Self-Helpless
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  • Rethinking Intuition, Belief, and The Nature of Reality with Vincent Genna

    Delanie Fischer is joined by Psychic Therapist and author of The Secret That's Holding You Back, Vincent Genna, to discuss a fresh approach to intuition, unlearning unconscious beliefs, and what truly shapes our collective (and individual) reality.

    Plus:

    + Debunking The Myths of "Positive Thinking" & "Tapping Into" Intuition

    + Why Your Ego Is Not Your Enemy (And How You'd Feel Without It)

    + The 2 Core Beliefs That Keep Us Stuck In Survival Mode


    More episodes related to this topic:

    Was it Gut Instinct or Self-Sabotage? with Delanie Fischer and Em Schulz: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/238ed6e8/was-it-gut-instinct-or-self-sabotage-with-delanie-fischer-and-em-schulz

    Spiritual Experiences (Coincidence or Woo-Woo?): https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24707c31/spiritual-experiences-coincidence-or-woo-woo

    A Step-By-Step Manifestation Exercise with Intuitive Consultant, Jennifer Wai: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/224cee0c/a-step-by-step-manifestation-exercise-with-intuitive-consultant-jennifer-wai

    The Importance of Your Dreams (Literally) with Claudia Barfoot: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2078ac9f/the-importance-of-your-dreams-literally-with-claudia-barfoot

    Practical Spirituality with Pete Holmes: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/ed300b16/practical-spirituality-with-pete-holmes

    Support the podcast, vote on topics, and more: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

    Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

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    52 min
  • Self-Helpless Snack: Rewriting Your "Food (& Drink) Story" with Elise Museles

    Today's "Snack" (mini episode) is a snippet from Delanie Fischer's appearance on Elise Museles' podcast, Once Upon A Food Story, where the two discuss fun, simple, and imperfect steps towards health, mindfulness, and sustainability around what we consume, habit-building, and more.

    Full episode with Delanie and Elise on Once Upon A Food Story here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/make-self-improvement-fun-imperfect-and-doable/id1448917116?i=1000699848628

    Delanie's new book, MockTales: 50+ Literary Mocktails Inspired by Classic Works, Banned Books, and More, is now available online most places where books are sold including Barnes & Noble, Target, Amazon, and more—and in-store at select retailers: https://www.delaniefischer.com/

    You can support The Self-Helpless Podcast, vote on topics, and more here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

    Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

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    18 min
  • Does "The American Dream" Feel Like a Nightmare? Rethinking Lifestyle, Financial Planning, and Retirement with Dr. Jay Zigmont

    Delanie Fischer is joined by Certified Financial Planner and Childfree Wealth Specialist, Dr. Jay Zigmont, to discuss how vital it is to rethink traditional systems around wealth, financial planning, and retirement—because they don't work for many of us. Through the lens of a child-free lifestyle, Dr. Jay shares how to ensure that our current life, and retirement plan, actually reflects our values and goals—including the most important question to ask your financial planner to avoid an enormous conflict of interest. Whether you have kids or not, this episode will forever change the way you approach the systems we live in.

    Plus:

    + Is The "Die With Zero" Concept Actually a Better Fit For You Than Traditional Advice?

    + FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) vs. FILE (Financial Independence, Live Early)

    + Do You Want To Opt Out of Home Ownership And Pursue Something Else?


    More episodes related to this topic:

    Creating a Life Brief and Getting "Fuzzy Clear with Bonnie Wan: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/251bf5df/creating-a-life-brief-and-getting-fuzzy-clear-with-bonnie-wan

    Making Less And Living More with Creator of Lore and Lust Karla Nikole: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24656068/making-less-and-living-more-with-creator-of-lore-and-lust-karla-nikole

    Do We Want Kids? with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/3bde4f0a/do-we-want-kids-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischer

    Lessons Learned From 5 Years of RV Life with Jamie Feinberg: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/23bebe71/lessons-learned-from-5-years-of-rv-life-with-jamie-feinberg

    Let's Define What Enough Means To YOU: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/20310cb2/lets-define-what-enough-means-to-you


    Support the podcast, vote on topics, and more: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

    Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

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    1 hr 2 min
  • Self-Helpless Snack: Are You Clinging, Withholding, Fixing, or Controlling? with Heidi Rain

    Author of "Codependent Attachment Personality Patterns," Heidi Rain, shares how unmet needs in childhood show up in adult relationships, what these behaviors can actually look like, and how to break a cycle you're tired of feeling stuck in. Plus, an awesome template for healthy relationships.

    Full episode with Heidi Rain: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24c74079/7-shocking-truths-about-codependency-and-addiction-with-heidi-rain

    You can support the podcast, vote on topics, and more here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

    Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

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    17 min
  • Self-Helpless Snack: "Mind-Reading," Feeling Suffocated, And Other Problematic Relationship Dynamics with Dr. Kate Balestrieri

    Licensed Psychologist, Dr. Kate Balestrieri, describes insidious relationship patterns, their origins (and their impact) including: the pressure to mind-read, feeling engulfed or suffocated, oversharing mature information, tasks that aren't age-appropriate, living vicariously or "best friends" parent-child dynamics, and more. Plus, how to give yourself grace if you're caught in any of these cycles, and steps you can take to create new behaviors.

    Full episode with Dr. Kate Balestrieri: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/316bfe5c/how-enmeshment-trauma-impacts-every-relationship-you-have-with-dr-kate-balestrieri

    You can support the podcast, vote on topics, and more here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

    Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

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    33 min
  • We Need Your Art! For Health, Community, and More with Amie McNee

    Delanie Fischer is joined by Amie McNee, Author of We Need Your Art: Stop Messing Around And Make Something, to discuss the importance of creativity for our health, communities, and more. They chat about the challenges and rewards of being a multidisciplinary artist and multi-hypenate, offer insights into their own rituals and approach to work, as well as share practical tips and mindset shifts for overcoming perfectionism, rejecting burnout culture, and thriving in your unique creative practice.

    Plus:

    + Why Creativity Is The Missing Link In Health & Wellness Narratives

    + How To Choose Yourself (and Your Art) vs. Waiting on Gatekeepers

    + The Illusion of Scarcity and Competition in the Creative Space


    More episodes related to this topic:

    Publishing, Podcasting, and Creative Entrepreneurship with Lindsey Smith and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/23bfb9d7/qanda-publishing-podcasting-and-creative-entrepreneurship-with-literary-agent-lindsey-smith-and-podcaster-delanie-fischer

    10 Powerful Journal Prompts with Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/f034e4d1/10-powerful-journal-prompts-with-delanie-fischer-and-kelsey-cook

    Why We Love The Artist's Way By Julia Cameron with Delanie, Taylor, and Kelsey: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/21aa97b2/why-we-love-the-artists-way-by-julia-cameron

    The Power of 1 with Te’Jani, The Artist Behind The Latest Self-Helpless Theme Song: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/22447af0/the-power-of-1-with-tejani-the-artist-behind-the-latest-self-helpless-theme-song

    Exploring Perfectionism with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/d69d8eee/exploring-perfectionism-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischer

    How A Collage Changed My Life with Tatum Elizabeth: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/245a1122/how-a-collage-changed-my-life-with-tatum-elizabeth


    Support the podcast, vote on topics, and more: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

    Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

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    1 hr 9 min
  • Self-Helpless Snack: "What's Your Favorite Documentary?" (20 Documentaries To Watch This Year)

    Delanie Fischer answers the question from a patron, "What's Your Favorite Documentary?" and shares a bit about 20 documentaries that have been discussed, or mentioned, on Self-Helpless through the years by guests and hosts alike.

    Want your question answered on the next mini episode? Submit it here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

    Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

    20 Documentaries To Watch

    1. Stink! https://www.instagram.com/stinkmovie/?hl=en
    2. Earthlings: https://www.nationearth.com/
    3. They're Trying to Kills Us: https://www.theyretryingtokillus.com/
    4. Minimalists: https://www.theminimalists.com/films/
    5. The Social Dilemma: https://www.netflix.com/title/81254224
    6. Pignorant: https://pignorantfilm.com/watch
    7. Forks Over Knives: https://www.forksoverknives.com/the-film/
    8. Fake Famous: https://www.amazon.com/Fake-Famous-Chris-Bailey/dp/B08VGXB8C2
    9. Cowspiracy: https://www.netflix.com/title/80033772
    10. The Failed Experiment: https://www.amazon.com/The-Failed-Experiment/dp/B0CQ5GYHCM
    11. What The Health: https://www.netflix.com/title/80174177
    12. Christpiracy: https://christspiracy.com/
    13. The Smell of Money: https://www.amazon.com/Smell-Money-Elsie-Herring/dp/B0CNRGFYQS
    14. Gamechangers: https://gamechangersmovie.com/the-film/where-to-watch/
    15. Dominion: https://www.dominionmovement.com/watch
    16. Take Your Pills: https://www.netflix.com/title/80117831
    17. Blackfish: https://www.netflix.com/title/70267802
    18. Seaspiracy: https://www.netflix.com/title/81014008
    19. Tidying Up with Marie Kondo: https://www.netflix.com/title/80209379
    20. Chimp Crazy: https://www.amazon.com/Chimp-Crazy-Season-1/dp/B0D6DR2MXV
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      15 min
    22. Deceptive Affection, Betrayal Trauma, and Multidimensional Healing with Támara Hill

      Delanie Fischer is joined by Licensed Psychotherapist and International & Board Certified Trauma Therapist, Támara Hill, to discuss betrayal trauma —including deceptive affection, symptoms of this kind of trauma, the initial (and ongoing) impact it can have, and a multidimensional approach to healing.

      Plus:

      + Your "Life as a Platter" Analogy & Growth Mindset

      + Learned Helplessness, Enmeshment, and PTSD

      + A Journaling Ritual You Might Want to Try Next!

      More episodes related to this topic:

      Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) with Licensed Therapist, Nadirah Habeebullah: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/327baacc/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd-with-licensed-therapist-nadirah-habeebullah

      When My Husband Came Out: Infidelity, Divorce, and Friendship with Jessica Frew: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/229e6642/when-my-husband-came-out-infidelity-divorce-and-friendship-with-jessica-frew

      How To Build Self-Trust with Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/3109f4db/how-to-build-self-trust-with-delanie-fischer-and-kelsey-cook

      How to Fix a Broken Heart by Guy Winch: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/9c478f77/how-to-fix-a-broken-heart-by-guy-winch

      Support the podcast and vote on topics: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

      Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

      Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

      47 min
    23. Self-Helpless Snack: The Biggest Myth About Grieving (Debunked) with Krista St-Germain

      Krista St-Germain, widow, mom, and host of The Widowed Mom Podcast, debunks the most common myth about grief, as well as shares what practices seem to be most effective for grieving —including what's helped her navigate the loss of her then-husband.

      Full episode with Krista St-Germain: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2fc9f314/rethinking-the-5-stages-of-grief-with-krista-st-germain

      You can support the podcast here (plus, vote on topics, submit questions for guests, and more!): https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

      Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

      Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

      11 min
    24. Q&A: Publishing, Podcasting, and Creative Entrepreneurship with Literary Agent Lindsey Smith and Podcaster Delanie Fischer

      Delanie Fischer is joined by Literary Agent and Best-Selling Author, Lindsey Smith, to respond to your questions about the publishing and podcasting industries, share their experience with creative entrepreneurship, and offer a peak behind the curtain of their new book, MockTales: 50+ Literary Mocktails Inspired by Classic Works, Banned Books, and More.

      They're Addressing Questions Like:

      + How To Find A Lit Agent, Self vs. Traditional Publishing, and More

      + Making Money As A Podcaster, Streamlining Processes, and More

      + Navigating Fluctuating Finances, Prioritizing Projects, and More


      MockTales is now available on Barnes & Noble, Target, Amazon, and most places where books are sold: https://www.delaniefischer.com/

      Vote on topics, submit questions for guests, and more: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

      Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

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      1 hr 27 min

    About Self-Helpless

    From the publisher's feed

    Welcome to self-care with a conscience—where science, spirituality, and sustainability are brunch buddies. Self-Helpless explores all things on the cutting edge of personal and collective growth with leading specialists who share paradigm-shifting insights every week. Hosted by Delanie Fischer, known for her casual but fluff-free approach, Self-Helpless garners millions of downloads and aims to close the gap between one-dimensional self-help and everyday activism. Themes include conscious consumption, integrative health, cognitive neuroscience, reality studies, social conditioning, creativity, belief, and purpose (but, ya know, fun).

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