Soul Led Living Podcast with Nikki Novo

No matter how zen we try to be about dating, there's one thing women can't get around: our biological clocks.

There is nothing fun about dating when you feel like "time is running out," which is why many women opt to freeze their eggs. And while it might be common in big cities, not all of us have access to real info about the process. Not all of us have a friend who have been through the process.

In today's episode of The Final Swipe, my beautiful friend, Michelle, was so kind to share her story with us. We go deep into the details: costs, emotions, dating life... It's everything you would get from your close friend.

I think many of you will see yourself in Michelle. And through her journey, you can understand yours better.

Have you thought about the process? Are you thinking about it? Let me know your thoughts below.

We talk about:

1. Reasons why a woman might consider freezing her eggs
2. The costs related to freezing your eggs
3. The physical and emotional process of freezing eggs
4. The dos and donts of freezing
5. How freezing your eggs could affect your dating life

Resources:

1. Michelle's doctor, Dr. Zaher Merhi MD, https://www.newhopefertility.com/

We all want to feel safe. Dating is often painful because the process does not feel safe at all.

Because of this desire, we often look for our potential partner to make us feel safe. Which is natural, but sometimes we can take it a little too far and create too much pressure for this person we just met.

In today's episode of The Final Swipe, you and I are going to talk about how you can soothe your own anxiety about not feeling safe. This way, you feel empowered internally and you're not putting unnecessary pressure on this new person that you like.

I promise it won't hurt too much! Give this episode a listen and you'll feel better already.

We talk about:

1. How we can feel safe even when we're not sure of the other person's intentions
2. How we unintentionally become needy and how we can turn it around
3. Tips and tricks for easing our own worry and anxiety during the beginning stages of dating

Resources:

1. My membership program: https://nikkinovo.com/membership

One of the best things I did in in 2018 was join a sister circle. I'd heard all the hype about sisterhood, but didn't think it was for me. I'm one to think I can do it all by myself, ha!

Seriously, gathering with the same group of women, every month, for a year created so much transformation in me. For this reason, I wanted to talk to you about sisterhood. To do that, I brought on my friend Emily Cassel who spends so much time in sisterhood, on the show to expand on the topic.

Being that we're still in the beginning of 2019, I really hope you consider doing group work with like-minded women. Even though finding love seems like a goal for one, it's amazing what can happen when you're with other women who have that same intention for you and for themselves.

Listen in on this conversation and see what sticks out to you. Don't let that intuition go to waste.

We talk about:

1. Sisterhood! What it is, what it isn't and why you need it
2. How to be in our divine feminine when dating
3. How Emily found a boyfriend after only a few dates on Tinder

Resources:

1. Emily's website: https://www.emilycassel.com/
2. Emily's podcast, Sexy Soulful Success: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/sexy-soulful-success-with-emily-cassel/id1440523808

Hello lovers!

It’s our first episode of 2019. Woohoo! I was so over 2018.

I mean, there was some good stuff. We welcomed our third child into the world this year! But other than that it was all sorts of ego dying.

What’s ego dying? I talk about in this episode.

In this episode, I talk about what 2018 meant and how that will lead into 2019. I also share a few predictions for what we’ll see as a whole when it comes to love. Hint, hint: it’s good stuff.

Enjoy!

Despite wanting to find love, most of us hate dating because it makes us feel all sorts of crazy.

That crazy, uncomfortable feeling is not a sign that you need to runaway to the monastery.

That feeling is anxiety.

What's tricky is that often we don't know it's anxiety. Instead, we think that feeling means "this isn't the right thing," or "I shouldn't be dating," or "I'm not ready to date," or "Maybe I shouldn’t be dating the opposite sex," and so on.

Recognizing anxiety, and then understanding what triggers your anxiety, is going to be a huge part of your dating success.

In hopes of bringing this super important topic to light, I asked anxiety expert — and just all around beautiful human — Sheryl Paul to joins me on The Final Swipe to share her wisdom on this topic.

My friend, we are so lucky to have her. She hasn't done press in a really long time. And I did I mention she's been on the Oprah show? Yeah.

This is a must-listen to episode. And beyond this show, I hope you continue to follow her work as she'll be an amazing resource for you on this journey to love.

We talk about:

1. Anxiety! How to catch and work through it when dating
2. How to know if the person you're dating has relationship anxiety
3. How dating someone with relationship anxiety can really mess with your intuition and self-esteem

Resources:

1. Sheryl's website
2. Sheryl's new book on anxiety coming out in March 2019

For the last few months, it seems like every time I sit down to meditate with my spirit guide, I have the same vision.

It’s like a reoccurring dream, only this vision happens in meditation.

It’s basically my spirit guide saying, “Lady, until you learn this lesson, we are not moving on to the next vision.”

Spirit guides can be tough like that.

What she was trying to teach me was that my external reality is a reflection of my internal client.

Meaning, what’s going on inside: my beliefs, my negativity, my positivity, my focus is what I’m creating outside in the world.

I know this.

You know this.

Yet, we don’t always see the blocks that we’re placing in our way.

In today’s podcast, I help a beautiful woman see her blocks during a reading I did with her.

Lacey was kind enough to allow me to share a piece of her reading with you, so that we can all learn.

We talk about:

1.    Believing in what we really want

2.   How to date with an open heart, but also not be attached to the outcome when dating

3.   How to tell if we're resisting change

Resources:

1.    For making your list, I mention my book "The Final Swipe."

2.   Lacey mentions a book she loved titled, "Attached."

Why is it that some people are on dating apps for two weeks and find the love of their life? While for others, it's more like five years?

In this episode, I explain why dating luck seems to be unfair and what we can do to turn it around.

I also talk about my:

• My group coaching course: The Final Swipe Masterclass
• My bestselling dating book: The Final Swipe
• My amazing readings

Get additional help by:

purchasing The Final Swipe book

joining my masterclass

or booking a session with me

In this episode:

- I speak with astrologer Beth Bullitt

Are you really ready to find love? And if you're not, how to get yourself ready.

Need some extra help on getting ready for love?

Check out my book, “The Final Swipe”

Sign up for my masterclass

Or book a session with me