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Seeing Other People episodes

  • Unfiltered: The Psychological Impact of Getting Ghosted

    On today's episode, I sat down with a woman who recently experienced being ghosted for the first time by a man who lived a few doors down from her. We hear how she processed being ghosted, how she didn’t feel the way social media and people in her life were telling her she should feel and how she used this experience to go down a path of self healing and self discovery. Later we find out what happened when they reconnected, and where they are now, and how the way she handled this experience changed her for the better.

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    Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!



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    53 min
  • Anatomy of a Gentleman with Levon The Gent

    This episode is for the boys who want to be gentlemen, and for the girls who want to get inside a gentleman’s brain. I chat with James (Levon The Gent) Nichols II, founder of The Gent Code, who helps men become the best version of themselves in life, in dating, and in relationships. We discuss what it means to be a gentleman, the biggest dating pain points that men face (and how to overcome them), why genders react to breakups differently, why men seem to be afraid of commitment, and more.

    Are you ready to treat yourself or your friend to the best cookies ever? Batter That Matters is my absolute obsession and everyone who tries their cookies falls in love with them. Head to ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!

    Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations

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    1 hr 6 min
  • Unfiltered: Don't Blame The Other Woman

    On today’s episode I sit down with a woman who shares her experiences being cheated on, later meeting the other women, and realizing they were not the ones to blame. We discuss how she found out she was cheated on, what it was like learning to trust again, and how she and these women helped support each other. We discuss why being cheated on has nothing to do with you, whether or not you should let someone know if you know they’re being cheated on, and more.


    Tis the season and Batter That Matters's cookies tis the perfect holiday gift. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!

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    Need sleep? I got you covered. Mindset Wellness CBD's Rest Gummies contain a perfect mix of CBD & melatonin that help you get the rest that you need. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!



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    52 min
  • Does "The One" Exist? Closure, Dealbreakers, and more with Erica & Molly

    I’m joined by the hilarious Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier, hosts of Shooters Gotta Shoot. We’re diving into the results of the Instagram polls you’ve voted on, debating the winners, and sharing our own opinions on each. We break down what happens at the end of a date, being a guest or bringing a guest to the holidays, first date deal breakers, how much someone’s relationship history matters, if you need closure to move on, if "the one" is out there, and more.

    Erica runs a private virtual Herpes Support Group. Sign up here or email [email protected] for more information or if you’re interested in joining!

    Are you ready to treat yourself or your friend to the best cookies ever? Batter That Matters is my absolute obsession and everyone who tries their cookies falls in love with them. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!

    Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection!

    Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    54 min
  • Bonus: An Emotional Last Episode From My Childhood Home

    Subscribe here to access this bonus episode and all previous and future bonus episodes.

    My parents sold my childhood home and we move out in three weeks. I'm feeling emotional and nostalgic, so I'm reflecting on growing up, adulting, moving on, friendships, past relationships and heartbreaks. 

    I also share an exciting relationship milestone that happened this week! 


    23 min
  • Dating While Grieving with Krista St. Germain

    Krista St-Germain is a mom, grief expert and life coach for widowed moms and host of the Widowed Moms Podcast. She joins the show today to discuss sex, dating, and love after experiencing the traumatic loss of a partner or any individual in your life. We discuss the grieving process and why it isn’t linear, knowing when to start dating again, navigating the guilt around searching for a new partner, keeping their memory alive while moving on, rediscovering yourself, learning your triggers, and more.

    I'm so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall Collection and treat someone in your life (or yourself) to a box of the best cookies out there. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!

    Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection!

    We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    49 min
  • OCDating with Lindsay and Emily Stetzer

    Lindsay and Emily Stetzer are sisters living with obsessive-compulsive disorder and anxiety, which led them to create Presently, a mindfulness jewelry company that helps you redirect your thoughts and return to the beauty of the present moment, wherever you are. Lindsay and Emily walk us through the different types of OCD, how their diagnoses impacted them, and how their OCD does and doesn’t affect their daily lives. They open up about how their OCD has impacted their past relationships and their current dating lives, as well as the tools they have learned to not let their mental health hold them back. Follow @presentlybracelets and treat yourself or a friend to an anxiety-soothing bracelet from Presently this holiday season at presentlybracelets.com Use code "seeingotherpeople" for 20% off your purchase. 

    Tis the season for Friendsgiving and Batter That Matters's Fall Collection of cookies is the perfect thing to bring. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!

    Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection!

    We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1 hr 1 min
  • Learn About Divorce Before Getting Married with Kate Anthony

    Kate Anthony, certified divorce coach and host of The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, joins the show. We discuss how to decide if you should stay or leave your relationship, what factors lead to a divorce being amicable vs messy, and how to actually go about getting a divorce. We chat about prenups, couples therapy, the US litigation system, children of divorce, co-parenting, dating after divorce and more. Nobody goes into a relationship or marriage planning on getting divorced, which is why this episode is a must-listen even if you’re single or in the beginning stages of a relationship.

    I'm so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall Collection and treat someone in your life (or yourself) to a box of the best cookies out there. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!

    Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection!

    We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    55 min
  • Unfiltered: Even Therapists Get Their Hearts Broken

    On Unfiltered, I sit down with a 26 year old social worker and therapist who practices in New York City. We hear about her dating experience in her late teens and early twenties that led to the heartbreak that shaped who she is today. She shares what it’s like to date as a therapist, what she learns from her patients, what it’s like to hear her patients be vulnerable all day long while she struggles being vulnerable and more.

    Im so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall Collection and treat someone in your life (or yourself) to a box of the best cookies out there. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!

    Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection!

    We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    53 min
  • Bridesmaid for Hire & Surviving Weddings Single with Jen Glantz

    On today’s episode I’m joined by Jen Glantz, founder of Bridesmaid For Hire, 3x author, and host of You’re Not Getting Younger. Jen and I discuss how to cope with being the only one of your friends who isn’t engaged, going to weddings solo while feeling depressed about your own love life, and what you should expect if you have never been a bridesmaid before. We learn how we can best support our bride and groom friends, if/when we should offer our opinions on their wedding planning, common mistakes people make when it comes to wedding planning, and more. She shares her own love story and gives us an inside look at wedding horror stories, love stories, and everything in between that she has witnessed since she founded Bridesmaid For Hire.

    I'm so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall Collection and treat someone in your life (or yourself) to a box of the best cookies out there. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! 

    Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! 

    We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! 




    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    50 min

About Seeing Other People

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Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with…

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