Seeing Other People

Ricky Liorti joins us to discuss how he's made his single years some of the best years of his life, even while navigating the emotional impacts of a breakup. Ricky shares how he turned his rollercoaster of love and heartbreak into art through his book Heartbreak Love. He opens up about therapy, the importance of prioritizing oneself, and the critical role emotional support plays in relationships. We discuss why you should be picky when dating, what women get wrong about men, what makes a perfect DM slide, and so much more.

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Vanessa Gordon, CEO of East End Taste Magazine, shares her journey of reentering the dating world after her divorce. From being married for 17 years to discovering casual dating in Europe, Vanessa opens up about her personal growth, challenges, and the newfound freedom of being Vanessa 2.0. She discusses the significant impact of her past relationships on her identity and offers advice for others contemplating major life changes, emphasizing the importance of self-care and being open to new experiences.

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On today's episode, Julie Krafcik and Yue Xu of the Dateable Podcast return to discuss their new book, 'How to Be Dateable.' They delve into the importance of vulnerability, self-knowledge, and authenticity in modern dating, addressing the traps of contemporary dating culture such as the 'settling paradox' and 'relationship chicken.' They emphasize the significance of showing up and being intentional with one's energy in dating, and how true connection can be achieved by leading with curiosity and honesty. The episode highlights practical advice on overcoming common dating pitfalls, maintaining self-growth, and ensuring one's needs are communicated and met within a relationship.

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I'm joined by a woman in her thirties living in a small mountain town, who opens up about her experiences navigating singlehood, repeated heartbreaks, and the complexities of dating in a small town close-knit community. She delves into the impact of infidelity, unrequited love, and emotionally unavailable partners, as well as the challenges of moving on while constantly encountering exes. Despite the struggles, she offers insights on establishing boundaries and pursuing personal growth, advocating for self-awareness and emotional well-being in relationships.

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Renee Reina, founder of 'The Mom Room' and host of 'The Mom Room Podcast,' joins the show to discuss the expectations versus reality of marriage and the dynamic shifts in relationships after having children. Drawing from her background in psychology and her experiences as a mother and content creator, Renee offers insights into balancing personal goals with relationship responsibilities, the evolving stages of love, the importance of effective communication and teamwork in partnerships. She shares advice on maintaining a healthy and fulfilling marriage while navigating the challenges of parenthood, how to reconnect with your partner when things feel dull, and more.

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A former anonymous Unfiltered guest is back to share her experiences with the importance of self-validation, solo traveling, and the nuances of modern friendships. The guest, who recently lost her job, shares insightful anecdotes on maintaining self-esteem and navigating life amidst singlehood and uncertainty of what lies ahead. We emphasize the significance of meaningful relationships and how to balance personal highs and lows within them.

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In this episode, we sit down with Thais Gibson, an attachment style expert and founder of The Personal Development School. Thais shares her background and how her chaotic childhood inspired her to delve into the world of relationships and attachment styles. She explains the four major attachment styles—secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and their origins and effects on adult relationships. Thais also provides actionable advice on dating, communication, and building trust.

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Carli, a former Unfiltered guest, is back to share her recent experience dealing with "the shift" AKA a sudden communication change in the early stages of dating someone new. She shares how she's approached the shift by managing her anxiety, being upfront, and communicating her needs. We share advice on how to approach dating when things start to feel off, and we answer listener questions about making dates feel less like interviews, what to do when they say they need space, and how much someone's physique matters in a relationship.

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In today's episode, we welcome Nicole Pellegrino and Caroline Crawford Patterson, co-hosts of the podcast Honey, We're Home. The conversation covers everything from the unexpected depths of friendships formed in adulthood to the evolving dynamics of long-term relationships. Caroline and Nicole share personal anecdotes about meeting their partners in college, dealing with life's unexpected challenges, and the reality versus expectations of marriage. They also discuss the importance of maintaining personal hobbies, mutual support through difficult times, and the significance of continuously dating your partner. The episode is filled with laughs, heartfelt moments, and practical advice on cultivating meaningful relationships and friendships in your 20s and beyond.

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We welcome back Erika Ettin to get her best dating coaching tips. Erika takes us through her journey from tracking her own online dating experiences to becoming a top dating coach and building her thriving business 'A Little Nudge'. We delve into her approach of giving hard truths with kindness, managing dating app messages, and offering effective online dating strategies. We'll explore modern dating challenges, including communication, mindset, and handling rejection. Listener questions guide us through identifying red flags, dealing with the need for validation, and starting to date if you've never been in a serious relationship. Join us as we uncover invaluable tips for dating success and personal growth.

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