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Delanie's book, MockTales: 50+ Literary Mocktails Inspired by Classic Works, Banned Books, and More, is officially available for pre-order! Tune in for information about exclusive pre-order gifts, where Delanie will be popping up for book signings and events, how to submit questions for a special episode of the podcast coming up, and a spur-of-the-moment competition that can get you featured as a guest on Self-Helpless!

FOR DIGITAL GIFTS

Pre-order MockTales anywhere online by, or before, January 6th to get your digital goodies (bonus mocktail recipes that cannot be found in the book!). Once ordered, email your receipt to [email protected] to claim your secret recipes:

MockTales @ Target: https://www.target.com/p/mocktales-by-lindsey-smith-delanie-fischer-hardcover/-/A-92697579

MockTales @ Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/mocktales-lindsey-smith/1146145848

MockTales @ Powell's Books: https://www.powells.com/book/mocktales-9781684817092

MockTales @ Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/MockTales-Literary-Mocktails-Inspired-Classic/dp/1684817099

FOR DIGITAL + PHYSICAL GIFTS

For ALL pre-order gifts including the bonus recipes + a custom bookmark, drink stir, and sugar for rimming, order MockTales from One Idea Books And Gifts (the first 200 customers will receive this pre-order package): https://www.oneideapress.com/product-page/mocktales-50-literary-mocktails-by-delanie-fischer-and-lindsey-smith

*Those who order from One Idea Books And Gifts do not need to email a receipt to claim their digital recipes.

GUESS THE RECIPES COMPETITION (WINNER ANNOUNCED FEB. 7th)

Send a list of your best guesses to [email protected] by, or before, Friday, February 7th for a chance to be featured on The Self-Helpless Podcast. Tune in for details.

SUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS FOR DELANIE & LINDSEY

If you're subscribed to Delanie's email list https://www.delaniefischer.com/ (The D-List), The Self-Helpless email list https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/ (Self-HelpList), Self-Helpless on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless, or you follow Self-Helpless on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/selfhelplesspodcast/?hl=en (@selfhelplesspodcast) you'll be notified when we're collecting questions.

Didn't catch the email or post? Submit your questions about publishing, podcasting, writing, creativity, and more to [email protected] for a chance to get your question answered on the podcast.

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Delanie Fischer is joined by Sav Clements, who shares about experiencing depression, self-harm, suicidal ideation, and attempts over a decade ago — including invaluable insights for parents and other loved ones who may not be aware that their friend or family member is struggling. This episode is part of our series, "Subscriber Stories," and listener discretion is advised.

Plus:

+ How 1 Conversation Can Save A Life

+ The Story Behind Sav's Favorite Phrase

+ 10 Things To Consider For Self-Care

IF YOU NEED TO TALK, CRISIS LIFELINE: https://988lifeline.org/

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Indian-American writer, Nishima Gupta, shares her experience witnessing her parents' divorce (that they kept secret from her for 3 years), how culture impacted their decisions, and what it's taught her about love and relationships.

Full episode with Nishima Gupta: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/29b0fba4/my-parents-kept-their-divorce-a-secret-for-3-years-with-nishima-gupta

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Delanie Fischer is joined by friends and activists, Jamie Logan and Justina Adorno, to discuss how they've integrated activism into their daily lives and careers, how they each approach criticism, burnout, and self-care, and the importance of finding community as an activist. Whether you want to get more involved in a cause you care about but don't know where to start, you feel stuck and need some inspiration, or you want to get paid for your activism, there's tons of great advice in this episode.

Plus:

+ 1 Mindset Hack For Handling Online Criticism

+ Ever Been Told You Care Too Much? You're Probably An Activist.

+ 6 Ways To Get Paid For Activism (And Feel Creatively Fulfilled)

More episodes related to this topic:

Spiritual Activism with Racial Justice Educator, Rachel Ricketts: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/255a24cd/spiritual-activism-with-racial-justice-educator-rachel-ricketts

Defiant Dreams with Sola Mahfouz and Malaina Kapoor: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/226e5e22/defiant-dreams-with-sola-mahfouz-and-malaina-kapoor

How To Stay Informed with Noor Tagouri: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/d0c5e15d/how-to-stay-informed-with-noor-tagouri

7 Things To Keep Out Of Your Closet (For Good) with Trend Expert And Animal Advocate, Ashley Frohnert: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2550df3e/7-things-to-keep-out-of-your-closet-for-good-with-trend-expert-and-animal-advocate-ashley-frohnert

You can submit and vote on episode topics here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

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Licensed marriage and family therapist and doctor of psychology, Dr. Sahar Martinez, shares fascinating scientific findings regarding generational trauma and offers guidance for parents who fear they may pass their own trauma down to their kids.

Full episode with Dr. Sahar Martinez: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2132563d/healing-generational-trauma-with-dr-sahar-martinez

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Associate Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and former President of the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, Dr. Luana Marquez, shares the function of both our "emotional" and "critical" brain, why we should try to approach vs. avoid our anxiety, and how to apply your values to your weekly schedule.

Full episode with Dr. Luana Marquez: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1c7d47b0/is-it-anxiety-or-generalized-anxiety-disorder-with-dr-luana-marquez

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Delanie Fischer is joined by Sharon Okun, who shares about her experience with Lyme Disease and Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome— the symptoms she's experienced over the years, why it took so long to diagnose, and what's helped her feel better, manage daily responsibilities, and pursue passion projects. If you, or someone you love, is experiencing a chronic illness, this episode has so much to offer, and is part of our series, "Subscriber Stories."

Plus:

+ An Epic Toolbox of 50+ Tips And Resources

+ The #1 Modality That Changed Everything

+ A Move That Was 25 Years In The Making

More episodes related to this topic:

Living With A Chronic Illness (Type 1 Diabetes) with Walt Drennan: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/3588b4cf/living-with-a-chronic-illness-with-walt-drennan

A Shocking Connection Between Trauma And Thyroid Health with Judith Gonzalez: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/22ae66d2/a-shocking-connection-between-trauma-and-thyroid-health-with-judith-gonzalez

My Dad Was Diagnosed With Lewy Body Dementia with Erika Martin: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/21b228bf/my-dad-was-diagnosed-with-lewy-body-dementia-with-erika-martin

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Social justice activist and founder of "The Body is Not An Apology" movement, Sonya Renee Taylor, shares the reality behind "cancel culture" and how we can all become more compassionate and empathetic towards each other while navigating harm.

Full episode with Sonya Renee Taylor: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/327baacc/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd-with-licensed-therapist-nadirah-habeebullah

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Delanie Fischer is joined by Dr. Samantha Harte, author of Breaking The Circuit: How to Rewire Your Mind for Hope, Resilience and Joy in the Face of Trauma, to discuss perfectionism, addiction, and recovery. Dr. Harte shares how her accomplishments masked her struggle with addiction (like getting accepted into a postdoctoral program the very same day she overdosed on cocaine), why her rock bottom actually happened 5 years into sobriety vs. at the height of her addiction, and why she had to reimagine and modernize the 12 steps in order to successfully apply them to her life.

Plus:

+ The Most Important Amends That Addicts Might Ignore

+ Building A New Relationship With The Same Partner

+ Healing From Betrayal (And An Analogy You Won't Forget)

More episodes related to this topic:

7 Shocking Truths About Codependency And Addiction with Heidi Rain: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24c74079/7-shocking-truths-about-codependency-and-addiction-with-heidi-rain

Sex and Love Addiction with Sex Addiction Therapist, Alex Katehakis: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/316e9795/sex-and-love-addiction-with-sex-addiction-therapist-alex-katehakis

Exploring Perfectionism with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/d69d8eee/exploring-perfectionism-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischer

Working The 12 Steps with Amanda Hill: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/237b7862/working-the-12-steps-with-amanda-hill

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Licensed marriage and family therapist, Nadirah Habeebullah, provides an overview of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), a treatment that can help, and how we can talk to a loved one who is experiencing this disorder.

Full episode with Licensed Therapist, Nadirah Habeebullah: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/327baacc/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd-with-licensed-therapist-nadirah-habeebullah

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Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

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