good person" is one who never says no. This outdated definition leads to a lack of boundaries, which ultimately harms personal well-being. By redefining what it means to be a good person, one can recognize the importance of investing in themselves and navigating difficult conversations.

What does setting boundaries truly mean? They are defined not by what we want from others, but by what we need for ourselves. Jay explains that boundaries should not aim to control others but should protect the individual from their own triggers and provides practical advice on how to communicate boundaries effectively, suggesting the use of simple, clear statements without over-explanation.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to set boundaries without feeling guilty

How to NO effectively

How to communicate boundaries clearly

How to handle other people's reactions

How to build confidence in setting boundaries

Don't wait to reclaim your time, energy, and peace of mind—take control and become the assertive, self-respecting individual you deserve to be.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:31 Boundaries Are Often Tough to Set

03:45 #1: Redefine What Your Boundaries Are

09:05 #2: Clearly Communicate Your Boundaries

11:48 #3: Be Kind, Honest, and Empathetic to Other People’s Reaction

15:07 #4: You Subconsciously Sound Defensive When Setting Your Boundaries

17:53 #5: Plan a Buffer

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Are you struggling with initiating difficult conversations?

Are you struggling with having difficult conversations with family members?

Today's guest is the hilarious and incredible story teller Tiffany Haddish, Emmy and Grammy-winning actress, comedian, and author. Known for her breakout role in "Girls Trip" and her New York Times bestselling book "The Last Black Unicorn," Tiffany has become one of the most influential voices in comedy with her sharp wit, resilience, and authentic storytelling. 

Tiffany and Jay have a vulnerable conversation with a candid look into Tiffany’s life, showcasing her journey from a challenging upbringing to becoming one of Hollywood’s brightest stars. Tiffany shares the emotional and often tumultuous experiences she faced growing up in foster care. Despite these challenges, she credits these early adversities for instilling in her a resilience that later became instrumental in her career. Tiffany discusses how humor became her coping mechanism and how it eventually became a tool for empowerment.

Jay and Tiffany also talk about relationships and the lessons she has learned from her experiences. She opens up about her past relationships and how they shaped her understanding of love, vulnerability, and self-respect. We get to listen to the healing power of laughter, the importance of community, and the role of faith in overcoming life’s challenges. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to overcome adversity

How to turn pain into humor and use it as fuel

How to embrace vulnerability

How to handle criticism

How to advocate for yourself 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:08 Built to Have Fun

04:19 Emotional Hoarder

07:16 Celibacy

12:11 Being with the Wrong Person

15:41 Do You Believe in Past Life?

18:06 Who Do You Want to Date?

20:10 Growing Your Own Garden

22:48 Growing with a Creative Mind

25:05 Worst Thing About Being Me

29:11 Dealing with Online Hate

31:36 She’s Not My Mom Anymore

37:46 Processing and Dealing with Grief

43:36 Resenting and Forgiving My Father

48:46 The Phone Call with My Dad

55:24 Let’s Understand People’s Stories

57:59 Self Care is a Process

01:02:15 My Father Was Sick

01:05:07 Make Home in Your Childhood Community

01:10:29 The Love to Entertain People

01:18:07 What Would Little T be Proud Of?

01:20:24 Childhood Dreams

01:25:09 TIffany on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Tiffany Haddish | TikTok

Tiffany Haddish | Instagram

Tiffany Haddish | YouTube

Tiffany Haddish | Facebook

The Last Black Unicorn

I Curse You with Joy

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